Assertive and Firm - Brilliant!!!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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"Angry people are not always wise."
Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice I think this kind of sums it all up. I watched the show today and thought Atta Girl Paro!!!!!!!! finally you told him something that I was waiting to come out from you. Rudra obviously is very complex and definitely contradictory. He is only consistent in his affection for Paro and that's great but I still am not able to fathom that one hand he sort of supports his mom and on the other hand tells Paro how dare she? I am thinking okay I get it, you don't like Mohini so her enemy by association is your friend, I get that. Although that's your choice isn't it? I mean what did you wanted Paro to do Rudra? give everyone the sweet and leave you out which of course means everyone is going to look at you and Paro and think what happened here? that in turn would have made Mohini give another jab albeit bit different and then you would have had to step in???? so why the anger??? either way you were going to step in anyway. Paro of course couldn't do it as she realised and rightfully so that it is much bigger than what she is watching. Between sisters, husband and son. And lets face it even before anyone can get a chance Rudra jumped in anyway. Now about the my favourite part of the show...AMAZING!!!!!!! good on you Paro for telling the guy that tell me what about me doesn't make you angry as everything I do or don't do makes you angry. There is no winning with you. Brilliant!!!!! Thank goodness you stopped with the mollycoddling a grown man who gets angry rather first and thinks later. Do I think he should forgive his mom? I think it depends on her story, there is still so much more and eventually if Rudra listens we will know but I do think he should talk to her at least. Mala right now is just trying to blend in and I wont judge her. Yes she made a mistake and she acknowledges it and now she wants to make amends. Should she be given a chance? I think she should at least be heard. Everyone's definition is different, some believe in forgiving and giving second chance(myself included) and some don't and that's fine but I do think he should listen to her side just once.
As before healthy discussion is always welcomed. Cheers

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SanzBarbie thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Gosh I just loved her street smart rebuttal to Rudra's anger issue ...Paro is such an adorable unique character
And V thank u for the sensible nicely written post , just loved reading it <3
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Posted: 11 years ago
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OK, I just wrote on Diya's post, that I felt Paro was addressing us that no matter what she does or does not do, it riles us up!! 😆 But glad finally Paro is at a stage where she can speak up in front of her husband rather than shake in her joothis!

I too agree Mala deserves to be heard at least once, forgiven or not, let go or not is Rudra's choice to make eventually and hope Paro gives him that space. At least he will get answers, even if the pain takes a while to leave.
Edited by showviewer - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post, Vibha ...I feel Rudra had it coming!!! Have been dealing with a sulky teen the last two days, and I snapped ages ago ... 😆 so I say, hats off to Paro's patience!!! Rudra does need to come out of his ever present anger now ... the entire family is making an effort, Paro the most ... and he is obstinately staying in his cage ... and venting out constantly on the one person who cares for him and loves him the most.
Mala leaving affected him the most ... reconciling with Mala will benefit him the most ... if he will only give himself ... and her ... a chance. Which he is obstinately refusing to give ... to the point that even the normally ever-patient Paro is reaching the end of her tether.
Yes, it is his decision whether he wants to let Mala back into his life or not ... but for that, he needs to hear her side of the story. As showviewer said, at least he will get some answers ... the decision then is up to him, and hopefully Paro will let him make that decision for himself.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post and agree totally with all the replies also.
Paro gave the sweet but eating or not eating is in his own hands and he choose to eat it after knowing it was made by his mom and even the second one he ate so bursting on Paro doesn't made sense for me. Paro gave nice one👏
I thought he'll give the second one to Sunehri😃
Edited by KhushiParo - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post.
Yes Rudra had that coming and I'm glad Paro did say that. He also needs to understand that in his angry state he does tend to say the wrong thing sometimes.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Lovely post Vibha!
That scene was the scene of the day for me!
Both actors nailed the expressions so well. Boy they are good!!
Paro and only Paro can tell him as is, without mincing words and I love it!
And the best part is what he will do to make up😉

I really want this Maa drama to close now...its getting irritating.
How much longer is this going to drag?
He just needs to hear Mala's side and then decide what he wants to do.
Mala deserves to be heard, but whether or not he forgives, that depends on how much he is ready to move on.
But we all want to move on...where is Laila? Laila, Please join hands with Teju and end this family drama😆
Edited by SanayaIsBest - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just a brief note.
Enjoyed reading your post. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SanzBarbie

Gosh I just loved her street smart rebuttal to Rudra's anger issue ...Paro is such an adorable unique character
And V thank u for the sensible nicely written post , just loved reading it <3

Hi Manaal🤗
I love how she told him off!!! enough with the bad boy attitude...you were going to jump in the argument regardless who started it so don't get on your high horse now and say how dare you!!!!!!
Thanks hun, I am not able to understand the obsession with Rudra and logic obviously states otherwise doesn't it? give Mala a chance, he doesn't have to forgive her right away but talk to her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: showviewer

OK, I just wrote on Diya's post, that I felt Paro was addressing us that no matter what she does or does not do, it riles us up!! 😆 But glad finally Paro is at a stage where she can speak up in front of her husband rather than shake in her joothis!


I too agree Mala deserves to be heard at least once, forgiven or not, let go or not is Rudra's choice to make eventually and hope Paro gives him that space. At least he will get answers, even if the pain takes a while to leave.

Diya wrote a post? I need to read it I like reading her posts. I kind of think as the writers actually listening to us and Paro being the firm one and telling Rudra off...I love Paro's character and I find her much more rooted as opposed to I get angry one minute and next minute I am your cuddly bear...that doesn't work for me😛 I think of it this way, Rudra has deep deep issues because of his mother and it doesn't even much for the trigger to imbalance him. Classic abused behaviour...psychologically he is damaged and he hasn't moved on. ..why does one goes to counselling and talks? so that they can move on...does forgiveness matter? it depends on individual and how they perceive forgiveness...for one it might be just move on and for other forgive and move on...both have forgiven in their own way though.

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