Originally posted by: rupalip
My uncle told me that the time when Sugreev accepted his kingdom and Ramji halted journey for 4 months being rainy season, one day Dashraths soul came to meet Ramji and to guide him.. As Ramji was so in love with SItaji that wanted to have her back but was unable to take step like attacking Ravan coz of his nature - not to harm anyone without reason. If he will attack ravan, Monkeys will face harm.
Dashrathji consoled him and said to forget all abt harm and rules. Your motto is to have your wife back and a king dont think like you, be a Kshatriya and follow as said. ravan will never come to your rescue on his own and noone will help you get your wife back. You have to make efforts.
Then Ramji came out of grief and instructed Laxmanji to go and call Sugreev immediately. Similarly many times Laxmanji consoled lord.