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aaliah3108

@aaliah3108

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#31

" MHARO BHEJO EXPLODE HOVE SE "!!!

Have you all had Bournvitas / Chayawanprash etc or what or may be RedBULL drink to go on and on like his?

Please just quiet down now!

Let me be very clear , I am a SANISH fan. Do not manipulate this to speak out your mind.

Our leads are doing well in life and are professional, happy people in their own space , this should be enough for all of us as fans!

You are neither their Spokesperson or their Relationship Managers or even friends! You do not come even near to their CIRCLE of LIFE! Other than wishing them well, you do not hold any power over them!

If I say something in Sanaya AT or in Ashish AT , it is my opinion, my thought process which is independent of any other influence or event ! I am as much a part of Sanaya fandom as much I am of Ashish fandom , I cannot describe how much or how less!

Do not quote me in your posts as you shall never agree with my view point ! because

I have always just asked everyone to simply co-exist with mutual respect. This is not a very difficult thing to do really if one wants to make an effort.

If you doubt it, you can as it is your wish ! I shall never explain.

If you do not like something someone said, please contact the person concerned and not the whole family.

Every family has a group of people who think differently, act differently, speak differently . Even if someone commits a crime, the criminal is tried in court , not all of his family so please do not GENRALISE !

What is correct / wrong for San fans is also correct/wrong for Ashish fans.

All of us are guilty as charged because someone from my family lashed out at someone in your family and vice versa at some point or the other. You cannot deny this! Sometimes you did not come forward to make peace sometimes I did not. It gets nullified thus !

If you think you can fight on behalf of your fandom or family member , please also have it in you to accept their mistakes because you have also erred , you just don't remember!

Someone from here and someone from there have made mistakes, lashed out, fought or even trashed each other , hurled verbal abuses!

How many of you have ever come forward and owned up / said sorry on their behalf pro - actively ? when it comes to defending , everybody 's performance is impressive , why so ??

If you can fight on behalf of, can you not say sorry on behalf of your family !

Why is it always the wrong side of an issue which is picked up as the point of contest !!!

Everybody digs up bashing posts ...why have we never dug up the posts which praised our leads in opposite fandoms; Spoke well of them...adored them, fan girled over them or praised their beauty ???

It is the basic rule of existence that anything that hurts you , one always tries to leave that sting / hurt behind and Move On no matter how great the hurt is.

MOVE ON people ! MOVE ON from all this hatred and nonsensical fighting ...its high time.

Edited by aaliah3108 - 10 years ago

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Joseph

@Joseph_A

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#32

@ Memue / ----123---- / Sushmita72 :

Hi Guyz !
Just read this all 6-7 pages n now I can understand this entire situation n reason behind this mess. You have full right to show your anger n disappointment,no one can stop you. This Forum is not a personal property of any1.

But,I only want to say that,Don't judge the entire Fan base only because of 1 or 2 member. Here no one is representative of entire Sanaya Fan base. If,someone didn't react on such comments Its doesn't means they like these kind of any personal comments. Wrong will be wrong for all of us. No one can support or justify such things in any manners. I hardly visit any1 Post so,most of the time I missed so many things. Thanks to Deep n Ruchi that,now I know this current mess.

I am not preaching to any1 because,I think I am too young to say anything to any1. I only want to say that,If you found anything offensive or degrading, please react on same place widout wasting the time. This Past-Present mixture will mess our future too.

You all were hurt wid a Sanaya fan comment so now you all target Sanaya n Mohit . Fine !! Now,as a MoNaya Fan If, I am feeling insulting then what should I do now...?? Again insult to Ashish n Archana?? n what will I gain after this?? Its a circle n all fanz grp are part of it.

So please try to understand that any Individual opinion is not entire fan base opinion. Sanaya never said to them that go n insult Ashish or Ashish friends/wife then why are you targeting her only because of 1 individual member??

Hope,I am not crossing my line here. Generally I avoid these kind of situation but,I am replying here because,Its Deep post n she is very nice member of this Forum. RR is over n may be,after sometime we'll be not here. No chance to meet again because,as per Indian Tele rules Sanaya n Ashish will be not come back again. So,It would be nice to see a friendly atmosphere here widout any rift. Our beginning was so friendly then why are we fighting in this last stage ??

Sorry ! If, you are hurt wid my any word or sentence. My intention was not to hurt anyone. Just want a peaceful n friendly atmosphere here. Bye !!

Edited by Joseph_A - 10 years ago

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Mano.M

@Mano.M

Achiever

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#33

Hi Friends,

I already said what I wanted to say quite clearly at AS AT.But then since its an initiative to bring peace in the forum.I am copy pasting my comment in AT with modifications of what need not be repeated.

