koki bashing ahem was mindblowing

what type of hubby is ahem?

I agree. Ahem is the most disgusting creature I have seen in a serial. His attitude towards Gopi is terrible. I think Koki needs to stop trying to bring Ahem & Gopi closer. I'd love to see Koki put her foot down that not only Gopi will stay with them for good but as a human being Ahem must respect her. Gopi should stay at Modi house as a daughter with no relations to Ahem. Koki can get Gopi educated and smarter with no relation to Ahem. Koki should also make Ahem known that he has disappointed her as a human being

Gopi should leave the house far away from the Modis. Get to a place where she can build her self esteem up. Men hate dependant creatures. The funny thing is when the dependency of a woman is taken off , the same man feels insecure.

me too agree...Aham totally deserves this bashing...and i loved Koki today for Bashing her Dikra for her "Gopi Vau"

Honestly, he' s a terrible human being. Koki's faltered in some way with his upbringing. Had I been Gopi, I would ask Koki and the elders acknowledging teh fact that my illiteracy is a major flaw which I need to remove, and get educated so that no one can have the chance that the bahu of the Modi family is a gawar etc...


Mean while when Gopi is away doing her studies and handling the house, Koki should break her son's aham saying she's realized that he is not fit for Gopi has he has much to learn as a human being.

After getting educated, Maybe Chirag can get her to join the business and have her learn teh ropes...And Gopi should not even glance at that jerk she's married.

Once Aham starts noticing Gopi and tries to get closer, Koki should scold him saying Gopi vau removed her flaw which as a husband he should have helped her in doing so. However, how will he be able to remove his flaws?

Originally posted by: avivakirk

Gopi should leave the house far away from the Modis. Get to a place where she can build her self esteem up. Men hate dependant creatures. The funny thing is when the dependency of a woman is taken off , the same man feels insecure.

Originally posted by: Eesha2

👏 Well said!

Thanks Eesha! I like your analysis of Gopi too.

Wonderful insights there. Well, its no secret that Ahem's character is flawed in oh-so-many-ways. And Gopi's character's got flaws in the same respect but what makes her precious to us is the fact that she does everything from her heart. Be it loving Ahem, following her MIL's (Koki's) orders, listening to Rashi or saying "Dewar Ji" to Jigar. She's got a pure heart and Ahem definitely doesn't realize the importance of such a pure and lovely heart. So I too enjoyed the scolding portion immensely today. Koki was on fire!

But what I would love more is the hug scene. I can bet Ahem hugs her back not out of obligation but as a natural reaction because precap shows that he was now genuinely concerned about Gopi's safety and realized how he was the culprit behind this fiasco. I like this natural way of breaking ice in between them. I don't want any dramatic turns and twists, just subtle and sweet ones like Ahem-Gopi are. Both complement one another perfectly and this is exactly why they are together as hubby-wife.

@ Aviva: Loved what you said about dependency there. Precious!!

Cheers,
Sana~

Originally posted by: smartc

Wonderful insights there. Well, its no secret that Ahem's character is flawed in oh-so-many-ways. And Gopi's character's got flaws in the same respect but what makes her precious to us is the fact that she does everything from her heart. Be it loving Ahem, following her MIL's (Koki's) orders, listening to Rashi or saying "Dewar Ji" to Jigar. She's got a pure heart and Ahem definitely doesn't realize the importance of such a pure and lovely heart. So I too enjoyed the scolding portion immensely today. Koki was on fire!

But what I would love more is the hug scene. I can bet Ahem hugs her back not out of obligation but as a natural reaction because precap shows that he was now genuinely concerned about Gopi's safety and realized how he was the culprit behind this fiasco. I like this natural way of breaking ice in between them. I don't want any dramatic turns and twists, just subtle and sweet ones like Ahem-Gopi are. Both complement one another perfectly and this is exactly why they are together as hubby-wife.

@ Aviva: Loved what you said about dependency there. Precious!!

Cheers,
Sana~

Agree totally ! you pen your thoughts in a balanced & rational way.

after this trip gopi should leave mm, and the show moves 5 years in future and gopi n ahem run in to each other ...by now gopi smart . and she can run circle around ahem in business...that will show ahem who is the smart one