Please STOP misquoting Swati!!!

Moderator Please close this thread it found inappropriate and unwanted...Thanx a lot...

But I dont think you shudve made a topic for this !!

There are mods to take care of issues..!

This wont be a forum if everyone stops putting forth their views and comments...U cannot always decide for them what they should say and what they shouldnt...Take comments with a pinch of salt..

Compared to other forums on IF this forum is very sophisticated in comparison...U wanna see how ppl react to new entries? Go chk out the BHPH forum on Sony...thats what you call Bashing !!

I think you need to RELAX and Stop Moral-Policing.We have very capable Mods to take care of these issues..You are coming down too strong on the members..

And Shriya Plzz Report posts...if you think they are unfair or unworthy of being opened and END it there...Making new threads to reason out those issues is NOT a Solution...!

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Now that you have edited your post.....

My post seems irrelavant and out of place...

But really Shriya...U are freaking out over NOTHING....U have not been a part of forums where there are issues and till now RBO was SHANAK's paradise and the new problems brewing up are surprising for you...NOT for us....We have faced worst...

And with such posts....Trust me ...U are painting yourself as a "Bad Cop" and its not helping you in anyway.....!! U are the one being misunderstood...

People who wanna make mischief will not be affected by posts like this...They will turn a deaf ear at you and continue with what they wanna do...!

Its futile and causes unrest for the other members here...

U know....Seeing one bashing post....then another post reprimanding the basher.....then another post for peacemaking...Its plain ANNOYING !!

Last time when there was an issue with Yashu being bashed and then a post was made to defend Yashu...that time too I had said that dont give importance to such stuff....

If you think a post is uncalled for...then ask the mod to close it down....Dont comment on it....

And as for Swati....I think Swati you leave all this question asking...Dont put yourself in trouble of getting misquoted if you are hurt...I understand that you being a mediator are upset that you are trying to help and are being misunderstood...

Swapnaji has a fan page and people can talk to her there....U should only maybe ask her very serious questions once in a month or sumthing.....So you wont be putting yourself in a spot either...Why should you suffer coz of all this....! M sorry you had to face this...!

Being old members of RBO forum...I can only tell you both coz I know you people...I cant go and advice any 3rd person whom I dunno....!!

I consider you friends ...Isiliye I bothered to reply.....Warna I wudnt have come here !!

everything they feel bad .

HOWEVER, that beign said, as rbo forum veteran, its is very important for us to set the right examples... making a whole thread solely in reply to few other comments, making a thread just to defend a fellow member - that can EASILY be counted as spamming shriya... this thread was not needed: the people in question cud just have been warned in the respective threads or via pm's.... by making a whole thread on it, people who DO NOT know about this issue will also be curious... and everyone will try to see what exactly is this "swati case" - thus unnecessary discussion/debate of the specific member.... see what i mean? by making a whole thread, including the title, u may just b making things worse.. and i know, as well as everyone else, that's not wht u meant to do.. but threads on such topics are still against IF rules.. i guess all i am saying is, be a moral police, but where the rules are being broken😊

and the reason I am saying this here, is not just becuz of ur thread, but rather becuz i have now seen this happen quiet a few times here... so Guys, making threads directed at or on behalf of specific members (unless its soem bday thread or miss u...) will only bring the issues into more of awareness (and thus discussion/debate) than it already is... rather pm the respective parties - that is wht pm's are for - so to get te msg to only the concerned members, without everyone else reading them...😊