How you are feeling is the way the CV's want you to feel, before they spring a surprise on you.
All was done on purpose...Urmila speech, and Gopi leaving learning twice to go into kitchen, but when Gopi was young first standard she was 6 years old, a child that age needs to be guided what they should do at what time, Urmila needed to force her to leave housework and study, but they failed as guardians to the girl, even you when you were small, I'm sure at times you didn't want to go to school, you were sleeping and parents force you to get up and go to school, your parents were thinking of your future, when they did that, but Urmila and Jitu bhai didn't care about Gopi's future.
Fast forward to the present day, she stopped twice to go into the kitchen because she knows kitchen is her responsibility, Rashi doesn't go in there, the first time she heard something fall down, the second time, Rashi goes away leaving vegetable burning. What would have been the outcome if vegetable would have burnt? Rashi gets shouted at by Kokila and Hetal/Kokila start cutting more vegetable to rush to make dinner...Gopi doesn't like people arguing she would give up what she wants then see her loved ones argue (you watched the scene at the dining table Chirag accusing Kokila of stopping Gopi from studying, Gopi said I don't want to study and went to do a household chore, Chirag said she doesn't want to see us argue)...She feels cooking in the kitchen, as it's her responsibility she should take the load from Rashi and make sure all is well in the kitchen, they should not be any disagreements in the house because she is not carrying her household load.
But that evening at the dinner table Kokila explained about the dinner, Gopi went to make sure it didn't burn and finished preparing it, when Rashi left it to burn...all including Hetal and Jigar said she must leave the kitchen chores to Rashi, as she is there to do it...on the next episode she is learning on the terrace away from the kitchen, however the problem now is she can't remember anything from the previous day, that is the fault of the teacher...GuruJi stormed off the previous day without recapping what he has covered, and what he expects from her the following day, to say to her this is your homework, read everything you have done today so we can build on it tomorrow...he is a bad teacher, as someone who doesn't know about studying like Gopi probably assumed you need to attend classes and you know everything, that's not the case, often understanding comes after you review everything on your own later.
Now at the beginning of my post I said the CV's want to spring something on us, and how you are feeling is what they want you to feel, I think the GuruJi will go, and we will all be mourning Rashi kalakari worked but a family member Parag or even Kokila will teach Gopi, as a family member will refuse her to get up to go into kitchen during studying time.
Edited by Nafisa_blossoms - 14 years ago
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