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crms

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Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Sadhli,

Opps soooooooooooo sorry.

How can I forget your name? Impossible.

Who else knows better than u about my typo?? (remember the update)

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Rafeal

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Posted: 14 years ago

#12

Nice poem madhu khaki.. Lol.. I may forgive for "kick gopi out" but not throw my gal out n feed her to crows and eagles.. ROFL.. Telugu is a bit lyk malayalam. Some words are same

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br2499

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Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Madhu! thank you!

Enabler is generally somebody who allows their loved ones to keep making mistakes or be destructive. Like friends/relatives of gamblers who keep providing/lending them money.

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crms

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Posted: 14 years ago

#14

@Bee Thanks. Googled it and found an interesting site. It is in psycological abuse terms Right.

1.11 CODEPENDENT, ENABLER -- PSYCHOLOGY ABUSE TERMS, CONCEPTS

==== Codependent, Enabler

MEANING: In traditional psycho-babble, the person who allows the abuser to continue and live with his/her behavior. This person is often seen as one who asks to be abused or who is a willing victim.

PERSONAL NOTE FROM RICK DOBLE: I disagree with this notion. The myth is that enablers allow abused people to continue their abuse, that enablers are willing victims who look for people to abuse them. I have a lot of problems with this notion.

As Marie-France Hirigoyen points out in her book "Stalking the Soul" abusers are attracted to many so called enablers because of their strengths and positive outlook. While so called enablers might want to help others (is this wrong?) blaming them for allowing the abuse is a mistake. The so called enablers may have been brought up in abusive families and therefore tend to find relationships with abusive people, but this is very different from being a victim.

RELATED WORDS AND PHRASES: dependent, mutually dependent, allowing

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crms

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Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: Jake-neil
Nice poem madhu khaki.. Lol.. I may forgive for "kick gopi out" but not throw my gal out n feed her to crows and eagles.. ROFL.. Telugu is a bit lyk malayalam. Some words are same

I know Jake.

Though U like Rashi, Ur heart is Gopi.

Do not know why, I became a bit emotional.

But I think I should thank, look how my no. of posts jumped😆

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suk19

@suk19

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Posted: 14 years ago

#16

thanks for that she is wise naive innocent, she does not know why things go wrong as she is oblivious to them, she is not thick or need to be kicked out she does however need to leave because of ahams behaviour towards her..

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Rafeal

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Posted: 14 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: crms

I know Jake.
Though U like Rashi, Ur heart is Gopi.
Do not know why, I became a bit emotional.
But I think I should thank, look how my no. of posts jumped😆

be ready we will get new thread tomorrow, same time , only on sns forum. U will be a goldie this week.. ROFL

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crms

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Posted: 14 years ago

#18

@Jake

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tellyaddict

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Posted: 14 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: fanbidaai
thanks for that she is wise naive innocent, she does not know why things go wrong as she is oblivious to them, she is not thick or need to be kicked out she does however need to leave because of ahams behaviour towards her..

u r right, she does nt understand why all her efforts result in a negative outcome 4 her. She wants everyones well being bt becomes herself 'bali ki bakri' everytime.