We are in same forum for so long.And we know each other.We all have cherished RR together.But some of us are fans of the fl and some the ml.But liking Ashish doesn't mean I hate Sanaya.After all RR was about Parud journey and its Sanish offcourse.I may not me that keen on Sanaya's other ventures like I do for Ashish.And that's everyone's personal choice .There were many instance,our favorite was bashed along with his whole family.But we preferred to remain quite for the peace of the forum.As we all know the ones actually doing these are few trouble makers waiting for opportunity to divide the forum.I have seen many bashing posts for Sanaya coming as trolls into our forum over the period of RR.We always stood up for her. At-least I did. Bcos its our forum and its our fl.Except few glitches here and there the forum was moving ahead with peace.

RR was over.Its almost 8 months now.But we lived as a big RR family cherishing RR in a single house.

Yes we did have separate rooms that we liked more than the common hall.

But still we were together

But the past few days has been depressing and tiring

I never thought a single post can ruin whole RR forum peace

I am not saying that none of us from AS fandom did anything wrong.We are ready to accept our mistakes too.The one that did it apologized too

And about the newbie none of us were defending him or her.

Whatever it is we should have stayed inside the forum.Some bashing post was made outside the forum on Sanaya.Most of us including many Sanaya fans ignored it as we know that it's not our forum post and many more of such posts,will happen once JDJ forum opens.And then it happened ,one post by a Ashu fan the whole fandom blamed.If u really cared about that, the one who cared could have replied her straight there.Why bring it here and instigate fight btw fandoms.We are never upto bashing the celebrity leave at all bringing her fiance or BF in.But alas here we are stamped as one

I am not worried about the one who wanted the fight.Its not new.But others...

What made us react was many did fall in to the trap this time around.

But its over and done now.Whatever needed to conveyed it's done and finished with.Whatever happens outside the forum please don't bring it inside.Sort it outside.Please don't fall into the trap of few instigators who always wanted the forum to fall apart

RR forum is a special place for me.Its part of my life.And it gave me some lovely memories and awesome friends whom I would cherish for life.Its the same for many of us here.So lets not hurt each other and lets not cross our line.

Lets not make it hard for common fans and other RR lovers,Who come here to relax and enjoy.Lets co exist peacefully.No one is doing any favor on anyone.The actors involved have a cordial professional relationship.Lets follow it too.

Edited by -Mano- - 10 years ago

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aaliah3108

@aaliah3108

Rocker

Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: ----123----
You are right Jo but also right is the fact that once this dear friend's (who does not spare anyone's feelings, she said so in one of her comments)ugly comment came in the picture no one had the guts to say anything . If I or Mamue or someone else is a rotten apple then we accept it but before we accept that CAN the high & mighties of this page who claimed that their FRIENDS could never say anything as bad as we did...can they accept that their friends CAN actually say all that because if anyone is unbiased then they would clearly see that what is written about Archana is if not far worse then as bad as what someone from U.S. said about Sanya's personal life. Can they be told if they throw stones at us then we have every right to throw it bk at them ? Would someone pl do this favour. This person claims that she is brutally honest & does not care if someone's feelings get hurt so would she be magnanimous enough to do the same for her when others hurt her feelings. WHY DID SHE MAKE A BIG DEAL OF A FAN's COMMENT ON ANOTHER FORUM WHEN SHE IS GUILTY OF THE SAME? WHAT RIGHT DOES SHE HAVE TO THROW STINES ON OTHERS WHEN SHE CAN NOT TSKE IT ON HERSELF IF THROWN BACK? WOULD HER SO CALLED FRIENDS STOP THIS SYCHOPHSNCY FOR ONCE & SEE THAT SHE COULD BE AT FAULT TOO? WE ARE NOT AGAINST EVERYONE BUT yes WE HAVE AN ISSUE WITH PPL WHO ARE BLIND TO THEIR FRIENDs FAULTS & POINT FINGERS AT US? Thank you Joseph.. Does anyone have the audacity to show her the mirror

hi fellow,

You are doing the same!

Everything is not about guts ! Also, everything is not about stating your view point in the garb of anger . I have already asked the concerned person and now it is between me and her how we choose to go on from there , I choose not to include anyone in this conversation !

Like I said in my other post few minutes back, please contact the person concerned DIRECTLY.

Send the TM a PM and ask away ...who is stopping you?

Would you like to see the mirror yourself as well?? I might as well ask you too !

