Don't do it Dilshaad

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dilshaad mama, I love you, but you can be an idiot sometimes. Don't give into Rashid. This will be the biggest disappointment from you till date.
She would be no different or better than Shireen if she went back to Rashid at this moment. There are better ways to go about this.
I'm praying Dilshaad doesn't pick Rashid over her children again. She has done this before, and in return, he has given her nothing. Asad will never let that man in his house, and he as every right to feel that way. If she picks him this time, will he forgive his mother? Will he feel abandoned again from his mother this time?
When the factory track happened, we saw how Dilshaad stood against her own son, who had taken the weight of their family on his shoulders since the day his father walked out, for Rashid, who has silently listened to his kids and first wife being insulted from day one. Who never even said anything when SM people called her a dayaan, and woman who has been left. Accused her of doing black magic on them. And the list goes on. If anything she should understand and be considerate of her son's feelings and pain.
Not just that, but Rashid now has three grown children, Dilshaad is definitely better than that. Don't let that man walk away from his other kids.
On the other hand though, I can understand Dilshaad's feelings. I can understand her pain and longing. He's been the only man she has ever loved. Her children are grown and have found their significant others. They are moving with their lives. She doesn't want to spend the rest of her life alone and a burden on them.
All in all though, Rashid needs some major redemption before he can go back to Dilshaad.

As for the rest of today's episode:
Asad why did you have to go asking your loser brother for help for Zoya's birthday. Can we just leave him out of it for once?
But Asad just keeps getting cuter and cuter by the moment. I was cheesing through out everything with him. When he came in with the hiccups . And then the torch. Gosh you are just tooo cuteee. His expressions were priceless. I can't wait to see his surprise! His smile in the precap! Omg Asad and Zoya looked soo good matching, with her wearing the dress and his suit. Picture perfect married couple seriously.

Ayaan was a selfish jerk as usual. Okay I admit, it was a little cute, some of his antics, but he was still being super rude and mean to Humaira, when she's trying to apologize. And then when you need her for your own crap, you do the usual manipulating and get her to agree. Smh.
But you know what at the end of the day, it just goes to show how much Humaira loves Ayaan and is willing to do for him. Not just that, but she has mad respect for Asad too. Since it was for ASAD she said yes to it.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sad fact is that we can scream from the rooftops that Dilshad should not take Rashid back. But it is time for another character to be butchered and cut down by the writers, they have decided.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Roojjj
Res til i watched epi
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i havent seen it yet but I cant wait to see the hiccups scene..has to be hella cute! :)

If Rashid lives in KV, that would be so awkward and dumb. Its Asad's house at the end of the day...these ppl are going to look like lovesick teenage puppies and its not going to be fun to watch...and forget brothers clash...there will be a worse mother-son clash and Asad&Dilshad's relationships is one of the best ones on this show. the way they are so open with their feelings with each other ..its so beautiful. I hope they dont take that away from us.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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They need to properly redeem Rashid before anything can take place for him and Dilshad. Things like him and Asad patching up and Shireen dying need to happen first!

But this dude. He must've forgotten his age. He has responsibilities to take care of other than Shireen. Zoya and Asad have no responsibilities towards anyone but each other. Thats why it was easy for them to choose love. And like I said before...He's a damn coward for wanting to runaway with Dilshad. Asad and Zoya did it in front of everyone. He wants to run away/elope. And then tell everyone later. Bullshit.

If Dilshad goes with another woman's husband then it will be character butchering, ruining of the story and every other word in the book that this forum uses every other day for the show 😆
Edited by Drea_QH1fan - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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First thing,
Asad ☺️
Asad😳
Asad

Second thing,

Ayaan😡

Now main topic,😆

Dilshad- Personally, I seriously don't want her to be with Rashid ever, even after Shirin's death But, I think I can not be at her place as I have not suffered as much as hers.. She went through lot of pain in these 20 years so now she has every right to be selfish and become happy and think about herself only. She has raised her children on her own, and now if she is thinking about herself I dnt mind.. Her happiness is with Rashid, so be it.. Every human has some selfishness inside..

If she does not go with Rashid, I am gonna praise the lady a lottt but of she does , I am not gonna critisize her either.

Also even f she goes, I can not compare her with Shirin..There will always be difference..
Also, looking from character, I stil dnt think its character ruining as Dilshad loves Rashid a lot and she does go against morals when it comes to him (bribing Firoz), and at some level all this humiliation, accusation from Shirin must have piled up in her heart by which she wil get carried away when she wil see Rashid himself coming to her.. How much ever good person you are, 20 years of pain, constant blaming for nothing makes you bitter at some time where you tend to think otherwise and become rebellious..
From story POV, it would get interesting as I think Asad wil slap Ayaan😛😆

And I still think at this point Dilshad is not gonna say yes to Rashid.. She wil take right decision.. Its just that Shirin wil get one more chance to blame Dilshad and RAshid may admit that he wants to go back to Dilshad which will instigate Ayaan and this bro clash
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya713

i havent seen it yet but I cant wait to see the hiccups scene..has to be hella cute! :)

If Rashid lives in KV, that would be so awkward and dumb. Its Asad's house at the end of the day...these ppl are going to look like lovesick teenage puppies and its not going to be fun to watch...and forget brothers clash...there will be a worse mother-son clash and Asad&Dilshad's relationships is one of the best ones on this show. the way they are so open with their feelings with each other ..its so beautiful. I hope they dont take that away from us.



