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Varsha ji, great going. Here's some more from me. We all know women are an emotional kind. Here's something to test your Emotional IQ. Try it!

1. Which emotion do you think the woman below is experiencing?

Boredom
Pride
Happiness
Surprise
Fear
Excitement

2. Which emotion do you think the man below is experiencing?

Sadness
Anger
Happiness
Anxiety
Disgust
Grief

3. Which emotion do you think the boy below is experiencing?

Fear
Rage
Elation
Shame
Disgust
Surprise

4. Which emotion do you think the man below is experiencing?

Dejection
Irritation
Fear
Surprise
Disgust
Happiness

5. Which emotion do you think the man below is experiencing?

Sadness
Rage
Hostility
Shame
Disgust
Surprise

6. Which emotion do you think the woman below is experiencing?

Sadness
Embarrassment
Rage
Surprise
Disgust
Fear

7. Concealed irritation or genuine warmth?

Concealed irritation
Genuine warmth

8. What does this man's body language convey?

Excitement and happiness
Helplessness and uncertainty
Smugness and confidence
Anger, but with resolve

9. What is this woman thinking?

I really enjoy his stories
He is so funny
Whoa, he is standing way too close to me
He's holding me up for my next meeting

10. The woman in this meeting is thinking:

I can't wait to tell her what a stupid idea this is
I don't agree, but I'm not going to say anything out loud
I wish I had that idea. Why can't I think of the good ones?
This talk is so informative — but I don't want to give her credit for it

11. The man in the audience is attending a seminar. What is he thinking?

I totally disagree with this speaker
I really like what this guy has to say
This is really boring
That is the saddest story I've ever heard

12. What is this gesture signaling?

Hostility
Openness
Frustration
Excitement

13. I know when I'm feeling bad, but most of the time I can't really tell why I feel that way.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

14. I get annoyed at myself when I cry.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

15. I cringe when I see someone extremely emotional — whether it's happy, sad, angry, excited, etc.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

16. I'm proud of myself when I put on a straight face even when I'm distressed.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

17. When I feel strong emotions well up, my first instinct is to control them.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

18. I usually wait until someone else tells me that they like or love me before I tell them so.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

19. I've been known to laugh until my stomach hurts.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

20. I keep a journal or diary to express my thoughts or feelings.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

21. Sometimes it feels like my emotions come out of nowhere and I don't know why I am feeling a certain way.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

22. When I'm undecided about something, I like to rely more on my heart than my head.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

23. I enjoy listening to music or watching movies to experience emotions that regular life does not offer.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

24. When someone has done a good job, I pay a genuine compliment.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

25. It's better to get things out in the open as you're feeling them than to keep your feelings inside.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

26. Expressing emotions is a sign of weakness.
Very much describes me
Somewhat describes me
Somewhat unlike me
Not like me at all

27. I usually tell people what I ______ about something.
Feel
Think

28. For months, you and your friends have been planning a weekend in Las Vegas. One friend calls at the last minute to say she can't come because she has to work over the weekend. What would you say to her?
I'd ask her what she was working on to see if she's telling the truth
I'd try to convince her to put in more hours next week
I'd tell her that I wish she could come, but that I understand
I'd remind her how much effort it took to plan this and that she can't back out now

29. Your colleague at work has just been promoted to manager. The other day she snapped at you for something minor. You think to yourself:
This new position has brought out her true nature
She's just anxious about her new responsibilities

30. Your friend just started dating someone new, leaving you with unanswered messages and Friday nights spent alone. You think:
That's what happens in the beginning of a new relationship
My friend is being disloyal
It's time for me to find new people to hang out with
I should tell her that she needs to change her behavior if she wants to keep me as a friend
I need to have a discussion with her about her take on our friendship

31. When a homeless person approaches you for money, you:
Say sorry and walk quickly by with your head down
Give a sour look — that person needs to get a job
Ignore the person completely
Give food instead of money
Give some money
Smile sympathetically and wish the person good luck

32. One of your friends decides to stay with his girlfriend even though she's been less than faithful. You think:
That's stupid. I hope I am never that desperate
I wish he had more self-respect
What a hard decision that must have been
None of my business — they have to live with each other

