I think this serial needs a name change - Page 5

Originally posted by: radt

☺️*gee*... m blushing now!😉

Originally posted by: fungirl

I wouldn't necessarily say there is no fault in Aham. He is very immature and too much of a mama's boy to be married. The apron strings need to be cut and quick! He hasn't figured out how to deal with his wife - at all.

Agree that Ahem is Mama's boy, When Gopi is smart enough to divert a thief (a complete stranger) from his mission and to make him do the tasks she asks him to do and trap him down, isn't it not possible for her make her husband on her side easliy? ..is Gopi a stupid or pretends to be one ? 'may be the character of Gopi is not being portrayed with consistency.

I personally think that the thief was more stupid than Gopi ....what kind of thief was that...following her orders...looking at thief's stupidity Ahem must have called him Gopi's brother😃

That being said, Gopi is a mess right now. They have completely ruined her character. There is a difference between uneducated and stupid. All of a sudden she has turned really stupid. Yes, she has never stood up for herself, but I think that's because she has always been put down. For a while, Koki was teaching her to stand on her own two feet and she did - when Kinjal tried to pin the jewelry theft on her.

Don't you think even her maama was trying to do the same thing before marriage, remember the day when Koki was visiting them for seeing rashi and the scene where her Maama advises Gopi to speak up when that sweetmeat seller was trying to cheat her ? ' I think Koki is another form of her maama (a more stubborn version of Gopi's Maamaji)

Now for some reason, her brain has been sucked from her head - what was that scene of her standing in the road trying to figure out what to do after the facial? I felt like smacking her.

Same here, its like its difficult to predict her, ..sometimes she is smart enough say not to feed milk to snakes and also to pretend having ended her fast but at the same time she is so stupid enough to wash a laptop?

The CVs need to be more consistent in writing both Aham and Gopi's character. For that matter, I'll add in Koki. They are always all over the map. The people we can't stand - Kinjal, Rashi and Urmi are all very consistent in their idiocy and meanness.

Agree .. I think the CVs are too busy concentrating on the evil plots of Rashi, Urmi and Kinjal that they have completely forgotten to mould the main leads...Ahem is like a broken record always yelling and Gopi is too busy thinking how to recite her nursery rhymes ...sorry too busy how to enact her dialogues.... (cant stand the way she tells her dialogues )

Compltely agree with with you

Here's my biggest gripe with the Gopi character. There is a difference between having no guile, being the peacemaker, devotee etc. and being a complete doormat. Rashi, Kinja, Urmi and sometimes Koki and Hetal rage at her and she stands there shaking her head with that stupid look on her face. Why can't she let them rage at her, and when they're done, calmly set them straight? She doesn't need to go all crazy back at them. She just needs to look them in the eye when they're done with their tirades and let them know her side of the story. She doesn't have to stoop to their level.

Yes, even I want the same. There is no point in just standing in front of kanhaji and to crib the whole day because God helps only those who help themselves ... I think somebody needs to explain this to her or to CVs....

In today's episode she was asking Kanhaji whether she should tell maaji that Kinjal was not in Saloon....not is it something she should ask Kanhaji.....comeon...we too need to pray and we have serious prayers please dont bother kanhaji every now and then....i wonder what Kanhaji told her...

She always acts like a child, not knowing what to do. She doesn't know Kinjal's cell number? I'm sorry, but this is the 21st century. She wasn't raised in some remote village. She should not be this dumb. Kinjal yells at her like it's her fault and she just stands there? Rashi unleashes her wrath and she looks down like it's all her fault? Really?

Come on CVs wake-up.. get to the story line ' we are not stupid enough to believe that in this era people can be as dumb as Gopi ' CVs do you wanna show that if a poor uneducated girl and an educated well-do guy are forced into a marriage, there will be nothing else than only troubles in there life ? there is no way out other than rona-dhona 😭? Please show us how to tackle living in/surrounded by such a relationship.

