kokila is uselessly angry with gopi ... no rhyme or reason
about your comment - that has really hetal kept the family together ?
I think yes ... kokika is too aggressive ... had there been anyone except hetal, the woman would have told Kokila to shut up by now - she would say, i am elder to you in rishta and in position ... my husband's earnings run this house so you better treat me with respect ... taunting about money is a very common human reaction ...
kokila makes a great show of respecting hetal, but never minds telling her - don't interfere between me and my gopi vahu, between me and my children all the while interfering with hetal's bahu and children ...
I think hetal with her calm demeanor, her understanding nature let koki have a free run in the house therby satisfying some of her control needs ... if it wasn't for hetal, another woman might have had battle lines drawn in modi house