Originally posted by: VashH
I lost my mom at age 10 and my dad at age 16
He did not handle her sudden death well and died from what we call a broken heart
I know very well the value of parents and their love and this helped me to grow ..to make sure my children are not cheated of one ounce of parental love and guidance .
I do feel for Zoya .. because she lacked this . and her impulsive actions are justified here because she is still looking for that kind of affection . Children who endures this hardship usually have a caring heart or a vengeful one. .
Sorry to hear that dear but you have turned out to be a fine woman, wife, mother and grandmother. God Bless your good soul.
As for me , I lost my dad when i was 11 months old and my mum left me with my aunt as she had two of my older siblings to look after and she was expecting my younger brother at the time of my fathers death. The sad part is she left me and went back to India . My aunt had her own children so i don't think i need say more to the life i grew up in.
I relate to Zoya very much and Know the feeling but once i was old enough to make my own decisions i did not let anyone rule my life. I have made major mistakes but i have learnt from them as well.
I have had no regrets to the hardships i have faced because it has just made me a better human being and i am able to relate to other peoples pain. I have done some of things Zoya has done and if i had been in her shoes on that day of her Nikah i would also would have done the same to help Najma or whoever needed that help. Due to unforeseen circumstances sh ended up illegally married.
I don't understand it what sense has she been glorified. She is suffering and in pain and every minute in that house is killing her. She is all alone and besides Ayaan there is no one for her. She has to make the best of it for now. Many says she can walk away. Yes she can but that will only tarnish her further. If Ayaan drops her off than it is on Ayaan to take some of the blame.
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