33. You bring a friend to dinner at Uncle Ralph's. Uncle Ralph accidentally makes an offensive remark about your friend's culture. After leaving his house, you:
Say nothing to your friend about the incident
Make fun of your uncle with your friend
Ask your friend if they took offense and explain your uncle's mistake
Put a new spin on the remark and try to make it sound like a compliment

34. Your colleague, Jack, has overheard you and your co-workers making plans to go out after work. You debate inviting Jack, but know he is awkward in social situations. Ultimately, you decide to:
Encourage him to come along — maybe he'll loosen up with more practice
Ignore him, because you can't have as good of a time if he comes along
Unenthusiastically invite him and tell him that it might not be his type of thing
Pretend you don't see him and keep your head down as you leave

35. You've cooked a roast for a family dinner and your new brother-in-law announces that he does not eat meat. Your reaction is:
To offer him more salad and look for something else he can eat
To be slightly annoyed, but to put the potatoes aside for him
To become upset that he had to make such a big deal out of it
To encourage him to try some anyway since one day of eating meat won't kill him

36. You are on a plane watching the latest Steven Segal movie. Suddenly, the plane begins rocking violently with turbulence. What do you do?
I'd continue watching the movie — it's Steven Segal
I'd hit the call button and ask the flight attendant what's going on
I'd stop watching the movie and keep on alert to hear if the captain has anything to say

37. When I'm having a rough week at work or at school, I:
Distract myself with shopping or other hobbies
Talk to someone about it
Watch TV or listen to music
Take some time by myself to explore what's really bothering me

38. At work, a colleague takes credit for one of your great ideas in front of the boss. What's your reaction?
You talk to your colleague in private and find out what happened
You immediately correct your colleague saying that it was really your idea
You fume, but say nothing
You forget about it— there's nothing you can do about it now

39. You and a friend have vowed to lose your winter guts with a new exercise program. You notice that your friend has dropped weight faster than you. You react by:
Telling them that they look great and to keep it up
Reminding them that slower weight loss is easier to keep off
Giving them a batch of their favorite brownies they can't resist
Being a bit crabby despite your best intentions
Telling them that they look scrawny

40. It's your first day as a telemarketer and your job is to get people to switch to your long distance company. The first twenty calls result in hang-ups and rude responses. What do you do?
Quit. That's enough information to know that it's not going to work
Start fresh and take a different approach for the next few calls
Just keep plugging away through the rest of the day
Get down on myself for messing up again

41. Friend A asks you to set up a date with Friend B. The two friends go out for a short period of time and then Friend A cheats on Friend B. Now, Friend B is devastated and confused. What do you do?
Reprimand Friend A for what they've done
Tell Friend B something negative about Friend A to make them feel better
Feel bad because had you never set them up, this would've never happened
Listen to both sides but try to stay out of it as much as possible
Stop talking to Friend A and vow to never do set-ups again

42. You finally get the nerve to ask your new single neighbor over for dinner. In the midst of conversation, a piece of lettuce flies out of your mouth and lands on your glass. How do you react?
You're embarrassed and apologize profusely for being so gross
You laugh at yourself and turn it into a joke
You pretend not to notice, hoping that your date doesn't either

43. You are in an argument with your significant other and begin to feel like your partner is accusing you of things that you have not done. You react by:
Throwing equally unfair accusations back at them
Leaving the room without saying a word
Proving a step-by-step breakdown of why your partner is wrong
Telling your partner that you both need a time out and can discuss it later
Apologizing just to end the argument
Pointing out all the negative things that they've done too

44. When your life gets incredibly stressful, what do you do?
I carve out some time for myself and do something I like
I wait for the situation to change on its own
I work harder because I don't have time to indulge in other activities
I vent my frustrations to close friends
I find ways to reduce my obligations

45. You've just found out that your landlord has sold your place. He says you'll have to move out in a week. How would you respond?
I'd wait until I calmed down and then call him back
I'd immediately call him and demand an explanation
I'd go over to his home and have a face-to-face "chat"
I'd immediately start packing. I have a lot to do

varshaji,i dont know how to thank you for your thoughtful ,generous answer...i wish you would be our pemanent motw...your answers are in turn humourous,witty,mischievous ,also very wise... 👏 thanks..

my next question is--

if you were offered to be anIF moderator would you be open to the suggestion? 😃

😆 😆 😆 mrspetloverusji.. must say ur answers to shady's quiz are downright hilarious..

some questions from me

How long hv u been in the US ?

