Gopi: innocent or stupid????

What do you guys feel about Gopi's character after watching todays episode..

What the hell made gopi even think that Aham could be staring at her photograph?😕

Gopi has been emotionally abused for years at the hands of urmilla and rashi, I don't know if it that she has been so use to the abuse that her self-esteem is so damaged that she lacks the confidence to maintain independence from her abuser or abusers.

Notice how she tries her best to pander to rashi, urmilla, kinjal, ahem, koki, she tries to please them, and all in their own way make gopi think shes is to blame knowing she has low self-esteem and that she will actually accept its her fault and she deserves to be abused in this way.

Koki knows her best but I don't think she has tried hard enough to build gopi's confidence up. The punishments koki gives don't seem to have any effect on her cause she is use to the abuse and just accepts it.

Thing with rashi is she has never been shouted at and spoiled by urmilla and now she is a modi house she can't bear this treatment and makes a stand in forms of revenge or now trying her hardest not to make a mistake.

I think she's both innocent and stupid - with a large helping of naive added in. Not a good combination. But it seems like she is destined to remain so since no one is taking the time to help her. This family is seriously jacked up.

Originally posted by: angelic8219

Gopi has been emotionally abused for years at the hands of urmilla and rashi, I don't know if it that she has been so use to the abuse that her self-esteem is so damaged that she lacks the confidence to maintain independence from her abuser or abusers.

Notice how she tries her best to pander to rashi, urmilla, kinjal, ahem, koki, she tries to please them, and all in their own way make gopi think shes is to blame knowing she has low self-esteem and that she will actually accept its her fault and she deserves to be abused in this way.

Koki knows her best but I don't think she has tried hard enough to build gopi's confidence up. The punishments koki gives don't seem to have any effect on her cause she is use to the abuse and just accepts it.

Thing with rashi is she has never been shouted at and spoiled by urmilla and now she is a modi house she can't bear this treatment and makes a stand in forms of revenge or now trying her hardest not to make a mistake.

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Gopi is plain stupid, been uneducated doesn't help her either, she accepts everyone to drag her along or out of a situation, secondly her confidence in herself is zero, so is her ability 2 make decision , thus ends up as bali ka bakhra due 2 others evil schemes, whereas woman like Rashi &
Kinjal are streetsmart and has good skill 2 play with words and manipulate a situation 2 their favour.

Originally posted by: -tellyaddict-

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Arwwwwwwww thanks, but seriously all that emotional blackmailing abuse would send someone totally mentally unstable, surprised gopi hasnt gone totally nuts and held the modi family hostage for all the mental torcher, but CV's don't think like that they have to make gopi seem even dumber.

Originally posted by: angelic8219

Gopi has been emotionally abused for years at the hands of urmilla and rashi, I don't know if it that she has been so use to the abuse that her self-esteem is so damaged that she lacks the confidence to maintain independence from her abuser or abusers.

Notice how she tries her best to pander to rashi, urmilla, kinjal, ahem, koki, she tries to please them, and all in their own way make gopi think shes is to blame knowing she has low self-esteem and that she will actually accept its her fault and she deserves to be abused in this way.

Koki knows her best but I don't think she has tried hard enough to build gopi's confidence up. The punishments koki gives don't seem to have any effect on her cause she is use to the abuse and just accepts it.

Thing with rashi is she has never been shouted at and spoiled by urmilla and now she is a modi house she can't bear this treatment and makes a stand in forms of revenge or now trying her hardest not to make a mistake.

Originally posted by: angelic8219

Arwwwwwwww thanks, but seriously all that emotional blackmailing abuse would send someone totally mentally unstable, surprised gopi hasnt gone totally nuts and held the modi family hostage for all the mental torcher, but CV's don't think like that they have to make gopi seem even dumber.

well said........i loved ur each n every word...
i'll reply with my views soon...

my POV....

Gopi is Naive, Innocent, that too Out Of this world...she is not made for this Current world, she is like a small lil kid who is lost in this world w/o knowing where she has to go, and she met Modi Family and Kokila Modi, so she thinks they are the only one of her own for whom she has to do EVERYTHING, fo their happiness, for their well being. And now she cant even think anything above that.

Adding to angelic's points..just wanna say that what ever she is now is the result of her Childhood and Bossy Attitude of U-R. She has lost her Self Esteem, Self confidence, she does not her own worth, she thinks her value is just by making Modi Family HAppy, by keeping them away from all problems.

So she is a Kid who is always ready to Sacrifice Herself for Koki as she is the one who showed Love, Care, Concern towards her, Asked Kinjal to Show Respect to her, so isn't it enough for A LOVE STRAVED gal Gopi to DO ANYTHING for Koki....

i cant say she is Stupid, she is just blinded by Koki's Love n concen thats all....

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Dumb, hon! Forget about illiterate, there is still such a thing in this world as common sense, which is so far running miles away from Gopi!