Discussion: Can you ever marry a mamma's boy?

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

No cuz it does not matter even ur mil is Dilshad as its ur husband wid whom u have to spend ur entire life not hus mom.

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Riya

@princessonline

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Props to you! This is a really good topic.

My answer would be, no. I will not marry someone who is a momma's boy because I feel it's important for a man, woman, anyone for that matter to have their own opinions and beliefs. Although, it's good to obey your elders and respect your parents, I want you to be your own individual person. I don't want you depending on your mom for everything.

What Qubool Hai has shown thus far is too extreme. I'm a girl and I'm super close to my mom, but I wouldn't do just about anything my mom asked me to do. I love and respect her but I know what's right and wrong for myself as well. I think it's important to be independent and rational and for you to have your own views, thoughts, values, and beliefs. I, personally feel the relationship that the men in Qubool Hai had with their moms was pretty unhealthy. Maybe we can exclude Asad a little bit. But Aahil and Azad...You should be able to see the flaws that someone possesses. You shouldn't just blindly believe they are right all of the time.

With that said, one of my cousin's is a momma's boy and it's the most irritating thing in the world. My aunts, uncles, and grandparents find it strange and very absurd. In real life momma's boys are not looked at respectfully. You want to have a balance. Too much of anything is a bad thing.

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

I am married to a Mumma's boy. He is not as bad as Asad, Aahil or Azaad. But the fact remains he loves his Mum and she is very important to him. It's not like she is a terrible person who ruins his life so it's all good. But fact remains, Mumma's boys know how to love a women, coz the first women in their lives, their Mum, is important to them!

I know there are negatives to the extreme cases of Mumma's boys who can't stand alone and can't decide things for themselves. My husband would never marry anyone or do outlandish things just coz Mum tells him to. He is an independent person who decides things for himself. Not what Mum tells him to do. So a regular Mumma's boy loves his Mother so usually he loves his wife too. So personally I will recommend Mumma's boys, as long as their relationship with their Mum is "healthy!" :)

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago

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Aahana.

@Aahana.

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

opinions differ from person to person

for me mumma's boy's are disgusting

all they do is respect their mom worship them lik goddess

🤢

so used to hate aahil the character to the worst🤢

I mean worshiping her and building statue for her and all

and wht about ur wife sanam

don't lik it at all

gross same goes with azaad

and season 1's asad atleast his mom was not evil

For this we can exclude him

coz dilshaad was best

anyway my opinion remains the same I don't lik mumma's boys

hate them all

they shld have their independent thinking

rather then depending on each and everythg on their sweet sweet pyaari pyaari mom

they are not kids

its always the gals who leave their house and go to her husband's place

but wht does that gal get

no freedom always tortures from her mother in law

her hubby is all lik my mom is great blah blah

you shld listen to my mom nd all

so would never marry mumma's boy🥱

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sweet_tehs

@sweet_tehs

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Actually initially all guys are mamma's boys...

So u can't just get to know their extent of mamma love...

Its only after living together or many small incidents you get to know the type..😉

Ideally no girl would like to be married to such a guy..

In this category according to me Imran and Aahil fit perfectly well where they support even the bad deeds of the mother...

Don't know about Azaad as I don't watch it...

And Asad doesn't really fit in this category...

Coz yes he went to the airport at his mother's insistence but deep down he too had some feelings which needed a push n it came from his mommy...

So if dilshad is the mother I wouldn't mind marrying...

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minnie2308

@minnie2308

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

that's a good post Juhi..

As per wiki- "Mother's boy, also mummy's boy or mama's boy, is a term for a man who is excessively attached to his mother at an age when men are expected to be independent (e.g. live on their own, be economically independent, married to a woman or about to be married). "

So no, I wouldn't want to be married to a Mama's boy. I am married to a guy, who loves his mom to bits, but completely independent in thoughts and actions.

Honestly no woman would want such a boy...

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ChipChipiBhaalu

@OriginalJuhi_04

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

In recent article, Sooraj Panscholi was said to be mamma's boy as in his house mum's is d word n his dad told him to always listen to his mom. I did not found dat article funny but ridiculous.

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Dimple

@surbhikideewani

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

NO but if mom is like dilshad then yes

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