Hiccups was tooo cuteee.

There's no if he lives there, Asad is not going to allow it. And yeah, there will be a huge mother son clash, because again she will be choosing Rashid over her son.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I dont have a problem with Rashid and Dilshaad AS LONG AS Rashid is shown redeemed for his BULL SHIT.. just like Drea said. his character was butchered 17 years ago .. and is shown SPINELESS, GUTLESS, COWARDLY, and plain dumb and mum. There is no justifying what he has done yet. If their is a PROPERY justification and redemption than i may THINK about RaDil getting back together.. but Dilshaad does NOT deserve that looser at this point in her life. She has gotten through 17 years without him.. and has lived a happy and secure life.. yes she must crave his love.. but its better at this point if that flip flopper doesnt enter her life..
At the same time.. if he is redeemed.. i dont mind seeing true love finding its way ..even after 17 years because it jus goes to say that love has no age and is time less if its true.

Idk.. im really confused right now..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

They need to properly redeem Rashid before anything can take place for him and Dilshad. Things like him and Asad patching up and Shireen dying need to happen first!


But this dude. He must've forgotten his age. He has responsibilities to take care of other than Shireen. Zoya and Asad have no responsibilities towards anyone but each other. Thats why it was easy for them to choose love. And like I said before...He's a damn coward for wanting to runaway with Dilshad. Asad and Zoya did it in front of everyone. He wants to run away/elope. And then tell everyone later. Bullshit.

If Dilshad goes with another woman's husband then it will be character butchering, ruining of the story and every other word in the book that this forum uses every other day for the show 😆


Exactly, they can't just let him come in the picture like that out of nowhere.

Drea see thats the huge difference between Rashid and Asad. Even when Asad thought he had a responsibility, ie Tanveers baby, he was ready to do what's right, even though he still had the option to walk out. Rashid, he walked out on his children before, and now he will do it again at the worst time ever. Not only that, Asad didn't wait 17 years to grow a backbone. He's always had one, and he waited as much as he needed to and handled the situation. Before getting Zoya back he took care of Tanveer and everything.
It makes me realize, Ayaan and Rashid are so alike, because Ayaan is the same way, does the deed, screws up, and then tells everyone later. Or doesn't even tell them till it comes to bite him in the ass.
Fighting for love is never easy, it wasn't easy for Asad and Zoya, but they got the strength from each other.

The thing is, Rashid is still Dilshaad's husband too. But like you said, he needs to redeem himself before anything. Especially in Asad's eyes. It would be messed up if Dilshaad went back to Rashid without even considering her sons feelings.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kankabhor

First thing,

Asad ☺️
Asad😳
Asad

Second thing,

Ayaan😡

Now main topic,😆

Dilshad- Personally, I seriously don't want her to be with Rashid ever, even after Shirin's death But, I think I can not be at her place as I have not suffered as much as hers.. She went through lot of pain in these 20 years so now she has every right to be selfish and become happy and think about herself only. She has raised her children on her own, and now if she is thinking about herself I dnt mind.. Her happiness is with Rashid, so be it.. Every human has some selfishness inside..

If she does not go with Rashid, I am gonna praise the lady a lottt but of she does , I am not gonna critisize her either.

Also even f she goes, I can not compare her with Shirin..There will always be difference..
Also, looking from character, I stil dnt think its character ruining as Dilshad loves Rashid a lot and she does go against morals when it comes to him (bribing Firoz), and at some level all this humiliation, accusation from Shirin must have piled up in her heart by which she wil get carried away when she wil see Rashid himself coming to her.. How much ever good person you are, 20 years of pain, constant blaming for nothing makes you bitter at some time where you tend to think otherwise and become rebellious..
From story POV, it would get interesting as I think Asad wil slap Ayaan😛😆

And I still think at this point Dilshad is not gonna say yes to Rashid.. She wil take right decision.. Its just that Shirin wil get one more chance to blame Dilshad and RAshid may admit that he wants to go back to Dilshad which will instigate Ayaan and this bro clash


Exactly, I can understand her wanting to be with Rashid and her longing. I can understand her not wanting to grow old alone. But the thing is she should still take her childrens feelings into consideration, and also the fact that Rashid has three grown children. This can blow up in the worst way possible. I could care less what happens to Shireen, but he should think about Ayaan Nikhat and Nuzhat.

She can be with Rashid after Asad has forgiven him. I am definitely hoping Dilshaad will make the right decision and be smart about it.

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