I'm on RAKHI'S SIDE! See my LIST of REASONS plz - Page 2

I adore Rakhi. She works hard. Everything she is today is through her struggles. I like her nokjhoks. Everything is ok because her heart is genuine and honest.

Originally posted by: jibi

I had developed respect for Rakhie after watching her minutely in Big Boss. I found her a genuine and honest person. Everybody makes fun of her in Mika case but i fully support her. She had the courage to express her displeasure in front of media. I agree her that Mika is a cheap person who uses a girl in a disgusting way for cheap publicity. Why? because being an item girl, she is vulnerable to these things. And those who dont have any talent gain popularity like this. Media has always been biased towards her. Actually, media has been more disgusting than Mika. I really hate (and feel hurt) when she is used as a mockery object in reality shows/anchoring etc. I had actually voted for her in 'Nach Baliye' till the last episode.

I kept quiet when in this forum i saw members making fun of her. I simply felt that those who have lived their life in bed of roses can not understand the hardship and humiliation which Rakhie has gone through. They are not sensitive enough to feel the pain which has been pinching her and which will torment her throughout her life.

We are living in respectable families, so we have an option to avoid the places where we feel our dignity is attacked. We are not able to forget even a single incident of insult ever occurred in our lives. Just imagine, how one will be feeling if everywhere ones dignity is attacked and the person is not allowed to live a decent life.

I fully justify her behaviour.

Originally posted by: tulipbaby53

I had posted something similar to this, but I think the topic POOFED away somewhere! 😆 Yours is way better anyways, so yeahh! 😆
no urz is jst as good😆...jst found that post😉..and I totally agree wid the topic😊

I definately agree with you! I've always been siding with Rakhi even before this show because after I saw her in Big Boss I realized that she has had a VERY tough and horrible life!
I don't have that channel😕....but wow...I never knew people started admiring her before this swayambar show.

When she admitted on live television on her show that she danced in bachelor's parties, that takes a lot of guts! I mean, most people would try to hide something like, but she came out in the open and honestly told everyone what she did. She also expresses her circumstances and how she did this all for her family! It's really sad how cruel life can be to some people! 😭 I feel bad for her because everyone is always making fun of her or looking down on her, when actually, I think she is a person worth respecting because she sacrificed literally EVERYTHING to support her family. For a woman her self respect is everything, and she even put that on the line for her family.
TRUE- not many women are prepared to do this type of sacrifice!!! totally admire her

She is one person that you can truly say is a self made woman! 👏 I know that she is an "item girl" in Bollywood, but that does not mean that she is that in real life. She has feelings, and she is very sensitive to what people say. She also really feels for people! I think another reason why she is doing the swayamvar is because she wants people to know the real Rakhi.
Well she's made me realise this in this show too....her personality is totally opposite to the image i had thought up of...

I really do hope that she end up finding the right soulmate, but by judging how rough her life has been, I think it will take her time to fully trust someone. I think she will date the last guy remaining, but I don't think she will marry him until later. She has been hurt too many times by too many people...first her father left them when she was four and then Abhishek used her...It's going to take her time to really trust and depend on someone. Whomever she chooses is going to have to be understanding and adusting to her.
Its about time she gets the things she wishes for...and i totally hope she finds her Mr Right😳

I think that there's nothing wrong with a swayanvar because this how in the olden days princesses got married. From all over princes would come to seek the princess's hand in marriage, and she would get to choose the one who was worthy of her heart.
True...I forgot about this...afterall its the title of the show. This is a very good point...people in the olden days used to hold Swayambars and all! Our Rakhi is no less than a princess😉😆

I don't think I could personally do something like this, but I feel Rakhi is more mature than me at figuring people out! 😆 She's been through a lot and has seen a number of people, so she really understands who is genuinely in love with her and who is not.
Yup....i guess thats the result of all of that experience...she is very mature...more mature than i thought....

It's sad that her life has been so bad, and I hope that this show changes her life positively! So far it already has! I mean, she gets to happy when the celebrities come to the house and give her blessings. She enjoyed talking to Baa, Swini, Sakshi, and Rakshanda, and she was overwhelmed with joy when she met Farah and Neeta! 😃 I mean, I would be too though! Getting my wedding outfits designed by the top notch designers!!
oh and did u hear when she sed that she wanted to look like Ash😳...😆so sweet of her....and yup I loved that episode when she met all her friend stars

😲 Even if she doesn't get married right after the show is over, I hope she realizes that she worthy of respect and love just like any other person. I feel after knowing about her past more, that she truly deserves all this love and attention!
👏👏👏

I'll admit that I do laugh at some of Rakhi's ways and when I first heard about the show I was laughing, but now, I see a genuine wanting in Rakhi's eyes to get settled with the right life partner!

Okay, there's my VERY long post! 😆

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👏 not as loong as mine😆 Thanks 4 replying..glad to know that someone else also agrees wid me😊

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

I adore Rakhi. She works hard. Everything she is today is through her struggles. I like her nokjhoks. Everything is ok because her heart is genuine and honest.

If I compare arranged marriage to this the only thing I can say that is wrong here is that she is in the industry and the guys might be using her. well that could've been the case even if this was not on tv and fixed by her family. At least if a guy has serious issue here then he wouldn't be able to escape.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion. If Rakhi is ok with this then it is all good. After all it is her life. I just hope she finds a good guy.

Originally posted by: cynical

I am completely on the side of the topic starter. I admire Rakhi and her guts and her honesty. I hope she finds Mr.Right through this show and she gets a lot of love from him.

If you go on youtube, you will see people calling her cheap and low and using rough and abusive language for her.. well how ironic, the ppl who consider her cheap are acting cheap themselves by showing how well-spoken ppl they are themselves by swearing at a woman who's probably older than them.

I am with Rakhi in this! Gudluck to her, my best wishes are with her.

Originally posted by: j_veenu

very good post...must say


infact I agree with you.....seeing the childhood she had and the family background she comes from....its is very commendable for her to achieve so much in life..

if anyone remember.....there used to be show on Zee Tv...called Jeena Isi ka Naam Hai....or something like that....she had appeared in that...and there actually showed her storty for the first time....the show interviewd her family members....her brother...her sister....her jiyaji....her mom as well....they all said that they are what they are only becasue of Rakhi...even her sister's husband repsects Rakhi very much

she was Neeru....but had to become Rakhi....to make her family survive....her dad left her family when she was quite young....and she had to take all the responsibilities....

we can not deny that fact that there could be many more girls who have proved to be everything for their families....but just because Rakhi chose this entertainment line, she is not liable for any criticism.....just becasue she is a bit more bold than most of the poeple would expect the girls to be....she cant be insultated....i agree that at times she acts wired to very childish...but least she is not faking.....

Originally posted by: naila123321

I totally agree with evryone! I'm starting to respect Rakhi more n more with each passing day.
Now i feeel tht rakhi's is serious of getting married..she wants to settle down in life now.. thus she doesn't really care for her carrier anymore..thts y wheen Eilesh asked her is she would move to toronto with him? n her reply was an instant Yes! .
Rakhi is a great women indeed 👏

Originally posted by: Mallika113

Wow, I am very much impressed with Rakhi by reading all your posts. I have been watching the show, and she seems genuine and very likeable! She has really changed my opinion of her. I truly hope that she finds Mr. Right and all the happiness that she deserves! I didn' t see the part where she said that she is ready to move to Toronto with Mr. Canada😊 That's pretty good for Canada😉 Rakhi will take Canada by storm😊