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-Sush-

@-Sush-

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

OK...peeps ...I don't get it...

What's the hurry?

Does the entire family have a plane to catch, before which all issues have to be resolved?

Why can't Paro...NOT do anything...for some time...this way or that way and let things take their course?

Why on earth...does he have to be confronted everytime he even makes an attempt to even think about something on his own? Just let him be...girl ..just let him be...

He will come around...After all...didn't you say yourself that it will take time?

And he has started to come around...didn't you see?

Why not give it time...then? Why FORCE the issue one way or the other?

Today, was a very good opportunity to let him take his time...when he started to reminisce about the past...when he thought his thoughts were private...and no one was home...,Doesn't everyone have a right to privacy...if they wish to have some time on their own...? Must they be cajoled and goaded not an answer there and then?

Then what about the reverse psychology? Isn't that another form of activism? Forcing the issue yet again...yes in a different disguise...and being clever...but why oh why is so much activism needed?

Personally I don't like emotional manipulation and drama even if done for a good cause...I like more straight forward characters ...who can be trusted...ALWAYS...This was too much for me,,,,I wish they didn't do this to Paros character...

Sorry guys ... Don't have a positive review today...but it is an honest one...like always...Hope you will not be upset ...I do want to say that have liked and appreciated everything Paro has done for him and for the family...

She has been kind, generous, understanding, tactful, and was doing rather well to heal the wounds...give him courage and give the family the support they needed...BUT ...I just didn't like today's twist...and the expectation of speed...

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-Sush-

@-Sush-

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

OK guys...because I hate being negative to a show I have loved to watch...

Here is something positive...

The two characters who have consistently brought positivity to the show...

My dear Maithli...who is always the sensible one...(except one slip at one time)

And

Suneheri...who comes in for a scene but is a pleasant character to watch...easy going...and lighthearted...appreciate the presence of her character...in the show...

Thanks to UltimateRudra urf Shwets for all the lovely collages on my posts!👏

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Tennessean

@Tennessean

Voyager

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Sush- It was a surprising episode for me.
Hi Shweths- Excellent Collage.

This was a surprise episode for me because I didn't really think that the CVs would actually take a U-Turn today. Anyways, here are my thoughts.

1) Cute moment- I like how Paro told Major that they would be going to Mandir and is he going to be OK all alone in the house? Major retorts back if he is a kid. I love what Paro said that he is not a kid but he comes a kid. Who else would know it besides our Paro Bai Sa.😊

2) Trip down the memory lane- Major does see the almirah and remembers Paro's flashback that his maasa remembers every story attached to you. He touches the almirah and looks at the numbers paper and realizes that he couldn't make a proper 4. I like how he reminisces at this point. Then comes the family drawing where he remembers that he couldn't draw his own picture with the rest of his family because he was mad. And then Paro Bai Sa says that "Your picture is at the back"😊 He was lost at this point that he didn't even realize that Paro was talking from the back. He talks about the kheer and Paro makes sure that he says the word "Maasa" and he did.😊

3) Moment of courage- Paro says that you remember every small thing because then why and how long will you keep running?👏 Stop, turn back for a second, look at your past.

4) Fragile moment- Major says that I know that she remembers everything what I remember, but he just forget one thing which is she left him 15 years ago. The picture refreshes him but that night comes and stands in front of me. When I looked for her desperately, that time comes in front of me, and when I was thrown away, I was broken.😭

5) Wobbly moment- Paro Bai Sa touches his cheek and Major says that he has moved ahead with a lot of difficulty, he buried those memories in a dark corner, don't wake them up. He is scared to face them because he will be shattered and it will be hard to put the pieces together again. Even you Paro will not be able to make that Rudra alive, don't let it happen. He doesn't want to get lost in the darkness any more. She holds his hand at this point and you could feel for him and you could feel for her at this point.😊

6) Moment of Faith- Paro tells herself that she tried everything but nothing has changed, however she is not going to accept defeat because Major will only be happy when he takes this bitterness out of his heart. When the going gets tough, the tough get going Paro Bai Sa.👏

7) Striking moment- She realizes that Mala has witnessed this so she tells Mala that do one thing, you come with us, I don't want you and Major should stay at home all alone because he doesn't like it when you are here.😊

8) Stunning moment- Mala offers to help in the kitchen and she offers to chop the onions and make Bhindi but Paro boldly says no and holds her hand and sends Maithili and Mala into shock. She says that Major's likes and dislikes have changed. She knew Major was lingering around when she said this. 😊 Did he hear it? Yes, he did.

