Ahem is right...

I have been watching the show lately. Seeing so much of stupidity and foolishness from Gopi, it get to my nerves. I can understand Ahem's situation. If I was in Ahem's shoes, i would also feel very very irritated and cannot fall in love with such a girl, who is so immatured. She acts like a 5 yr old. I cannot tolerate her behaviour. Raashi is over smart and knows who how to get things her way in the most cunning way. The creative team need to put some common sense into Gopi's character. They cannot make the main character so meek. Now, going to school at this age and not able to cope there also...too much.

Please change the script. give us strong person in Gopi. Teach Raashi and her mother a good lesson. Enough of their gameplans. Show them their stand.

I pity Ahem. Please make our Gopi a normal girl. She is looking like a 5 yr old kid.

whose fault is that, aham married gopi because his mother insisted, between him n kokila n rashi n her mother they have ruined gopis life. he is incapable of loving anyone but himself n his mother. when a girl first marries into a house the first person she relies on to help her in this strange house her husband the dos n donts, when gopi told him she was unpar instead of making the situation positive he slapped her, n just insults her. yet when gopis wins a match or dance or saves the family izzat he still thinks it s him that has won not gopi who is a gawar. she is not his wife she is the person that he picks on because something has gone wrong. no matter what this girl does to do things right in this family she is treated like crap.

@fanbidaai...Iagree with each sentence written by you. That is why I want Gopi to become strong.One does not need education to think smart. She has a supporting mother-in-law. She needs to get out of that BECHAARI image and show her strong personality.
Ahem was forced to marry Gopi. And she has not done much to make Ahem fall in love. Instead she has acted too naive. I want a strong person to appear and fight for her rights.
For a character like Ahem, he expects his partner smart. But she has been opposite. Too dumb. I cannot say innocent also. She is above that.There come a period for Ahem and Gopi's relation to progress.

I think Gopi's childhood, her losing her parents and Urmila & Rashi's constant bullying has a lot to do with her personality development and self-image. What made worst was Ahem's attitude, Koki's initial dominance and Rashi & Urmi's constant kalakari.

Ahem may have difficulty dealing with such a naive wife, but then Ahem has issues with everyone except mommy. Ahem has a high and mighty image of himself and needs people skills and husband skills from a person like Jigar and Dhaval who are way superior than Ahem on the whole

We all know Koki loves Gopi but Koki has to stop her aggression towards Gopi when things don't go Koki's way. Like the way Koki acted after the competition fiasco. Why blame Gopi only for losing the CD and punish her by taking away her rights to the kitchen? Koki suspects Rashi is involved, so why not go after her? And the most imp question, why did Koki herself not give the CD to the DJ?

yes gopi REALLy needs to change and that too for the better.

Guys in the beginning Rashi was not this mean to gopi. she just wanted her to do her stuff. After marriage it is kokila's constant comparison between the two made rashi from cunning to complete evil. And even though urmila was mean to gopi her uncle was nice. There are so many people who have mean parents or gaurdians but if they have the will they go study somehow and get smart. With Gopi she just doesnt have that drive in herself.

Originally posted by: nigo123

Guys in the beginning Rashi was not this mean to gopi. she just wanted her to do her stuff. After marriage it is kokila's constant comparison between the two made rashi from cunning to complete evil. And even though urmila was mean to gopi her uncle was nice. There are so many people who have mean parents or gaurdians but if they have the will they go study somehow and get smart. With Gopi she just doesnt have that drive in herself.

Well, I understood that Gopi was never sent to school on purpose because Urmila did not want to spend money on her and rather have Gopi do the housewok. That explains why Gopi was good with housework

Originally posted by: nigo123

Guys in the beginning Rashi was not this mean to gopi. she just wanted her to do her stuff. After marriage it is kokila's constant comparison between the two made rashi from cunning to complete evil. And even though urmila was mean to gopi her uncle was nice. There are so many people who have mean parents or gaurdians but if they have the will they go study somehow and get smart. With Gopi she just doesnt have that drive in herself.

I agree with all the points made, but this is a serial character and the CVs can make changes to the character by showing her strong to overcome her travails - this would be a practical lesson for the abused in real life,- but no- the CVs drag each track by showing Gopi as stupid. Even abused people are not sooo stupid.