Shireen or Dilshad?

Who do you support in the current situation?

My dear i am one of the few who are totally against Dilshad's stand. I asked myself the same questions that you have put forward. As a wife , as a Mother and as a woman., I would never do what Dilshad has done.

@sheilasandhu, I agree with you. In my eyes Dilshad is worse than Shireen..

Dilshad agreeing to be with Rashid is a mistake and that too living with him in SM is a double mistake and ignoring lapse of 17 years is a tripple mistake. Rashid is selfish and stupid enough to ask Dilshad to move in with him after 17 years but both Rashid and Dilshad should realize that with time dynamics are changed and there are more lives involved and effected by this decision and they need to be cognizant and responsible enough for the other individuals who are dragged in to it involuntarily i.e., Janab Rashid Ahmed Khan's off springs.

I think both of them are justified in their own ways. Look at it from Dilshad's angle. This is the woman who has had claim over Dilshad's husband for years. It's understandable to feel a certain resentment, and to unconsciously decide not to care for Shireen's sentiment. Dilshad may not be doing it intentionally. It's just that our subconscious mind tends to dictate to us more than we realize.

From Shireen's POV, it's equally understandable. She sees the woman she has hated coming back into her husband's life. Add to that her massive insecurity, her husband's life in danger, and the fact that her son left because Dilshad came to live with them, and you've got yourself a cocktail of hurt and anger. Plus, she's got Razia's helpful suggestions to keep her from being even remotely understanding of anything but her own hurt.

I think both women are also as wrong as they are right. Dilshad should have more self respect than this! Rashid has not even bothered to make sure she's acknowledged by the others at SM, Shireen and Razia hate her guts, she's making her son miserable, and Rashid has not done a damn thing to deserve such blind loyalty and servitude. Grow a spine and get out, woman!

Shireen too needs to develop at least a marginal bit of self-awareness and realize that Razia is the cause of most of their problems. Also, she should try and understand Dilshad's perspective, even if it's painful and difficult. She had no issues stealing another woman's husband; she's not in a position to act hoity-toity, now is she?

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

My dear i am one of the few who are totally against Dilshad's stand. I asked myself the same questions that you have put forward. As a wife , as a Mother and as a woman., I would never do what Dilshad has done.

Rashid is selfish and she followed suit for her own selfish reasons. Sheireen has wronged Dilshad . Shireen has insulted DIlshad and her Children but yet she was Rashid's wife and mother of his other kids, she has every right to be upset now . If Dilshad wanted to take a stand as his wife , she should have done it 17 years ago not now.

She is No better than what Shireen was 17 years ago. Infact she is worse as she is breaking a marriage / harmony of a family of 17 years .

More so she is creating ruckus in her son's mental state of mind and happiness. How more worse can Dilshad get.

I hope there not gonna be people giving Dilshads ridiculous rants of wanting to be there cause RASHID needs her. Rashid does not need her. He just wants to rid his guilt of leaving her and the kids before dying. Before his coma , it was rather apparent he had no respect for Dilshad at all. He would leave with Shireen everytime leaving her standing there. He could not even introduce her as his wife to Haider.

Dilshad Madam gather your freaking marbles and get out of there before they destroy you totally.

I think Rashid is the one to blame here ...the woman are just playing to his whims.To begin with Dilshad should never have left her home and gone to live in SM ..after all that is Shireen's home..Dilshad has no rights there unless Shireen wills it.
It is a twisted scenario...First it is shown as Gaffur's house and Shireen his adopted sister ( we yet do not know why Gaffur adopted her as his sister) lived there with him.So the ownership of the house was with Gaffur ..Rashid moved in to live there as Shireen's husband. So one can presume that Dilshad can only be welcome there at Shireen's mercy .
Rashid cannot claim ownership just because he manages the business ..the house has to have legal ownership with documentary proof . If Rashid is such a successful businessman as he claims he shoyld be able to get another house and keep both his families there .This way he will give Dilshad the status she deserves ..also her children.
He should have atleast made a declaration to everyone when Dlshad comes to SM ( at his behest) that he wanted her there and that every one should respect her.Instead he does not even introduce her to Haider ..in fact she remains incognito till he has the stroke.
Dilshad should just remain looking after Rashid as in her own words she is in SM only for Rashid .It is not necessary for her to get involved in the running of the house .
Most of all Dlshad is absolutely in the wrong for 1) forcing Asad to live in SM when they have such a good house of their own which he has lovingly built for her .2) not involving Nazma in her decision either.

I think what Dilshad did was despicable . And having her children cornered to do the same is outrageous . This is something Dilshad should have done 17yrs ago . Fight for her love . Today she is doing the most demeaning thing a woman can do . How can someone who has claimed to be hurt this much in turn hurt another the same way . I am not defending Shireen in any way but it's been 17 yrs already and Dilshad is really an outsider in her house . Will she accept Shireen in her house if the situation was reverse ? I don't think so ! . It took Dilshad forever to accept Ayaan coming into her house . I will go along with the events as it happens and will always be a strong support of all the children because this decision has put a strong disruption in their lives . Both parents has used Asad's soft heart to their advantage and Zoya as a pawn .