Does Gopi deserve MM?

the Modi mansion is highly respected in the city. I come to think does Gopi really deserve to live in that house?...i mean don't they deserve someone who can uphold their house and keep the respect. If we think about it if Koki and Hetal go away for a while except for cooking, cleaning and Pooja wtt can Gopi do?...
Anyone will come and tell her to do or believe anything and she will. Anyone can come and dominate her. Being the Bahu of a big house also means big responsibilities of being capable of doing more than just house work.
I don;t mean that illiterate ppl don;t deserve money or ppl from small house can never move up. I want Gopi to realize how she should be when she is the daughter in law of a big and respected house.
Rashi can surely be questioned in here as well. Well clearly she doesn't deserve it because of her evil nature but still if some responsibility falls on her she will find a way. Even Koki has told Gopi to learn "dunya dari" from Rashi.