Originally posted by: Nafisa_blossoms
You know what pisses me off about her also, when Gopi does well, like the dandiya dance, she put her on the spot, she couldn't dance dandiya, no practice, Aham has told her he hates her, and she forces her to degrade herself for her, if Rashi hurt herself, they should have just pulled out, and when she outshines and nicely smiling and performs well and wins the competition, did you see Kokila's response, so cold, all because Gopi had angered her with not telling on Rashi to Kokila and the family with the electricity bill, it was during Navrati that competition, and Hetal observed how coldly Kokila blessed Gopi. That scene made it clear to me, she wants things her way completely but doesn't give anyone they due, rather she just expects them to be at her beck and call.
She wants Aham to accept Gopi but just because she feels he should, just because she has said, he must do, but not because she has taken into account his objections to her and rectified them. Kokila is extremely old fashioned and believes her kids must do as she says forever.
With the housework, he hates Rashi and doesn't want her to usurp Gopi's position in the house as the best bahu, I think if Gopi wins the saas bahu competition it will be the end of that fear.
About not understanding the pressures of studies, I think Kokila intends for Gopi just to learn to read and write and count that's it, so to her, this is something very easy and Gopi can manage to do that and housework at the same time, if she can't it means either she is becoming lazy or lying like Rashi does.
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