Moving on Finally!!!!!

"I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail."
Abraham Maslow, Toward a Psychology of Being

Lovely post...Have to be honest and admit that I didn't like Paro bringing Mala home and thought she was being insensitive to Rudra...but now I realize she did the right thing. Rudra would have never confronted Mala and he needs to resolve this issue which has dominated and shaped his entire life and personality. Waiting to see how Mother- Son relationship develops from here... And where is Dilsher?

Originally posted by: evenjleena28

"I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail."
Abraham Maslow, Toward a Psychology of Being

I love this quote and what it represents. It reminds of Rudra, and how he deals with people and issues in his life. And frankly today confirmed it. Had it not been for Paro we would still be shown how he is pining for his mom. So thank you Paro for at least addressing one big fat elephant in the room.

I have always said that forgiveness is secondary, the current issue is Rudra wants to move on and start a new life with Paro, now he thinks he only needs her love and he may be correct on his conscious level where of course he knows what he is talking about. It is his sub conscious where he is going mom mom and mom. All Paro wanted was for him to talk to his mother and she supported him and cajoled him and finally he may have decided to talk to mom but mom became runaway mom. NOt judging her but I can understand her POV. Coming from Hicksville Chandangarh she didn't seem to have much options and in her mind she did what she at that point was thought correct. She obviously wanted to move over to other side where grass seemed much greener but turned out it wasn't. Paro was 100% correct in saying that he was running away again. He was!!!! why the hurt if all he wanted was mom gone? she is gone be happy why throw a tanty again and break more cups and saucer and scare the beejeebus out of wifey? that doesn't tell me that a man is ready to start afresh, in fact it clearly shows how disturbed he is.

Good on you Paro for taking the initiative and finding the mom and ASKING the questions that your hubby should have asked. I loved how Paro was mature and factual and she asked the right question and in fact defended hubby as well and through her we got some answers.

Now lets hope Rudra learns something and asks questions, at least about Tejawat this time. It was amazing to hear that he doesn't want to find her, not even for Tejawat???what happened to job?

And by the pre cap looks like we are going to see a shocked Rudra who never thought wifey can kiss him too...I wonder what exactly he did with Laila for every night 8 years? hygiene obviously didn't bother him but why the shocked face? guess have to wait one more day to find out...but one thing for sure Rudra sure likes strong women who takes action.

As always healthy discussion is always welcomed and appreciated. Cheers

Hola V 🤗 you hit the bulls eye 👏 you should make it a point to write more often.. 😉

To me Rudra comes across as an escapist.. he has never faced his demons and does not have the courage to face them either.. like now when he is in love with Paro he still does not want to accept it.. Ranawat family must thank their stars.. Look how Paro takes care of every situation that the men in that house cannot handle... Everyone in that house acts like a big baby .. paro is not only a sister to Maithili but is also a mother to Rudra.. When I saw Monday's episode I thought to myself if writers were reading our posts.. because sometime back we had commented that Paro should not run after Rudra with a plate of food and that ended up as a dialogue in the episode.. 😆

Now I understand why Tejawat was successful in smuggling arms.. BSD is clearly incapable of finding him or track his whereabouts.. falling out with Laila was BSD's biggest mistake.. now they have lost their only informer.. 😆

V very well written post (claps)
Today Paro just rocked the episode and showed everybody their place.
It's high time Rudra stopped running away and faced his mommy issue for which he is pining like forever ..
Paro put everyone in their shoes and allowed them to deal with the mess..
This girl is just amazingly mature at handling such an impasse ..

Originally posted by: SingaporeFan

Lovely post...Have to be honest and admit that I didn't like Paro bringing Mala home and thought she was being insensitive to Rudra...but now I realize she did the right thing. Rudra would have never confronted Mala and he needs to resolve this issue which has dominated and shaped his entire life and personality. Waiting to see how Mother- Son relationship develops from here... And where is Dilsher?

Thank you for the comment 😊 Exactly, Rudra needs to resolve the issues, swiping them under the rug is not going to make them go away, he has to face them and then deal with it and take it from there. I was thinking didn't you say that you don't care so why the tantrum? I get the pain, angst and the hardship he faced not denying it but to move on from all that talking is needed and that's what Paro wanted to do...she supported him, and at least now we know story is going somewhere..

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Hola V 🤗 you hit the bulls eye 👏 you should make it a point to write more often.. 😉

To me Rudra comes across as an escapist.. he has never faced his demons and does not have the courage to face them either.. like now when he is in love with Paro he still does not want to accept it.. Ranawat family must thank their stars.. Look how Paro takes care of every situation that the men in that house cannot handle... Everyone in that house acts like a big baby .. paro is not only a sister to Maithili but is also a mother to Rudra.. When I saw Monday's episode I thought to myself if writers were reading our posts.. because sometime back we had commented that Paro should not run after Rudra with a plate of food and that ended up as a dialogue in the episode.. 😆

Now I understand why Tejawat was successful in smuggling arms.. BSD is clearly incapable of finding him or track his whereabouts.. falling out with Laila was BSD's biggest mistake.. now they have lost their only informer.. 😆

La🤗

Originally posted by: SanzBarbie

V very well written post (claps)
Today Paro just rocked the episode and showed everybody their place.
It's high time Rudra stopped running away and faced his mommy issue for which he is pining like forever ..
Paro put everyone in their shoes and allowed them to deal with the mess..
This girl is just amazingly mature at handling such an impasse ..

Hola Manaal🤗

Originally posted by: LadyLaLa

Now I understand why Tejawat was successful in smuggling arms.. BSD is clearly incapable of finding him or track his whereabouts.. falling out with Laila was BSD's biggest mistake.. now they have lost their only informer.. 😆

Just remembered hun, you know this sentence is so apt and it reminded of the Friend's episode where it the conversation between Joey and Chandler goes something like this:

Rudra is shocked because he didn't imagine Paro will do this to him

Originally posted by: shonasandy

Rudra is shocked because he didn't imagine Paro will do this to him

Hmmm seems strange considering she always initiates the first move with him...but hey whatever makes him happy after all har raat 8 saal must have taught him something.