sexist show, the slap was soo unecessary! - Page 3

Originally posted by: taral83

Exactly!...or had her father slapped her, it might have been ok then to. Its not like Ahem beat his sister to death or slapped her for no reason. He had a reason. And for argument sake lets say that Ahem is wrong and he did it out of anger and couldn't control himself. Then Kinjal should also be wrong because she also said what she said to her mother out of anger and little self control...thus both are wrong...lol

Originally posted by: taral83

Exactly!...or had her father slapped her, it might have been ok then to. Its not like Ahem beat his sister to death or slapped her for no reason. He had a reason. And for argument sake lets say that Ahem is wrong and he did it out of anger and couldn't control himself. Then Kinjal should also be wrong because she also said what she said to her mother out of anger and little self control...thus both are wrong...lol

the slap was unecessary period..this topic would have still been made if the elder sister had slapped her, it was unecessary...Kinjal is talking to her mother, is letting out her frustration and she does not deserved to be slapped!! slapping or hitting an older person in front of people is not right, especially if a man hits a woman it is like W*F, u tell me would Kinjal have slapped Ahem?? noo, right?? I do not even understand what gives men that authority to slap women like that! first Gopi and now Kinjal! Kokila has double standards when it comes to men and women and so does her son Ahem!

Originally posted by: nkapoor

the slap was unecessary period..this topic would have still been made if the elder sister had slapped her, it was unecessary...Kinjal is talking to her mother, is letting out her frustration and she does not deserved to be slapped!! slapping or hitting an older person in front of people is not right, especially if a man hits a woman it is like W*F, u tell me would Kinjal have slapped Ahem?? noo, right?? I do not even understand what gives men that authority to slap women like that! first Gopi and now Kinjal! Kokila has double standards when it comes to men and women and so does her son Ahem!

One thing I don't understand about this inequality of man and women is when women don't get equal rights they keep complaining that they are not put at the same level as a man. But when it comes so stuff like this, its all about being a women and how they should be respected. I am also a woman and I absolutely hate it when women complain about not being treated equally with a man and then turn around and call a man a jerk because he forgot to hold the door for her. Ahem slapped his sister, his YOUNGER sister. As I said earlier, slapping Gopi was wrong because it was without reason. I will also give a example of another serial were actually the wife slaps the husband. In Pavitra Rishta if you watch, Archna slaps Manav because he leaves her because he believed he was good for nothing. Leaving her alone to fight with life. So when he came back a few days later, she gave him a tight slap so that he would come back to his sense. No one seemed to object really on the forum except a few. So this notion of only because Kinjal is a grown woman, that doesn't mean Ahem doesn't have the right to not slap her. He is still her elder brother and when u misbehave your elders have every right to knock some sense into u. In fact, I don't even remember Ahem slap Kinjal when she told her big lie about her being prego. He in fact protected her. Kinjal made a mistake and instead of being sorry she was hateful and disrespectful. And I for one had enough of her sour and bad attitude. Its time she woke up and see what she really has...

Originally posted by: taral83

One thing I don't understand about this inequality of man and women is when women don't get equal rights they keep complaining that they are not put at the same level as a man. But when it comes so stuff like this, its all about being a women and how they should be respected. I am also a woman and I absolutely hate it when women complain about not being treated equally with a man and then turn around and call a man a jerk because he forgot to hold the door for her. Ahem slapped his sister, his YOUNGER sister. As I said earlier, slapping Gopi was wrong because it was without reason. I will also give a example of another serial were actually the wife slaps the husband. In Pavitra Rishta if you watch, Archna slaps Manav because he leaves her because he believed he was good for nothing. Leaving her alone to fight with life. So when he came back a few days later, she gave him a tight slap so that he would come back to his sense. No one seemed to object really on the forum except a few. So this notion of only because Kinjal is a grown woman, that doesn't mean Ahem doesn't have the right to not slap her. He is still her elder brother and when u misbehave your elders have every right to knock some sense into u. In fact, I don't even remember Ahem slap Kinjal when she told her big lie about her being prego. He in fact protected her. Kinjal made a mistake and instead of being sorry she was hateful and disrespectful. And I for one had enough of her sour and bad attitude. Its time she woke up and see what she really has...

blah blah...the point is that the slap was unecesary! and when women do not slap women...atleast majority of the time...men should not take the liberty to do it

Originally posted by: nkapoor

blah blah...the point is that the slap was unecesary! and when women do not slap women...atleast majority of the time...men should not take the liberty to do it

women slap women all the time. Koki has slapped Kinjal. Urmi has slapped Rashi once I think(falsely)...you seem to be stuck on the point that the slap was unnecessary on the basis that a man shouldn't slap a woman. Well i guess that is your POV. I tend to disagree. Abuse is unnecessary, but a little spanking to get you back on track...ehhh she will live...