How often do you visit apna Des ?

How many kids do you have ?

Which part of India do you come from ?

What is your mother tongue other than Hindi ?

😊

Mr. Orthodox - Can you keep your 'wise' opinions to yourself 😕 If you have some interesting questions to ask, please post.. but please dont make unnecessary comments on others questions... All of us here can do without your nose poking 😡

Sorry Varsha'di - Couldn't stop myself from commenting on such uncalled for posts

Originally posted by: jayc1234

Mr. Orthodox - Can you keep your 'wise' opinions to yourself 😕 If you have some interesting questions to ask, please post.. but please dont make unnecessary comments on others questions... All of us here can do without your nose poking 😡

Sorry Varsha'di - Couldn't stop myself from commenting on such uncalled for posts

Thanks Jaya for pointing out!

Please treat this as your FINAL warning Mr. Orthodox!
Otherwise, following the 'traditional' rules of IF we will have to BAN you! 😳

Hey MPLji,
I finished reading through everything and loved your answers (as usual 😃 ).
I don't know when this thread closes and whether I will have time or not, but I just wanted to say that you have been an awesome MOTW and I really feel like I learned something from this thread. Masti bhi ki hai, but you really have a lot to share and I am glad I got to read everything.
Basically, what Tanisha said. We all love you here, and reading your answers has only increased our respect for you. 🤗 🤗
You have done a great job...thanks. 👏 👏

Originally posted by: MrspetloverUS

Hi Ankita,

Welcome back. Thanks for giving me some background history on your family situation. Answer to your questions There is never ever a perfect choice. Everyone's situation is different. Times are different and Life goals are different.

I am glad with your family situation atleast you could afford to move back to India having carrers which had scope in India. Ofcourse you had to stop working past yr being a professional (Dentist) which would be kind a difficult. Hopefully you will be able to go back to practice in near future.

In our case We had left India having good job, nice home just because we wanted to be independent. Wanted to make it on our own. There were no carrers which paid that well 35 yrs ago not in India or in US? Where would we go back to with 2 little children??

The people who have come to this country in last 10+ yrs especially made good during dotcom days have better choices. They can stay here or they can go back. it is a win/win situation for them.

For us old timers It is extremely difficult to make those choices. In this process women being mothers, being highly educated with excellent professional carrers are left behind feeling guilty. May be our brought up, Our society has made us women feel inadequate if we did not do everything right or be super women. These are some of the self imposed expectations we have.

I truely wish I had answer for myself or all of us women but I don't. I just use my past experience, mistakes and try to make it better by making right decision going forward. We also have to learn to forgive ourselves and do not expect so much from us too. We also are human being just like everybody else.

Look at the whole thing as a bigger picture. Out of the box thinking is required. At times we do feel guilty but we all have to take everything in to consideration what was happening at that particular time. When we are able to see that we will be able to have better perspective and free our selves from that guilt and probably feel ok about the whole thing. Women in general feel guilty and us being indian feel even more.

Great Questions Ankita 👏 👏 👏 I hope I made some sense with my answers. Sorry for the long post. 😳

Really good answer Varshaji.👏

I won't be here for this whole day so I just wanted to say that I enjoyed your answers. At times they were hilarious, at times they were motivating and they were always very mature answers.

Varsha Di, 😊

it was really nice to know you better thru your answers and get opinion of someone elder then me on some points.😳I have really learnt a lot during this week😃.You had taken out time for replying to everyone patiently,even during your prior appointmenats and i would like to thank you for that.👏👏We had always known you as a serious person and during this week we have seen the other side of you too. 🤗

Di ,once again thanx for being the MOTW.May !god bless you and shower lot of hapiness on you

Vinnie

Varshaji, very very good going.. Brilliant answers 👏 I just read through as it was a holiday today.. Very very well done 👏