Winning & Loosing is part of life
If you never lose, you are never truly tested, and never forced to grow...
Sometimes loosing teaches you more than winning, as it gives you an opportunity to analyze where have you gone wrong...it makes you realize your strength & weakness...Its upto to the person to strengthen the strength more & overcome weakness to emerge out as a winner next time you are put in a similar situation...
To be precise, in Kabir's words, "Jo "Haar" jeetna ka junoon chadhati hai who aksar Kamyabi dilati hai..."
Back in past, Shreya may have been able to win over Kabir, she had left a broken Kabir Sharma...who was broken, emotionally, mentally, psychologically... Who now, years later have been stronger than before...he is literally been like a Phoenix risen from ashes... In past, him loosing at hands of Shreya, made him fight back stronger & achieve a status & a position from himself...I guess it was in one of initial episodes where Shreya's words came back haunting to Kabir "that he is Loser"....(I guess it was during Dr. Sinha's case) ...but after facing everything Kabir Sharma rose higher than what he was, how Shreya had left him...he worked hard irrespective by good or bad means...but he is more successful now, not only professionally but even personally too he is settled & finding happiness & love with Ananya...
Even gradually getting his family life back, he is getting people around...people whom he can call his own... not only finding love of his life in Ananya as a partner, but even relationships are coming back to him...be it finding a mother in Mrs. Kashyap..."Maaien kabhi disturb nahi karti" ...or him opening up to his brother... it was heart touching to see Kabir chatting with his "Dada"... hope Dada is able to make it to the engagement...he genuinely seemed happy for Kabir getting his well deserved happiness & love...he was glad to see his younger brother moving on his life...Hope his wife too realizes that Kabir is a changed man...wonder what went wrong with "Monu"...now, another layer of past...waiting for its revelation too...Now what wrong Kabir did with the child...wonder if Kabir-Shreya's tiffs back in past affected the little child too...
Overall, Kabir's life is coming back to track once again...from where Shreya had left a "toota hua Kabir Sharma"...He is standing all strong both professionally & personally...which is very categorically a "Loss" for Ms. Shreya Bhagat...its sort of a Kabir Sharma's winning slap to her, that no matter how much she broke him...he had that will & junoon in him to fight it out strong & emerge out as a winner...& make her look as a Looser in the game of life.
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Don't know I should feel happy or sad,😕🤔 that Shreya is proving me right at every given opportunity...that her main intention is to have a "broken Kabir"...she wants to have a "toota hua Kabir Sharma" A person with broken heart, hopes & broken dreams...as she has left him years back...considering now he has been a successful achieved a position & status for himself...& uptil now she was living in satisfaction that he was leading a lonely life...before he found his "Rhythm" with Ananya...
More than wanting Kabir for herself, more than her obsession or love...the major problem with her is she cant see Kabir "happy"...& dat too specifically happy without her...its something she cant tolerate...its her inability to see Kabir happily moving on in life without her influence.
She wants to break him as a person"as she wants to prove to him, that always its gonna be only "her" to his rescue when everyone leaves him all alone...
But bigger question lies here is, even if 1% Shreya gets successful in breaking Kabir, his bond with Ananya, their relationship...what is the gurantee that Kabir will only to return to her?? He may decide to lead a lonely life once again...she is living under a illusion in this context of having Kabir back.
More than anything, Shreya sees Kabir as a challenge, a person who had the ability to stand strong against her...& she had a desire to control him...years back he challenged her as he ignored not only her request to drop the story against her company...but also ignored her constant attempts to woo him...she was happy when eventually he gave in, but still she may not have got a complete control in his life...she broke him emotionally, mentally, psychologically...to gain that control...& eventually she had left that broken Kabir Sharma...
Shreya also realizes that Ananya is Kabir's strength & as long as they two emotionally connect with each other its not gonna be easy for her to break Kabir, she knows, with Ananya along Kabir has found a "Rhythm" in his life...he is settling down peacefully in his life...no wonder she is hell bent on drift Ananya apart from Kabir's life, as then it wud be easier to have a broken Kabir & then she can fulfill her wish of joining Kabir "piece by piece" ...But she also do realizes that its not an easy task, no wonder she teamed up with Manav...which indeed came as a surprise move from her, I was thinking she herself was much more capable to do that singlehandedly ...she doesn't require anyone's help...Even I am more surprised with Manav bhai...not for him digging out details of Shreya Bhagat's past life, afterall he is a journalist "professionally bhi... aur fitrat se bhi"... but somewhere he is crossing line with Kabir, he wants to fight it out with Kabir, he should do it on professional level...instead of personal attack, Manav bhai should take tips from Malvika darling, what it means to mess with Kabir on personal level...guess she hadn't shared it with him yet about "ghaag" Kabir dose...already Kabir has started off sending danger signals...so, beware! As it not gonna take Kabir long enough to realize what you are upto after all he already guessed "Manav ne phir se apni harkatein shuru kardi" & this time round Malvika darling bhi nahi bacha paegi...😆
Most importantly back in past it might have been easier for Shreya to break Kabir & manipulate him...but now he is a changed man, with & without Ananya & professionally it wud not take much time for Kabir to guess what MaYa [Manav + Shreya] are upto...😆😆😆 he will easily put two & two together soonest.