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Joseph

@Joseph_A

Stunner

+ 5

Posted: 10 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: ----123----
You are right Jo but also right is the fact that once this dear friend's (who does not spare anyone's feelings, she said so in one of her comments)ugly comment came in the picture no one had the guts to say anything . If I or Mamue or someone else is a rotten apple then we accept it but before we accept that CAN the high & mighties of this page who claimed that their FRIENDS could never say anything as bad as we did...can they accept that their friends CAN actually say all that because if anyone is unbiased then they would clearly see that what is written about Archana is if not far worse then as bad as what someone from U.S. said about Sanya's personal life. Can they be told if they throw stones at us then we have every right to throw it bk at them ? Would someone pl do this favour. This person claims that she is brutally honest & does not care if someone's feelings get hurt so would she be magnanimous enough to do the same for her when others hurt her feelings. WHY DID SHE MAKE A BIG DEAL OF A FAN's COMMENT ON ANOTHER FORUM WHEN SHE IS GUILTY OF THE SAME? WHAT RIGHT DOES SHE HAVE TO THROW STINES ON OTHERS WHEN SHE CAN NOT TSKE IT ON HERSELF IF THROWN BACK? WOULD HER SO CALLED FRIENDS STOP THIS SYCHOPHSNCY FOR ONCE & SEE THAT SHE COULD BE AT FAULT TOO? WE ARE NOT AGAINST EVERYONE BUT yes WE HAVE AN ISSUE WITH PPL WHO ARE BLIND TO THEIR FRIENDs FAULTS & POINT FINGERS AT US? Thank you Joseph.. Does anyone have the audacity to show her the mirror

I understand your anger Buddy n trust me we faced more worst situation when we were active on Sanaya's previous 'HIT' Show Forum. Its not all abt Guts or stop someone because,We really can't forced someone to change their thinking level. I am just saying that if,you have problem wid any particular member or grp then please sort out your issues wid them. Celeb vs Celeb kind situation is not a solution to stop this mess.

I hardly visit any other Forum or any other Posts so,I have no idea abt many things but,I know n understand 'Fanz Base' n believe me this is very common thing on every popular Forum. Its not right place to discuss past incidents so,I can't share many things here. Please,don't underestimate yourself n your grp., Every member is equally imp here n You have full right to defend your favorite.

I am one who always respect 'Newbie' n always try to reply them widout make any differences. Here no one telling that you are 'rotten apple'. Its just a example to describe those members who are trying to create any rift between 2 fanz grps,Its applicable for both parties not only you or your grp..

We are here to cherish n enjoy our favorite show n artist not for mud slanging to each other. Its really a worst situation for any Forum. Don't give any importance to that person who has no respect for your favorite.

If, you think that,your (or your Grp) attack on Sanaya or Mohit will be best solution to deal these things please continue... No one can stop you. But, don't forget that,Its insulting for those peoples who liked n support Sanaya n Ashish in equal way. They will definitely not enjoy these bashing thing (atleast,I am feeling really bad to see this).

Most imp., do you think Ashish will be happy to read this..?? If,yes then please share this Post link to Ashish n Archana Twitter handle.

Edited by Joseph_A - 10 years ago

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Namita

@nkilam

Beginner

Posted: 10 years ago

#36

Hello all

I am a relatively new member of IF. I joined IF when Rangrasiya ended and this forum really helped me to get over the sadness which engulfed me when the show ended. Before that I was not even aware that something like IF existed. In the beginning I used to think - "Are all these people real? People who are so crazy about TV shows that they write their own FF/ OS/ SS".

I loved Rangrasiya and will always cherish it in spite of all it's shortcomings. I loved and still love Parud. I like Sanaya though I have not followed any of her previous shows. She was just perfect as Paro. But I am a big admirer of Ashish Sharma. Though I have not seen any of his previous work as well.

I have hardly ever written on this forum earlier (Twice or thrice on a FF thread I liked and a few times on AS AT thread) but I am writing today because I am amazed that people are actually writing what I read on this thread. LIKE REALLY. People you all claim to admire are doing their work and enjoying their life and this is how you spend your time. Great! But I would just like to tell all AS fans one thing - We all appreciate AS not just for his looks/ acting but for the person we all believe him to be and trust me that person would never use the language which some of you who claim to be his die-hard fans have used, no matter what other people said about him. Same is true in case of SI. I have seen one of her interviews on IF with Mohit where she said - "There are MONAYA Fans and SARUN Fans who fight with each other and in the process say a lot of crap. I don't care. I just ignore them. I choose to ignore all the negativity". So your favorites will not all appreciate the words you have used in the name of being their fans.

As a die-hard AS fan I say, bash him as much as you want. Say whatever crap you want to say about him or his entire khandaan. I DON'T CARE. I will continue to do for what I have been doing post rangrasiya - Drool on Ashish, read FF/ OS/ SS, read his interviews/ tweets, watch rangrasiya episodes and follow his future work. As and when SI will do something new I will check it out. If it appeals to me I will watch if it doesn't then I will not.