Originally posted by: taral83

women slap women all the time. Koki has slapped Kinjal. Urmi has slapped Rashi once I think(falsely)...you seem to be stuck on the point that the slap was unnecessary on the basis that a man shouldn't slap a woman. Well i guess that is your POV. I tend to disagree. Abuse is unnecessary, but a little spanking to get you back on track...ehhh she will live...

I am saying abuse is unecesary, especially from a person who is 2-3yrs older, if it was her father I might've let it go, Ahem needs to learn better, and in general women do not raise their hands on men, so men should give the same respect, I believe that when 2 sibblings grow up none of them should slap each other irrespective of gender

Kinjal didnt treated her mom in a wrong way, she just told the truth about her mom. why doesnt ahem talk like that to kokila because he was always spoon feed. Yes kijal is right if ahem didnt have the family name tag he wouldnt be where he is today. The deals and contracts that he gets now he would have to work much harder and spend more time until he got them. How can kokila expect kinjal to make peace with her husband's condition when she herself disrespects and hates her husband for not having enough money. If kokila had set a good example for her daughter and son that no matter what you always support your spouse and treat them with respect and be their partner then kinjal would help dhaval. Ahem HAS NO RIGHT to hit kinjal no matter what she did. He is abusive and I have lost all respect for him. And this is not the first time he is psychically abusive to a woman, he also slapped gopi. And people who think kinjal needed the slap because she made a mistake so she should be punished. What century are you guys living in? You make someone understand nicely. I dont know when people would understand that Kokila has caused all the problems. If she was nicer to kinjal she wouldnt have this much resentment agaisnt her. She knows how cunning urmila is but she has forcefully put her daughter in to that house with her and told her to deal with it. Well that is her way of dealing with it. I hope Kinjal never talks to ahem again or goes and files a police complaint against him because he needs to be punished for being abusive or go to counseling. If somebody feel that they can slap their sister or wife just because she is uneducated is a abuser and will get worst by time. i dont know why they are gonna show him get away with it. The people who are supporting him, would you guys also support him if kinjal runs away from home and he finds her and kills her because apparently she made a mistake so she should be punished. And yes we make a big deal of a guy hitting a woman because in this case ahem is more dominant than kinjal.

Originally posted by: nigo123

Kinjal didnt treated her mom in a wrong way, she just told the truth about her mom. why doesnt ahem talk like that to kokila because he was always spoon feed. Yes kijal is right if ahem didnt have the family name tag he wouldnt be where he is today. The deals and contracts that he gets now he would have to work much harder and spend more time until he got them. How can kokila expect kinjal to make peace with her husband's condition when she herself disrespects and hates her husband for not having enough money. If kokila had set a good example for her daughter and son that no matter what you always support your spouse and treat them with respect and be their partner then kinjal would help dhaval. Ahem HAS NO RIGHT to hit kinjal no matter what she did. He is abusive and I have lost all respect for him. And this is not the first time he is psychically abusive to a woman, he also slapped gopi. And people who think kinjal needed the slap because she made a mistake so she should be punished. What century are you guys living in? You make someone understand nicely. I dont know when people would understand that Kokila has caused all the problems. If she was nicer to kinjal she wouldnt have this much resentment agaisnt her. She knows how cunning urmila is but she has forcefully put her daughter in to that house with her and told her to deal with it. Well that is her way of dealing with it. I hope Kinjal never talks to ahem again or goes and files a police complaint against him because he needs to be punished for being abusive or go to counseling. If somebody feel that they can slap their sister or wife just because she is uneducated is a abuser and will get worst by time. i dont know why they are gonna show him get away with it. The people who are supporting him, would you guys also support him if kinjal runs away from home and he finds her and kills her because apparently she made a mistake so she should be punished. And yes we make a big deal of a guy hitting a woman because in this case ahem is more dominant than kinjal.

^^no one isa saying Ahem is an abuser, however his habit of slapping people is not nice, and displays poor bringing up! he should not have slapped his sister, he totally disrespected her sister in front of her in-laws!! very bad! he has no right to do that, if it was her father or mother I could have let it pass

I am all for Kinjal in this instance. No one has even bothered to ask her if she is happy. She's been put in a terrible place with a husband she doesn't love or respect and a mother-in-law who is a complete b***h. And Kokila has really behaved quite badly to her by forcing her into a marriage she did not want, and then forcing her to live with it in the worst possible circumstances.

Poor Kinjal.