There are too many reasons for this and I am so surprised that the CV's don't bother to make a change. Every character has become a caricature and not worthy of viewing... I used to be a regular viewer, now its once a week or not at all... WHY??
1. The family is a dysfunctional family - too much formality, have you ever seen them just sit around the dining table and chatting, sharing a laugh, a moment of warmth... it is either Rashi being yelled at, Gopi being victimized by Rashi or praised by Koki. The men eat quietly and dont really make a contribution... have we seen that in real life ever???????
2. Jigar and Rashi on the surface are supposed to be a couple, but she treats him like dirt and he seems to still think that the sun shines out of Rashi's #$@. He never seems to catch her talking to her mother, her plotting, her scheming and her intention to destroy the family for her personal gain... she does not even care about her own husband due to who she is in this house.
3. Hetal - as a MIL - has she not noticed the lack of intimacy between her son and DIL... it is Ahem and Gopi who have a issue not her Jigar and Rashi - isnt it ?? Why does she so lack in being discerning - even a idiot would gather more than what she doesn't see!! Everything - her standard answer is "java de kokila" let it got kokila!!! really? if you are good, dont you feel the need to correct and ensure that bad behavior is not encouraged... why is she in denial?
4.Gopi - the less said about her, the better... agreed that she was victimized from her childhood by the mother daughter duo , but in a house where she was treated like a servant , given second hand clothes and spoken to rudely - she still thinks Rashi is someone who will wish her good?
Not being educated is no excuse to being STUPID!
Maybe God gave her no brains at all... going to school wont change that, being literate is not the same as getting common sense, common sense is not available for sale!!! all the modi money cant buy that for her... coz she is in maha denial mode. To see good in everyone is a wonderful characteristic, but not seeing the harm they are upto is plain STUPID and she displays that amply.
At school she is getting victimized, at home she is a target for everyone - Rashi, Ahem or Koki... she doesnt realise the truth... Koki has been the mother she never had but she is literally teaching a grown woman what you would teach a 5 year old kid - do this, do that, make this one happy, make that one happy but she cannot think and do anything on her own... RETARD!!!
5. Kokila - some things I appreciate about her - she has been the mother that Gopi never had, has given her only love and affection but Gopi does not take her advice about Rashi ...!!!!!
Smart but yet to catch madame Rashi doing nonsense...lover her son but you cant force love my dear mother... and especially some one like gopi - i mean i feel like giving her 2 raps when she acts like a idiot which is most of the time!!1 how can you expect Ahem to fall in love?
6. Urvashi and Rashi - the less said about both, the better, their kalakari's are so tiring and gosh a witch as a sister and a devil as a foster mother... toothy mom and wicked daughter's evil smiles... getting very boring !!!!!!!!!!! she doesnt lack common sense but refuses to do anything except evil ideas at the cost of the whole family many times - for the sake of her gain!! useless girls like that - i have seen some like this , but after a while while they still try to keep trying to get money by hook or crook, they dont screw the family in public day in and day out or their husband for that matter!!!
LAZY, Slothful and a spendthrift - terrible combination and good wishes to any family who are ever unfortunate to have a DIL like that!!!
morning to night - the focus is on making gopi look bad, stealing money or screwing someone's happiness?? no break at all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NOT HELPING - SINCE VIEWERS WANT A COMPLETE BREAK FROM THIS!!!!!!!
Iam not writing about the men - not worth writing home about!!!! no active role really?? jeethu bhai - no one has seen for god knows how long!!!
FAMILY>>> really???? Change the story line before you move to the 20's ... you are already down to double digits in ranking!! SAD indeed for a serial that started with a lot of promise!!!