AS fans you don't have to check your words for the sake SI or how her fans will feel but for AS and so is the case for SI fans. See both of them shared a beautiful working relationship and they will work again together if an opportunity comes but hum yahaan baith kar galiyan denge ek dosre ko aur in dono ko bhi.

You are what you are for your own self. So if you are a decent person then good for you, you are not doing a favor to any one. SI yaa AS ko koi pharak nahi parta tumhare gaali dene se, naa hi Archana yaa Mohit ko padega. Do you think they really care??? But it definitely reflects on who you are as an individual.

Bye people

Enough of this non sense. Time to reread 1 of the nice ff and drool on AS

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Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: ----123----
You are right Jo but also right is the fact that once this dear friend's (who does not spare anyone's feelings, she said so in one of her comments)ugly comment came in the picture no one had the guts to say anything . If I or Mamue or someone else is a rotten apple then we accept it but before we accept that CAN the high & mighties of this page who claimed that their FRIENDS could never say anything as bad as we did...can they accept that their friends CAN actually say all that because if anyone is unbiased then they would clearly see that what is written about Archana is if not far worse then as bad as what someone from U.S. said about Sanya's personal life. Can they be told if they throw stones at us then we have every right to throw it bk at them ? Would someone pl do this favour. This person claims that she is brutally honest & does not care if someone's feelings get hurt so would she be magnanimous enough to do the same for her when others hurt her feelings. WHY DID SHE MAKE A BIG DEAL OF A FAN's COMMENT ON ANOTHER FORUM WHEN SHE IS GUILTY OF THE SAME? WHAT RIGHT DOES SHE HAVE TO THROW STINES ON OTHERS WHEN SHE CAN NOT TSKE IT ON HERSELF IF THROWN BACK? WOULD HER SO CALLED FRIENDS STOP THIS SYCHOPHSNCY FOR ONCE & SEE THAT SHE COULD BE AT FAULT TOO? WE ARE NOT AGAINST EVERYONE BUT yes WE HAVE AN ISSUE WITH PPL WHO ARE BLIND TO THEIR FRIENDs FAULTS & POINT FINGERS AT US? Thank you Joseph.. Does anyone have the audacity to show her the mirror

Don't expect anything.

I was silent reader during rr as I am huge fan of ashish since his first show aur koi aisa din nahi hoga jab Ashish bash na hua ho.we all know who is no 1 in this..but she always feel bad when her favourite is bashed but what about other actors fan..kya unko bad feel nahi hota..

Her friends always defend her,so don't expect anything from the. So many ashish old fans left this forum just becoz of this.

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Shreya Patel

@spate22

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#38

If you guys want , I'll apologize on the behalf of the person! 🤓

Shreya

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Deepa

@deepsel

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Woahhh😲😲😲...What happened to this post!?...I wanted to stop a battle inside the forum, so you started inside my post itself😆...For the first time am happy that am from a different time zone and have a real family to take care off😆..

But am very thankful to my RR family buddies, sisters and bro who understood this post and tried to reason out in my absence..Thank you guys 🤗

For others who are still bitter, just want to say to you, this is what happens if you approach any situation with anger clouded eyes. You didn't bother to read the post properly which was directed to either fandom not just one and jumped to the conclusion it was being preachy..and formed a opinion about me even without knowing me fully.

Me for instance will never bounce on a person's face to shout she/he is wrong..I just move away from the place and will quietly wait till the situation calms down and will step out with a general topic only if situation goes out of control ruining the peace of this forum. I hope you might have understood that by now as many members already indicated here..and thats why I was quiet earlier as some keep pestering with the same question..moreover I have raised my stand clear whenever some crap happened before inside this forum after I became a member..What happened outside this forum is not of my concern coz I don't visit anywhere else and don't intent to too..

Just like one of you said (sorry I hate quoting any member names but hope he/she gets it, thks for the compliment btw) its not just me, there are many "Gems" in this forum who are hidden within the garbage spewed here..once we clear those garbage, you can see them shining as before..and am trying my bit to clean here, hope I can get the helping hand from your side too and thanks to all my lovely friends who handed already inside this post.😊

Finally I request all members to stop making MIDs just for the sake of ruining something..Try to post your views with your own ids..Half of the problem will be solved...now thats gutsy isn't it?

Am certainly not mad for ruining the post here because I expected this, sometimes its better to open up bottled up emotions and calm down with some closure...Am happy some did and will be even happier if you all can find closure as well.

Stay calm and see the light at the end of the dark tunnel..

Cheers🤗