is 3rd person is necessary for realising true love

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i wrote my previous post'gopi knows the truth of anita' only for making clear that gopi is not unknown of anita to those member who are thinking that gopi is not knowing about anita.because in many post i read gopi would be separated after knowing about anita and ahem's love. Wheather the question of anita should come or not i think it is not necessary.at first i have doubt ahem really love him because except 1 or 2 scene it has never shown that he is missing her .by the way it may be supposed that he is a man of good character.afterthat anita comes or not it should be not material. 2nd matter is that he made marry to gopi for his mom and again he should not slip in name of his mom.and my 3rd point is that love between 2 person never can be influnced by 3rd person.if its happen then it is not a true love. Presence of 3rd person only give the birth of comparison. And whereas the question of realisation of love on part of ahem it is possible by distance of only 1 day. ... i think it has bcum boring, sorry..,...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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hey you are right the entry of third person will lead to love but the route is through comparisonnn...
Aham always compared gopi with the educated people before he even disrespected for not being educated like other woman,,, (sorry to say i think he comaped gopi with anita)
so even if anita comes back... aham should not compare gopis goodness and innocense with anita and than decide that gopi is the right wife for me... ya its not ture love its like choosing better cloth for us by comparing two new dresses...
gopi is not a spare life partner... for him...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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why anybody is no thinking in view point of ahem. He scarificied his love fo rhis mom and married agirl of his mom. BUt he don;t like a illeterate people from the beginning. So this has nothing to do with anitha or rashi or someone else. He didn;t like gopi just the reason she was uneducated and did silly mistakes... (which was done by rashi ofcourse) now his point of view has changed for gopi by educating and how much she wants to study and didn't get the opportunity. SO he loving gopi is now natural... i dont think anitha re entry will lessen his love for gopi
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Posted: 13 years ago
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anitha's track wil be posittive for gohem as ahem is still consicious around expresssing himself

around gopi. he needs opportunites to give her gifts, he needs his mother permission to come close to her.

he needs somebody to push him to wish her. all these points that he is still holding back and this can be overcome only with anitha arrival.

then he wil realzie why his mother choose her for him as once he asked her that why did u choose gopi over among all the hundred of girls?

finally he wil get answer to that and wil realize that his wife is much more sweet even though illiterate.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: savvi


why anybody is no thinking in view point of ahem. He scarificied his love fo rhis mom and married agirl of his mom. BUt he don;t like a illeterate people from the beginning. So this has nothing to do with anitha or rashi or someone else. He didn;t like gopi just the reason she was uneducated and did silly mistakes... (which was done by rashi ofcourse) now his point of view has changed for gopi by educating and how much she wants to study and didn't get the opportunity. SO he loving gopi is now natural... i dont think anitha re entry will lessen his love for gopi

i don'think ahem had sacrificed his love,he did marry to gopi under pressure of his mom.it will said sacrife if he does not arise any objection and accept happily his mom's decision. Although he accepts gopi or not as his wife it may be his personal matter .he can't behave roughly if he had made sacrife. I agree that anita should come .it will give ahem a chance to proof that his love for gopi is true and not just a attraction and can't be influenced by presence of any person or any circumstances.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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u guys r correct......i do had the same doubt ...
THX FOR MAKING ME CLEAR 😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: vaasanthi

<font color="#ff0033" face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3">u guys r correct...</font><font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3" color="#660099">...i do had the same doubt ...</font>

</div><div><font face="'Comic Sans MS', Times, serif" size="3" color="#33cc33">THX FOR MAKING ME CLEAR 😃</font>

my pleasure or pleasure is mine 😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ritika-gohem

i wrote my previous post'gopi knows the truth of anita' only for making clear that gopi is not unknown of anita to those member who are thinking that gopi is not knowing about anita.because in many post i read gopi would be separated after knowing about anita and ahem's love. Wheather the question of anita should come or not i think it is not necessary.at first i have doubt ahem really love him because except 1 or 2 scene it has never shown that he is missing her .by the way it may be supposed that he is a man of good character.afterthat anita comes or not it should be not material. 2nd matter is that he made marry to gopi for his mom and again he should not slip in name of his mom.and my 3rd point is that love between 2 person never can be influnced by 3rd person.if its happen then it is not a true love. Presence of 3rd person only give the birth of comparison. And whereas the question of realisation of love on part of ahem it is possible by distance of only 1 day. ... i think it has bcum boring, sorry..,...

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I think love should be a spontanious action like breathing, it should never be a reaction. A third person coming in is like someone acting as a catylst and i dont think its fine... Moverever i am completely against the idea of Gopi suffering...

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