If I consider, Kabir's Jaane se pehle a spoiler, 😛😆😆 My good luck with Manav bhai, Shreya ka toh jo hoga who hoga...😆😆 but you Manav bhai definitely "pitoge" coz its not gonna be as easy as it sounds to break Kabir professionally & personally as a individual & KaYa as a couple... afterall, "jo "haar" Haraane ka junoon badha de, who aksar Kshati pahunchati hai"...😛.ab Manav bhai & Shreya dono mein se kis ko zyada kshati pahunchaegi ...😛😆😆 dat only time will tell but I can already see MaYa's plan failure at first step itself...& disastrous for themselves more than Kabir or Kabir Ananya.
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But seriously Manav bhai, you were good that you were able to dig out about ONS too...😆😆😆 now, don't tell me, you want us to raise our suspicions on Tarini being Shreya's partner all along in making Kabir believe that actually something did happened b/w them...& all these years Kabir living under false guilt...Back then Kabir cudn't figure out anything suspicious about Tarini maybe because he was too emotionally broken that time to think more analytically...or maybe he too, was looking for a perfect reason, a bahana to come out of the unwanted relationship ...so he didn't care to find out more specifically...😆😆😆 he found this as a easy way out 😆😆
But Manav bhai, really your "homework on Ms. Bhagat" was commendable...👏👏& Shreya was so right, "jitne lagte nahi ho, usse zyada intelligent ho"...😛😆😆 waise itni mehnat professionally karenge, it wud do wonders...😆😆 may be sometime eventually Kabir himself will make you co-editor...he appreciates such hardworking journalists...😛😆
On serious note, Kabir has always respected Manav as a professional... he always trusted & respected him as a Reporter...😊😊😊
By the way Manav bhai, you did little mistake in analyzing Shreya's intention of having Kabir back...😛 its not "loneliness ka bukhaar" but her selfish desire, her narcissist streak in her which wants to make Kabir feel her importance...at every step she wants Kabir to realize, that he is nothing without her.
But really hope CVs do realize that they are making Kabir Shreya divorce a one sided mistake...if they make Shreya wrong everytime...& make her look only culprit in her divorce with Kabir...more than that, I think Shreya as a character getting messing up a little, is she an obsessive lover, narcissist, whether she wants Kabir as a partner, as a lover...or just want to break him up emotionally & mentally once again... Coz if she is obsessive lover & wants Kabir all for herself, there is no point in bringing or showing Shreya in bad light by projecting during her married years & after divorce she had affairs...somewhere two & two don't come together...Shreya needs to stick to one characterization either she is obsessive for Kabir or she just wants to break the person...& she is doing everything for the revenge...😊😊
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Baby missing whole day raised suspicion in me...hope it did same with Kabir too, but still waiting to hear out her version...& I am really hoping & assuming Kabir too doesn't trust Baby 100% & he has someone following her & Kabir is indeed keeping a track on Baby... if he has not thought about it yet, then my advice wud be please Kabir, no aankhein band karke yakeen...😛😆atleast in this matter...keep all options & possibilities open.
[Something did stuck me, if Reporters gonna go film "Baby" way...& Baby is indeed a code like it was in the film, as it also dealt with sleeper cells 🤔]
Peon Rahul he really seemed too fishy to me, wonder what that guy is upto ...hope not much of a trouble, really wonder if he is being spying on & for anyone in particular...wonder if Kabir asked him to or may be editor in chief's fianc ...considering peon was happiest with Ananya staying back...& he might be a KaYa shipper too...helping them to keep a track on Shreya & everyone else actions.
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All the best to both KaYa & MaYa...😆😆😆 as both of them need good luck ...KaYa to fight it out strong with MaYa...& they, inturn need good luck to save themselves from Ghaag Kabir & Sherni Ananya...😆 as comparatively their bond is more stronger 😆😆 & they two together are a formidable force to compete with 😳😳
Let the best one win...😛😆 after all who plays best & plays till end will win...
KaYa need extra goodluck to deal with their terrorist mission too...along with they have their own engagement to plan too...so much to work upon...So, Goodluck.😃😃😃
p.s."missed Miss Kashyap, no scene with her boyfriend oops now fianc, neither with editor in chief...
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Sometimes you learn more from losing than winning.
Losing forces you to re-examine...
As winning gives you Happiness
Loosing gives you Wisdom.
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Episode 98
September 1, 2015