At this point, Gopi is almost cartoonish. Come on CVs! Get your act together!

Thank you for your lovely post in response to mine 👏 .... hope I will have a good time in forum if not in watching this serial.

Originally posted by: fungirl

Now I understand there is no fault in Ahem ' somewhere I feel that Gopi is not fit for him (no offence Gopi lovers)'but .. A person who cannot STAND for herself, how can she walk hand in hand with him thru hurdles of life ' A good wife encourages her husband and gives him the strength to fight for rights in all ups and downs of life ' But Gopi can only teach Ahem to accept all failures and not to open his mouth when he needs to speak for himself '.

Although i completely agree with you its not just Gopi who is Ahe's saathiya but also the other way around,even he needs to be her Saathiya and accept her with what she is or just follow Jigar in accepting his wife without even knowing what she is

For instance look at yesterday's episode, cant Gopi say even one thing when Kinjal continued to say all that nonsense about facial and pani poori in front of her mother ?

Is she that dumb not able to differentiate between truth and lies ? She just kept nodding her head '(May be she expects her Saasuma to understand her body language 😆' come on kokila sherlock holmes you can do it 😉)

I am glad kokila is her sasuma ,atleast she is smart...not like hetal who gets angry ONLY WHEN PEOPLE BREAK THEIR FAST....everything else is of noooo importance ...even during cooker kaand she said her favourite dialogue "java de ne kokila"....

I think the serial should be named as

Saath Nibhaana Saasuma --- as we can see only Kokila doing that

OR

Saath Nibhaana Meri Ma ---- because its all about Rashi and how her evil mother struggles to get a stand for her daughter in her saasra '

Gopi should definitely learn something from her Maami'.

What say people ?

By the way I am Nisha ... new to this forum ...

Originally posted by: radt

Respecting ur pov completely, all i can say is just that a man needs many more things in his life partner than education.

I agree it's difficult fr smone that literate to accept her bt there needs to be a limit!!!!

She is much btr in many odr ways than her educated counterparts ....

women these days hardly indulge in house work... esp if they're educated or if they do, they do get help frm their hubbies!

She does all the household chores, loves him, supports him, listens to him, follows his words.... taking them to be the last word, respcts him...

She's the limit of Perfection!

I hope she gets a bit more dignity and finally able to carve out a niche 4 herself in the modi mansion!

Originally posted by: addicted2tv

Originally posted by: radt

Respecting ur pov completely, all i can say is just that a man needs many more things in his life partner than education.

I agree it's difficult fr smone that literate to accept her bt there needs to be a limit!!!!

She is much btr in many odr ways than her educated counterparts ....

women these days hardly indulge in house work... esp if they're educated or if they do, they do get help frm their hubbies!

She does all the household chores, loves him, supports him, listens to him, follows his words.... taking them to be the last word, respcts him...

She's the limit of Perfection!

I hope she gets a bit more dignity and finally able to carve out a niche 4 herself in the modi mansion!

Originally posted by: radt

Aham's character has only been showing a single shade........ THE IDEAL MOMMA"S BOY!!!!!!!!

he has neva bn takin sensible decisions in matters related to gopi although she's proved her love endless no. of tyms...

No offense guys!

jus my pov!

Originally posted by: ladydivine

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Thanks for the reply. I basically mentioned the education part because it would have taught Gopi to understand what is right and wrong. She allows people to take advantage of herself. She cannot say a single thing when others victimize her. Remember the kitchen incident where Rashi was rude to Gopi due to that fasting thing? Gopi should have mentioned what Koki told Rashi later. That is, "you broke your fast also, but you just lied about it". No, Gopi had nothing to say! You can run a truck over her and she will smilingly stand on the middle of the road to see it happen😡

Someone here once mentioned that Gopi did not have self confidence. She would have gained a bit of it if she was educated. She is similar to a toddler who has no idea on how this world works🤔!