Sid and Neha?? - Page 2

He has the guts to sleep with Neha before getting married to her but doesn't have guts to speak to his mom? He is such a coward....poor Neha did not see that before falling for him. Men who cannot speak against their mom/pop dont have the right to fall in love.

I wouldnt say that sid doesnt deserve neha.. just because he asked her to abort the baby. But i would say that they should get married secretly anyways.. I think veera would be supportive of that..
I am sure sid is freaked out about the prospects that his mom is so against their wedding.... but he needs to stand up for himself and neha.. I think neha is quite brave for that matter and thinks that she can take care of the matter on her own.. but may be its because she has seen her mom take care of two daughters on her own...
Lets hope history dont repeat itself.....

Well, i think sid deserves neha. y shud he be the one to blame for all this? if he has already talked to his mom and she doesnt agree, its not his fault. If this is so important, y doesnt neha go tell her mom that she is pregnant. Secondly, i dont see nething wrong with him telling neha to abort the kid. If he is not ready for one, at least he's honest about it (lol he looks like a kid himself) 😛 . Lastly, i think if a girl gets pregnant before she gets married, its pretty much her own fault because its her own body and its not like ne body forced her into it. She shud know what's right and wrong at this point.

Originally posted by: minni4444

Well, i think sid deserves neha. y shud he be the one to blame for all this? if he has already talked to his mom and she doesnt agree, its not his fault. If this is so important, y doesnt neha go tell her mom that she is pregnant. Secondly, i dont see nething wrong with him telling neha to abort the kid. If he is not ready for one, at least he's honest about it (lol he looks like a kid himself) 😛 . Lastly, i think if a girl gets pregnant before she gets married, its pretty much her own fault because its her own body and its not like ne body forced her into it. She shud know what's right and wrong at this point.

Yes you are right to a point Sid is not the only one to blame. Why is Neha hiding everthing from her mom then if she is a big girl and she is old enough to do what she did? She shud've been xtra smart n not slept with Sid becos she has seen what happns with single moms becos her mom suffered so much.

But Sid's reason for wanting to abotr the baby is bad I mean he is not saying abort cos I am young and u r young, he is saying abort cos I cant convince my mom, what is this mom crap!! Y cant he just get a job and say I am independent and dont need ur permission!! So for him it is not a matter of principle but matter of convenince and thaz wrong 😡😡

I agree that sid is not the only one to blame for the preg. But Neha alone is not to be blamed either. If it is wrong for the girl to sleep with a guy b4 marriage due to the fear of pregranancy, the same should go for the guy. He was equally involved, and now neha wants the baby while sid doesn't cuz he can't convince his mother!!! that is really no reason, maybe if he said, that I am breaking of with my mother goint to marry you, but then i will be struggling finding job etc. therefore, we will not be able to take care of our baby, that would be totally understandble, but here he is just being a coward. When Neha is ready to have to the baby going against society!!! why Sid can't gather the courage against his own mother to tell her truth and stand up for himself? And if he respects his mother's opinion about neha, why didn't he think of that when he started going out with neha, and slept with her, everyone knew Sid's mom did not like veera or her family!!!

Thats true too. i never got to that part of it.Sid is definately at fault as well. he's such a mommy's boy. He's the one getting married, not his mom. If he doesn't take a stand soon enough, i bet ya his mom is gonna marry him to a cow. 😆 He needs to take much more action. and veera isnt doing very much either.

But i think neha should make some effort too. First she shud have been more careful before doing this because she is the one who wud have gotten pregnant, not Sid. So it wud be a bigger headache for her. At this point, Neha shud tell her mom.I think she will support her daughter. after all she has taken care of 2 daughters and she understands what being a single parent is like. and plus if neha's gonna keep the kid, everyone will know sooner or later.

whatever sid and neha are most likely history i think sid will end up marrying mona and neha will be left alone and pregnant and then they'll bring in someone for neha...isnt that how these indian serials usually go?

Sid really needs to stand up to his mum...he can't just leave Neha how she is!!!
he should look at Kushan...after all Jushan fought with his parents because he loved Veera...not Amisha!!!

Originally posted by: nibbles

Sid really needs to stand up to his mum...he can't just leave Neha how she is!!!
he should look at Kushan...after all Jushan fought with his parents because he loved Veera...not Amisha!!!

I agree he should ask 4 kushan's help as he went through similar situation

Originally posted by: Saregama_fan

I agree he should ask 4 kushan's help as he went through similar situation

Well ... i completely agree with both of you ... I tink he juz cant take the fact that he has to fight his mom ... but he has to stand up!