Why this disconnect has happened regarding Paro!!UPDATED - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessunara


well just cz the story is sad, then keep the others happy instead of fully ignoring her as they have been doing for ages now! :(

And it actually doesn't have to be full sad also... they can use many flashbacks - freshly shot, which we have not yet seen. Some escapades with Bindi, some specific memories with her jija, maybe her wedding and bidai and how a happy young Paro was helping out in it, how she n mamisa had some moments, show how her Thakurainmasa taught her how to sew..and how she used to spend a lot of her time with her...
Use them to give us her memories of happier days along with reminding us who Paro was before she lost her identity.. those will cover a lot of screen time in a happy way.. it might have an underlying bittersweetness at the end of the memory.. but that usually works well..

So i truly hope they go that path.


All these people Bindi, her mom/ dad, Nadini are dead or missing...those memories will make things sadder...

I am all for FBs with Thakurain who loved her and of course with our hero...😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sush-



Just have patience princess...it will come...

They need at least a day to figure out a game plan...😃


Sush, it's not an issue of today rather the lopsidedness in the story telling over the past few weeks now. Have signed up for Rudra AND Paro's journey and love story. Hope the creatives read Jaya's post.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sush-


Ha ha...sure I am in!!!
I think Takurain and Paro should be together soon...My mom sort of predicted that...

Its funny that my moms view is that ...Paro and Rudra are both very strong...and that's the best thing about the show...but the board members have a very different view...😃


I agree with you mom. 😊 My only gripe is with giving Paro, as an individual, more space and not relegate her existence in conjunction with Rudra always.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sush-


All these people Bindi, her mom/ dad, Nadini are dead or missing...those memories will make things sadder...

I am all for FBs with Thakurain who loved her and of course with our hero...😃


no they will only be sad when the memories end.. while they play out they can be happy.. as in use them as full on newly shot scenes of 3-4 mins.. filled with laughter and happiness..

that bittersweet longing at the end of it will not be too depressing after some sunshine by ending with it having Paro slipping in to a happy day dream n having a soft smile on her at the past before she is jolted back to present by someone calling out to her.. maybe suneri or Maitili.. n not get too much footage on her dwelling on that memory, for the coming of the memory itself being the dwelling part..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jaya hit the nail on the head regarding the outpouring of posts yesterday on Paro. It was not about one isolated episode, this is a feeling many of us have shared repeatedly on this board, especially since the last few weeks. The story was beautiful when it started off, because it was evenly balanced between both the leads, they both got equal time and space for their feelings. The last few weeks, ever since the action shifted to the haveli, it has become lopsided and too heavily weighted on one side.
Yes, Rudra is struggling with bad memories of his childhood, his mother, ever since he came back. He is also dealing with job issues, and a vicious aunt. And trying to protect a girl who could be his only witness. And struggling with mixed feelings for her.
But he has two people who know the entire truth with him, his father and his uncle. Even in the middle of all this, he is not alone.

Paro is dealing with a whole lot more ... she is completely alone, in a hostile environment, her only protector is also her biggest enemy, she is being forced into a marriage she doesn't want, for the sake of protecting her loved ones, she has no one she can confide in. Rudra is throwing bits of information at her which she cries out are lies, but does she mull over what he says at all when she's alone? Does she even consider that what he says might be right, and then try to deny it to herself, as a way of coping with what she's going through?

The writers have had opportunities where they could have shown more about her feelings, but they have ignored them or cut them short. The recent episode of the song was one such opportunity. So this protest is not about yesterday as such, it is about the preceding few weeks. This is a daily show, and the cvs have plenty of time to explore the feelings of all the protagonists ... we are getting plenty of scenes of the antagonists, but not enough of the protagonist, especially the leading lady, who is the only completely positive character. And that makes the show lop sided, and also heavy with negativity.

And please don't say that Paro is a weak character and has no existence apart from Rudra, so they can't show scenes of her alone. She has shown more strength in dealing with the blows fate has dealt her than Rudra has ... she has kept her strength and beliefs intact and confronted Kaakisa face to face, not once but twice ... she has developed a fledgling relationship with Maithili and Sunehri ... she is at loggerheads with Sumer, but quietly so. Any of these relationships can be developed into small filler scenes ... which would also contribute to showing more of Paro's growth. If her realisation of Rudra's truth is not written into the story for the current moment, I would rather they delayed it ... don't want another show being derailed because of the ML's absence ... i'd rather watch filler scenes for two weeks and get back to the original story when he returns ... but even filler scenes should include the female lead as much as possible.

