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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pujli07

at Tejy and abc113: You are right. This way she has one more person to bully if Nitika is also home. I know she is not a negative character but she she is not positive either. its her daughters sons and bahus. she should be very affectionate towards them and try to teach them everything by love. she is lucky to have bahus who are very loving abd caring and more importantly they understand each other very well. we have old grandparents too who are old school but not like this.


Honestly, i didnt like it from the first interaction when she said to toasty, 'your parents havent taught you anything'. that was not required. personally i dont mind elders or anyone correcting my mistake, but if someone talks to me like that thats a biggest turnoff.. she keeps putting nitika down all the time. even the puja time, i felt that was ok since she was mad and expressed her feelings but she didnt bring any insulting comments to her parents. i really dont like that kind of comments and it pisses me off.

I mean this is the reason why malti didnt want her mom right??



I like the way you have worded things...especially "she is lucky to have bahus who are very loving and caring..." and agree so much with second paragraph too...nani ma need not always be bitter and insulting when she is unhappy with someone or something. Just because she is older doesn't automatically makes her wiser too.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Nani Ma is old school

She has a good heart and means well but you cant always teach an old person new ways of thinking

She comes from the village life where work is very gender specific...besides Toasty "love" to be a housewife...so she should take that responsibility

I kinda like Nani Ma cause she is showing that Toasty does not know best and there are certain traditions one such follow (Sorry but I have never been able to stand Toasty and her superficial mushroom induced cheeriness)

Rest is up to Chedi to let Nani Ma know there is a certain way of life in the family before she came...but he is a bit scared of her and they need her...so



So will there be some kind of time leap?



I like Nani ji for the same reason. She's disciplined and strict yet she means well. She's also direct and doesn't beat around the bush like some characters do on this show. For the ones who think she's being too harsh about Nitika's job, think about what she might do/say when she finds out how Ved and Nitika got married.

Toasty is indeed a special character and it's nice to see women who take initiative rather than remain submissive and quiet. However Toasty comes off extremely strong sometimes. She has annoyed me numerous times in the past with how she takes charge of things and how she acts first and thinks later. Even with Nani ji, some might see her as excited and eager to learn from Nani ji. However I sort of saw her as wanting to suck up and act like a teacher's pet.

I know there are plenty of Toasty fans out there so don't take this too seriously, just an opinion.


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