i feel bad for Gopi!!!!!

so im been watching this show on and off since it started and then stopped watching when ahem started abusing Gopi. then i started watching it after almost 7 8 months around the time when UrShi were trying to steal the sandook.

so to catch up i watched all the little scenes of ahem and gopi on youtube. i actually watch those every night before going to bed, its become a habit. so all that aside

but before when ahem and gopi werent married, Gopi had some confidence. i mean see wasnt as airhead as they are portraying her now. she had confidence and she didnt stammer or shutter when talking to a few people.

Urshi werent as mean to her. they were acting nice because they had to get heir house work done.

but her character changed when she got married. she still had the guts to talk to him without stuttering. she could even make eye contact with him right when talking. but then he found out she was illiterate and started abusing her. the slap was a little too much and throwing money at her was just a very cheap act.

before all that gopi had a grip on reality. she knew what was right and what was wrong, well almost. but all that changed when she came to MM.

i feel the way she is right now it because of Koki and Ahem. i mean what person would still be sane after the constant yelling and shouting.

ahem day and night yells at her and tells her your a gawar and cant do anything right. anyone's confidence was start wobbling if they had to hear criticism like dat all the time.

and Koki trying to Make Gopi into the Perfect Vahu. from a middle class family to a rich family's Vahu was a big step and having to learn all the household basic all over again would take time and on top of that Urshi Kalakari to make Gopi's life Hell. she trying to be a good vahu here and they're plotting against her doesn't help. her minor mistakes turn major and she gets yelled at.

so all this time she is in MM shes been yelled at, spoken down to, called gawar and unpad and whatever. at the begining Koki never sympathized for Gopi when she should have.

now if we look at her she has become a person that that family has molded in to. they forgot she a human being not sum super human that can get everything right. even the most trifle mistakes is like a apocalypse for ahem. and the main target for him is gopi.

after the constant abuse and yelling Gopi had forgotten the difference between left and right. and right and wrong. while gopi is trying all her best to get ahem to like her, she finds some love from Rashi. well fake but for her its real.

she sad and shes desperate. and rashi is there to sympathize her and tell her everything will be okay. she finds this warmth in her heart that Her Rashi BEN is there was her. the key word ben.

what person would doubt their own sister. a person shes been all her life. and as innocent and naive as gopi is for her relationships are everything. and as viewers we know rashi is evil but gopi doesnt. how can she ever doubt her sister who is trying to help her, and tryin to give her love. fake we know but she doesnt.

and i guess we cant blame Gopi for being an airhead when its her surrounding and they way she was treated has made her become one. i think i need to stop criticizing Gopi for her dumbness because i think her trust in her sister is normal because sumthing similar has happened in my family. thought we knew that person was bad but we still trusted them and got stabbed in return. why we trusted them because they were family and who could doubt family.

so somthing like embroidering ilove u on socks and putting ice in lemonade is not just big enough to doubt rashi. Gopi needs sumthing big, an eye opener. because you need sumthing big to lose your faith on family members.

--priyaa😉