9) All important moment- Paro brings Prasad for Major and reminds him that she had asked from Bholenath that may he always be happy, and tells him to change his clothes so that she can bring food for him. Major questions back has everybody eaten food and he does mention Maasa. Did he look for Maasa before eating food? Purpose solved again.😊

10) Turn Around Moment- Paro says that I asked for peace and quietness and I realized that it is in my hands. She asked for forgiveness from Major saying that she shouldn't have come between him and Maasa. She forgot that love cannot be forced and couldn't understand it increased his pain further.😊

11) U- Turn Moment- She holds Major's hand and asks him to put the Almirah down, and Major is just looking so confused at this point. When he asked her the reason she said that when he looks at the belongings, it gives him pain. She tells him to go and sleep and starts putting them in a cloth one by one. Major is looking and Mala comes from behind and asks her why she is doing this. She tells Mala that whenever Major looks at these stuff, it gives him pain and she cannot give any more Takleef to Major. It really hurt Mala and that hurt Major too.😊

12) Shocking moment- Mala does offer to help Sunehri but falls down in the process and Paro says that she should have called Samrat and Sumer to help her out. She further tells Maasa that things have changed because she hasn't been in the house for so many years. This house is not hers, this is not her job, she is a guest of this house and stay as a guest of this house. This sends shock waves through Danveer, Dilsher, Maithili, Sunehri and Major. Of course, KCM loves it and she is smirking at all this.😊 Major walks out in disgust and so does Paro.

13) Numero Uno Moment- Major cannot put up with all this and snaps the saree out of Bai Sa's hands and asks her what was all that about? Why are you behaving like this? Paro calmly asks what kind of behavior and to who? Major is quiet and then she says Maasa and he says "yes". So, it did hurt Major after all.😊

14) Remarkable moment- Paro asks did she say something wrong? She said sorry if she is wrong. Major said that you shouldn't have gotten so mad, she was just helping. Paro says that why was she helping and nobody asked her for her help. 😊

15) Outstanding moment- Major finally asks the question of the day- What has happened to you, Paro? Till yesterday, you were on her side, her sympathizer and why this volte-face today?😊 Paro Bai Sa reminds him that yesterday she was her maasa but today she is her mother-in-law, whose son doesn't love her, who left her son and went away. Phew! That was a lot to digest today.😊

Some random thoughts- Did Paro Bai Sa have any other option left? It wasn't easy portraying the character she did today, but she did pull it off.😛 It is just hard for us to accept because we are not used to seeing her this way.😛

Since today's episode was about Paro's reverse psychology to heal Major's past, I chose "Tactful" as the acrostic.

T- Take charge (Paro asked Major how long will he run away from the past)😊
A- Affective (Paro asked Major to remove the almirah which shocked him)😊
C- Clear-cut (Paro told Mala not to cook anything for Major which shocked him)😊
T- Tenacious (Paro told Mala that she's a guest in the house shocking the Ranawats)
F- Factual (Paro told Major that Mala is her mother-in-law who left her son)
U- Unstoppable (Major is mad and asks Paro about her attitude and demeanor)😊
L- Laudable (Paro Bai Sa's mission is partly accomplished because it hurts Major big time)😊

Precap- CVs- Please spare Paro Bai Sa's eyes because it is inhuman and also we don't want to miss her expressions.😊 Any trouble in Parud world affects us.

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Mukti

@-Mukti-

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

I am starting to feel as if the makers and channel are trying to wrap up the show. Hey this just my observation, given the sad state of so called trps. I really wish it isn't so.😭

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-Sush-

@-Sush-

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: believe77
I am starting to feel as if the makers and channel are trying to wrap up the show. Hey this just my observation, given the sad state of so called trps. I really wish it isn't so.😭

I wish...they didn't try to do TOO MUCH...and just let it be...there is a core audience who likes it the way it is...without changing EVERYTHING!

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-himu-

@-himu-

Rocker

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Posted: 11 years ago

hello sush thanks for the thread... but i dont agree with you...if she donot push him or do something it may take ages for him to become normal as HOPE mentioned in one of her reply yesterday...

lovely post @T and collages awesome

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Rishita.SIholic

@Rishita.SIholic

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

Thanks for sharing your honest opinion Sush. 😊

Since RR is a hindi serial whatever Paro is doing in the end will lead to Rudra healing and having a relationship with his mom. But, maybe if someone did what Paro was doing in real life it wouldn't have helped the person. But what's important to me is that Paro cares and is trying to do what she thinks will help the situation. Right or wrong.. I don't really know.

@Tennessean, Nice analysis!

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Zeeliciousxo

@Zeeliciousxo

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

Sush, love your take today, we are on the same page!

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Tennessean

@Tennessean

Voyager

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: -himu-
hello sush thanks for the thread... but i dont agree with you...if she donot push him or do something it may take ages for him to become normal as HOPE mentioned in one of her reply yesterday...
lovely post @T and collages awesome

Himu- Thanks for the kind words everyday.😊