Whether Ashish is absent or present, these issues need to be dealt with.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: showviewer


Sush, it's not an issue of today rather the lopsidedness in the story telling over the past few weeks now. Have signed up for Rudra AND Paro's journey and love story. Hope the creatives read Jaya's post.


Who is Jaya?? And
What post?

Please pardon my ignorance..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Sush-


Who is Jaya?? And
What post?

Please pardon my ignorance..


Sunara has copy pasted the post written by Jaya. I was referring to it. Check pg. 1.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: showviewer


Sunara has copy pasted the post written by Jaya. I was referring to it. Check pg. 1.


OK...saw it...read the post too!

Can't say I disagree or fully agree...may be I just don't feel as strongly about this...while I would like some monologues, and some sweet memories...I disagree that the main heroines character is being neglected...I think there are many scenes indicating what she is thinking that come out in her interactions with various characters...

I think she is shown to be soft and strong...at the same time...

But again...that's just my opinion...

One place where I have an exactly opposite preference is ...watching more FBs of Varun ...and the fake marriage...I am sick of that fake coward dying that death a thousand times...I would like to move on...I would like Paro to sense or find the truth somehow...


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: DiyaS

Jaya hit the nail on the head regarding the outpouring of posts yesterday on Paro. It was not about one isolated episode, this is a feeling many of us have shared repeatedly on this board, especially since the last few weeks. The story was beautiful when it started off, because it was evenly balanced between both the leads, they both got equal time and space for their feelings. The last few weeks, ever since the action shifted to the haveli, it has become lopsided and too heavily weighted on one side.

Yes, Rudra is struggling with bad memories of his childhood, his mother, ever since he came back. He is also dealing with job issues, and a vicious aunt. And trying to protect a girl who could be his only witness. And struggling with mixed feelings for her.
But he has two people who know the entire truth with him, his father and his uncle. Even in the middle of all this, he is not alone.

Paro is dealing with a whole lot more ... she is completely alone, in a hostile environment, her only protector is also her biggest enemy, she is being forced into a marriage she doesn't want, for the sake of protecting her loved ones, she has no one she can confide in. Rudra is throwing bits of information at her which she cries out are lies, but does she mull over what he says at all when she's alone? Does she even consider that what he says might be right, and then try to deny it to herself, as a way of coping with what she's going through?

The writers have had opportunities where they could have shown more about her feelings, but they have ignored them or cut them short. The recent episode of the song was one such opportunity. So this protest is not about yesterday as such, it is about the preceding few weeks. This is a daily show, and the cvs have plenty of time to explore the feelings of all the protagonists ... we are getting plenty of scenes of the antagonists, but not enough of the protagonist, especially the leading lady, who is the only completely positive character. And that makes the show lop sided, and also heavy with negativity.

And please don't say that Paro is a weak character and has no existence apart from Rudra, so they can't show scenes of her alone. She has shown more strength in dealing with the blows fate has dealt her than Rudra has ... she has kept her strength and beliefs intact and confronted Kaakisa face to face, not once but twice ... she has developed a fledgling relationship with Maithili and Sunehri ... she is at loggerheads with Sumer, but quietly so. Any of these relationships can be developed into small filler scenes ... which would also contribute to showing more of Paro's growth. If her realisation of Rudra's truth is not written into the story for the current moment, I would rather they delayed it ... don't want another show being derailed because of the ML's absence ... i'd rather watch filler scenes for two weeks and get back to the original story when he returns ... but even filler scenes should include the female lead as much as possible.

Whether Ashish is absent or present, these issues need to be dealt with.



Awesome Diya. 👏 May I request you to make a new post on Paro and her characterization, as there are many posts cropping up saying she is the most weak character. I am tired of responding. Would like one sensible post on Paro from someone like you who articulates so well.

Edited by showviewer - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: showviewer



Awesome Diya. 👏 May I request you to make a new post on Paro and her characterization, as there are many posts cropping up saying she is the most weak character. I am tired of responding. Would like one sensible post on Paro from someone like you who articulate so well.


ya dia di, u better make it cz these days I am too angry to write something without losing it completely!

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