Why the marriage should not happen yet

I don't want the marriage happening now, too prematurely.He is arrogant and proud,possessive and jealous whereas Paro is still prejudiced & hates him... This early union will get heated-up and could end in a bitter relationship. Both will be drawn to each other's fascination but their anger & specially mistrust will make it difficult to bear with one another. Rudra's dominance and majestic attitude to overshadow & overpower her may not be tolerated by Paro who is otherwise shy& demure but showing her lioness claws these days.

Rudra seems to be violent at times,by placing love and violence side by side, these are equally passionate emotions that have the potential to also produce selfishness and egotism, and perhaps the line between love and violence is closer than she is comfortable to admit.It will further jeopardize any budding emotions (if developing) out of proximity.He by nature wants to dominate and exhibits arrogance which will ultimately lead to destruction.

Paro is already scared of him & hates him,,,,,,, what would you expect when she sees him killing her husband who in her eyes was a prayer answered as she craves for that gentleness, care , protection,& simple & loving life he portrays for her.She wants simple joys & small things make her happy...( dewar par apni pasand ka choona aur keel lagana type) She wants to have a small family to call her own,she wants to belong to her dream lover BUT he snatches the dreams out of her life.

The lovely couple Varun-Paro how they made my heart melt away & made me beleive in the innocent romance. Varuna was independent, educated Gentle,soft spoken, too good & sweet to be true,,,,,& guess he won her heart with imli ...with salt on side. He seemed smitten by the beautiful Paro at first sight ... can't blame him, she looks like a dream.And she was as smitten with her gentle poet groom as he was with her.

A match made in heaven ... or was it? A short-lived romance, which was killed before it has time to put down roots ...How everybody wanted Varun to survive & wanted to see their love blossoming & their dreams of home, family together come true,it was really heartbreaking to see Paro's happiness & dreams being shattered later on...

Paro's line at temple was symbolic"Kaash unka naam aapke naamon mein se ek hota" that was supposed to be "Rudra"on the other hand, the man of her nightmares ... as dangerous, as violent, as ruthless as the devil ... he bears the name of her beloved Shivaji ... RUDRA who is as destructive and stormy as his namesake. He is a dominant, chauvinist, self-centered, arrogant, yet the soft man with a golden heart.BUT time has yet to prove his worth in her eyes. &

don't forget about The Laila factor who wiill be ultimately creating misunderstandings & mistrust between the two,,,, she is an expert at playing the Lusty games to overpower & get what she wants & now she is woman scorned, too dangerous,,, don't underestimate her words """ kaheenh yah naachney waaleee kaatne wale na ban jaaeey',"""""""