Zoya will never be Asad's priority! - Page 6

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Whatever be the reasons...political or otherwise...the fact of the matter remains she stayed with him...infidelity is very difficult to get over...kudos to her she could tide over it...I couldn't and wouldn't ever...even if it meant a question of life and death...

But then I am not defending his trading...when Zoya accepted the shit he threw at her..she became equal party...I only refuse to blame him alone...I am talking about yesterday only...I am talking only about yesterday's episode...there is a reason I quit when Muqaddar ka khel happened..it did not agree with my sensibilities...and since I did not see it, it doesn't hurt me...simple...😊

Originally posted by: nazali

For me...it seems that they still have not come to 'term' with their 'relationship' where both need to discuss and talk about it before they make any desicion.

Relationship is always about both parties; communication is still missing in their relationship...sad but true...😭

Originally posted by: Go4welkin

I am an American and New Yorker too but I believe strong women exist all over the world not just confined to a country. I do travel due to work and do have family around the world and did see regressive and progressive women co existing in both developed and third world countries. All I am saying is that we do have all types of women/ people ( regressive and progressive) across the globe, percentages may vary but stereo typing people or women based on their location may not be fair or true. You are entitled to your opinion and I respectfully agree to disagree that progressiveness or regressiveness is defined by location of an individual.

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

I don't defend anyone in particular and I talk only for myself...I have made a lot of Asad bashing post when it was required...and the slap and the trading is all past...if we keep bringing that up..we will never be able to get over the bias against Asad...if one is hell bent on proving him wrong...how do I argue...he was wrong when he slapped her..wrong when he forced her...and u are in ASR fan as per what u said...but I know ASR threw Khushi off the first floor...sorry dude...ASR to me was sick...and Asad is miles ahead...If u have to hold his previous behavior against him...this argument is totally pointless...I judge people from how they got better...not for what they were...😊...

Originally posted by: butterfly15..

It can also be said that Asad will never be Zoya's priority.

The way I see it is that BOTH of them take each other for granted.

You are saying that he chose his mother over Zoya, but Zoya also chose his mother and his father over him, that same father he hates!🥱

I disagree with people that assume that a man should always put his love over his mother, why should he? Zoya has been in his life for just a year, and his mother is the one who has been there with him for every step of the way. If it wasn't for his mother, he probably wouldn't even be alive today, so why should he have to put Zoya ahead of his mother?

Why do people always bring in the you must choose between your love and your mother? How many of you would be happy if your partner tells you that you must pick him ahead of your parents? I don't even know why it's a competition! (Exactly, why is it even a competition??? I'm not so surprised that some people choose their boyfriend/ girlfriend over their parents nowadays)

Anyway my problem with Zoya isn't that she doesn't prioritize Asad, it's that she seems to fail to understand his pain. It's easy for Zoya supporters to say that she didn't want to go to New York with him because she loves him and wants to do what's best for him.. BUT put yourself in his position, your partner chooses your parents over you, those same parents that seem to care more about each other than you, with one parent abandoning you as a child, and the other leaving now, would you really think your partner is breaking up with you because they love you? Really? I say congratulations to anyone who can think like that in such a emotional state of mind, when you feel abandoned and betrayed, and your partner picks your father who abandoned you, over you! Of course that would make you feel so loved.

Plus Zoya doesn't have a right to force Asad to forgive Rashid. That is a personal issue. Just because they're a couple, doesn't mean one partner has the right to decide who you should forgive or not. Just like when it comes to Zoya's turn to forgive her father, if she chooses not to, Asad should respect that. Persuading and encouraging is one thing, forcing they way Zoya is, is wrong.

I didn't like Asad at the beginning as sometimes he wasn't very accepting of the way Zoya is, but he has changed and is very accepting of her, but now Zoya seems to always try and enforce her thoughts and feelings onto him.( yes she does, and he simply listen to her and do what she tells him to do most of the time even if he doesn't like it, they are 2 different person with completely opposite personalities. And if they can't accept each other just the way they are and have to impose each other thoughts and idea on each other then it's best for them to part away because relationship needs understanding,love, trust, faith in each other and etc etc. Relationship never works if they lack any of them)

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

@Priyanka: in that case, I understand your dislike of Asad...my bad..I thought u were an ASR fan...

I bash every character..they are all grey to me...depending on their behaviour now...I analyse them😊