A little underwhelming - Page 6

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

Yeah...idk.

The entire thing left a bad taste in my mouth. I don't think premarital sex is a bad thing or even that sex is a bad thing. But when they use sex to show power/ display gender differences that's when it irks me. If it does go the way Haider wants it to, Humaira will be shamed by everyone and so will Gaffur. I'm not a fan of that. No person deserved to get shamed and betrayed with sex.

I just wish it went some other way while still keeping Haider as grey.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

How are you Pri ?

Yay...they are married atlast😆...nothing much to say about the whole scene today...unfortunately although loving Mohit I cannot enjoy his scenes because ketki is a terrible actress...just cannot digest her awful dialogue delivery and facial expressions...I so wish that they change her before VM comes back...wishful thinking I know. Apart from that I have no sympathies for a woman who has no self respect...she is not a child...she is a woman and if she gets into a sexual relationship with a man she should be ready for the consequences too...it was consensual and not criminal from Haider's part.

Originally posted by: HallyH

Now dont get me started on HaHu crap
Both disgust me right now
Shez only known him five minutes and she 'loves' him enough to get it on with him
And the line 'I trust you'
W*F if you trust him tell him some dark secrets dont go and sleep with the guy
Gosh both are bad as each other
Haider also dude thats just wrong revenge
Very VILE ACT MAN
I really cannot wait for my Ayaan to return
Its gonna be heartbreaking 🥺

BTW my opinion is not meant to hurt or offend anyone

Originally posted by: delena90

She most definitely WASN'T raped. This is not rape. She was completely consensual in the act. Haider's motives her are immaterial to the question of rape. He didn't force himself on her. Yes Humeira will feel betrayed, hurt and used but that is the consequence she faces for willingly sleeping with a man she doesn't know.

Haider is the bad man so i don't expect better from him. Is he vile? -YES he is.

Humeira doesn't deserved to be used and thrown but she has managed to get herself into this mess quite spectacularly.

Yeah referring to Vampire Diaries and I adore Roger! 😃

Originally posted by: delena90

It's meant to irk you. We aren't supposed to like what Haider did. But I will say this is less about power and gender difference and everything about a manipulative person taking advantage of an idiot. It happens the other way round too where many women "trap" men for their own purposes. It's not really power/gender it's more a lack of ethics and acknowledgment that the other person IS a person with feelings too,

@red - agreed. But yet it happens everyday in real life.

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

But in a sense, it is a display of power, on Haider's part especially. He's basically showing off to Gaffur and Razia that 'look I have so much power over your daughter that she willingly gave me her virginity (your honour).' Even when a manipulative person takes advantage of an idiot, it's still a display of power the manipulative person has. So in many ways, Haider's usage of sex as a tool of enacting revenge from Razia and Gaffur is all about power.

And the gender differences part will be illuminated when Haider reveals to the world that Humaira is not longer 'pure.' The entire point of the sex was to shame her and her family. And if it goes the way he originally intended, the Siddiques will be shamed because their daughter, a female, had premarital sex. Yet Haider, an equal participant, a male, will probably go scott free. He's taking advantages of the different societal viewpoints regarding each gender.

Sex is a very complicated tool that differs in the way people use it. I guess I'm just really sick of how televisions shows use it in such a bad light. It's supposed to be a good thing, I mean, its partly the reason why people on this Earth are still living (not extinct).

And that's why I can't really stomach this entire thing at all. Like you point out, yes it does happen in everyday real life, and that sickens me. I just hope that the CVs handle this issue well (rather than butchering it like Ekta always does).

Originally posted by: delena90

I am definitely not saying haider is right. But to me whether the situation was created or not humeira here is a willing participant. If tomorrow I choose to sleep with a man and he turns out to be a jackass I can't turn around and scream betrayal and hurt because I willingly made the choice to sleep with a man I didn't know.

I agree sex is a good thing. But I also think too much value is placed on it. At the end of the day it is just something that satisfies a basic need and it can be fun. A lot of the concepts around sex come from a male driven society that would like to stifle the woman's right to sexual freedom.

As for haider I am not sure he will reveal it to the world. Most likely just force gaffur and razias hand. I am not even sure they slept together. Tv always has a skewed version of sex- it's either this overly romantic take or this the cad route.