Originally posted by: saomom
I know it's been said here before, but I can't help thinking that the opposite of love is not hate - it's apathy. If it's hate, there is still a bit of passion there, no? So we need to try and deduce if Aham hates Gopi or if he is apathetic towards her...
No it's not indifference or apathy, i have seen annoyance and sometimes embarrassment in him. Pursed lips (recent GoHam scene nearly bumping into him with milk), his initial reaction was that of annoyance, there she goes again, wanting to bump into me, so is this hate or simple annoyance, Kinjal's wedding day, first bumped into her and shouting at her again in annoyance, embarrassment is the look he had at the Sangeet ceremony when they ran out of food.
Even in the last scene when they were discussing the milk, he was speaking quietly, no it's yours i will take another glass, until she confirmed, no it's for your mother, you have it I will take another glass, and before he reached to take the glass, he looked as if to say, don't read anything into my taking of the milk, my feelings have not changed, his adamant Gopi should not think he cares about her. Why should he be so concerned what she thinks of him now?
What did you think?
p.s. i really want him to divorce gopi and for her to find someone to give her a chance at love and isn't so complex or have too much baggage like Aham does.