I'm in LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello Everyone,

I"ve been watching this drama since day 1, but this is my first post in this forum. Used to post lots in JA but haven't for months now.

BUT I love this drama and yesterday and today just sealed the deal for me. There is something about a wedding that just brings happiness in the air, even it is a so called "forced " one...

Personally I would have been more upset if the wedding had happened earlier, when they were both kind of angry at each other, kind of in love with each other , but kind of just nothing as well...NO FIRE, no intensity, no PASSION like there was in THIS WEDDIng!!!!

OMG...👏👏 Ashish just blew my feet from underneath me today with the entire scene...he carried it from start to finish, including when he picked her up and took her to the room ... (did you notice how everyone kind of blushed / were embarrassed ) when he spoke about his suhaag raat... But that's just the thing, Rudra just says what he wants when he wants. AND yet he has a hard time tolerating that when his now wife says what she wants wherever she wants , such as the medal ceremony scene.

Double standard, of course it is, but well our Rudra hates beautiful woman so I suppose he's entitled to his double standard for now...later on it will probably definitely get worse, until finally he realizes that his Paro is true to him and will remain true to him.

Rudra is an amazing character. I still have hope for him, that although he will want to punish her, he won't let anyone else say or do anything to her either...at least for now, he will be the lion who bites her and protects her at the same time.

As for Paro... I know she didn't want the wedding to happen quite like that, but wasn't it her stubborn self that said that she already considered herself his wife. So whether the ceremony happens with a lucid Rudra before a Pundit or whether it happens in Rudra style, she still gets to be his wife, and now can start to do things for him that bring forth his love and compassion.

I do not believe that by her acting loving or caring with Rudra even after the wedding ceremony, is her being a door mat. Paro has shown us time and time again, that she is anything but that, so this one event in her life doesn't change that.

For instance, doesn't it take a large amount of will power to put on that Sari, with all of the jewellery to begin with, when she knows she is actually a widow and has had no official wedding with Rudra... for a girl like Paro, that takes a huge leap of faith and self determination in knowing that the path that she has chosen for herself is the right one for her and Rudra...

She in fact has made quite a few decisions for the both of them, and now if Rudra makes this one faulty decision of getting married drunk and making those ridiculous vows, well then I guess he gets a pass...because Paro with the help of Bapusa and Aman and everyone else will be able to slowly but surely break through this rock hard Rudra...

Anyways...as my first post, just wanted to say I have loved reading the forum and thought it was about time to post as well, since I fell in love with the entire drama all over again after that wedding...

Sonya

Welcome to the forum Sonya!! And thank you for writing that descriptive post!!

Great post. Good to see positive posts. I loved the episode. You won't get any complaints from me. Felt Rudra's anger was justified. A man is allowed to get drunk and wallow in his misery. Ashish rocked yesterday and today.

Welcome to the forum. I am Namita. You can call me Namz.

Very well written Sonya.
Do continue every now and then.

Yes, I am in love too!

This story is quite strong and unpredictable and both leads are doing an amazing job. I wont describe Paro as a doormat at all. I know her days to shine are yet to come. She comes across as a strong woman who is yet to unleash her potential. The anticipation is what makes it so much more exciting to watch.

Have fun!

Am in love too! Cant wait for the story to unfold...

Oh ... ladies I was laughing when he started spewing his lines about the 7 vachans...and the waving of the dupatta wth the fire at the end...HAHAHA.

HIs drunk acting - 10/10 . loved it .

the 7 vachans - we all know he is going to eat every one of those words 10 fold.

But one thing I have to say - because I used to be a member of the military - is that that uniform is not just a sign of prde, honour, respect and loyalty - its a way of life...

I completely understand just how broken Rudra is at the moment. The BSD uniform, everything that it stands for, his country, his people, his land, all of that is embodied into that uniform.

Whereas for Paro - the sindoor and the red sari is what she sees as her identity, as a woman with light in her life, with a man in her life who will honour her, respect her, take care of her and eventually be a family with her.

So when Rudra sees her in that red sari - I think / or at least I felt it in his eyes that something switched. I don't know if he was intending on getting married to her in that fashion, but when he sees her in her Sari - in the clothes that she CHOSE to wear and he can't wear the clothes that are nearest and dearest to him, he mentally flips a switch...And we get crazy Rudra with the 8 vachans...

We all know he will get his uniform back, but just the process of having everything stripped for him is more than he can handle. It's almost as big as his mother leaving him, but in this case its his uniform being torn from him piece by piece...at least she left him in one quick move...this was even more dreadful to bear, because an officer;s honour and self respect are so important and valued.

Ahhh...this drama. Like I said..."I'm in love! "

first of all welcome to the forum🤗 lovely post. agree with you. really loved the episode and am in love with drunk rudra and his shrimatiji.

Good post Sonya! Agree to what you say

Very well written Sonya. Good to see positive posts.