i know you all people are upset the way story is going now this is my thought about the setuation and it is just thought as point of veiw of brijesh what if you were on place of brijesh what you might have done
😠i am brijesh i know you all must be thinking that i am the most stupid, selfish and all bad words that fit to me. but no one even try to understand my pain, all cried with nahar and saloni, all had sympathy for tara but not even have and pity for me? why ?
i know according to you all the step i have taken is wrong , it is grave mistake to marry urvashijiji it will bring only distruction to my family and my relation with tara. i might say not bring it already brought 😠, the thunder already entre my house the day jiji came to my house but i could not stop it not either my family member but in contrast we welcome it without knowing the aftermath. but too bad it is too late.
you all are disgusted that i marry to my wife's sister . as i have been always in favoure of good culture and give example to SAMAJ what i have done but think carefully anf be truthful to yourself give me answer have you never seen this kind of relation or marraige in society. even i have seen girls snatching there sisters place after having relation with jija and in those case both of them have feelings atlest in my case i am doing to make my wife happy , in other cases they don't even care for their wife's feeling and throw her out. ( sorry i am not justifying my deed) . i am still loyal to my wife. i have seen bhabhi has relation with their husband's brother and vise versa so all this things already happening in society so what is my fault ( again i know i am wrong)
so now my clarification on action i have taken.😕
i was totaly against to my wife's decission but i had to think carefully about everything as my setuation was like potato between two bread i cannot seprate from either one. on my one side was my family my brother my sister and reputaion of my family and my beliefs and all my " ADARSH" but otherside my wife who was once very good but recently behaving totaly like insane and like she has been possesed, i don't want to hurt ny one of them.
if i refuse to listen my wife she can go any extrim ,even can kill herself and if i refuse to listen other it is totally distruction of relations,now tell me what i should do.
at least others are sensible not to take any extrim steps unlike my wife. i told my wife so many times that she is not thinking with her brain she is totaly behaving on somebody else's mind . so i am aware of the setuation who is behind all this mishape. but at this time she only listen one person and that is her jiji . she is totaly under her control she thinks we all are her enimy so i have only one option start behaving as i am following all her wish as command though i know it is wrong now give you short example
if somebody have blood cancer what that person will do ,does s/he have option that only take out blood from body and infuse new blood that's it. well does it work .?as we all know it won't work if that is so simple why people get scared on the name of cancer. yes we know we have to remove the maleciase growth from the body not the blood and for that we have to take extrim therapy like chemeo that can ruin your health ,your look but do they have any other option to treat something very evile we have to take more extripm treatment. yes in begining it will be very painfull but after treatment we have hope rest will will be taken care of.
so what i mean to say is i know jiji is that kind of cancer to remove and clear doubt from tara's mind i have to take this extrim treatment. that in begining will hurt to all but after everything reast will be taken care as i know my brother and all they will forgive me after knowing the truth.
i have to make sure tara that the step she has taken is wrong but i tried to explain her but all in wain nothing work. aos it's time to to show her by going through it. right now she is only being puppet in the hand of jiji but she is not ready to let her go. so i have to do something like that.
i have seen people whom has complain for everything,, like jiji for them everything you do is not enough , like if you are hungry and somebody give them food they will they are pretending to be very good and if you don't offer them food they will say see they don't even care wheather we eat or die hungry. "SO CHAT BHI UNKI OR PAT BHI UNKI" in any setuation you can not win over them.
so what i should have done, as even jiji's husband came and try to explain though tara did not understand so now i have decided i will just keep telling her that she is right in that way she start trusting me and same time i will make hersure what she has lost , because no wife can tolarate her husband with other woman , and the day she realize i will be free from cancer called URVASHIJI😡
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hope you all right your opinion as your view is more important fo rme as you all are my good friend whom i have found in this lonely world.
sorry for all grammer mistakes and spelling as english is foreign language for me as i study and grown up under my mother toung but learn proper english after coming to singapore. thanks to my husband
thank you.