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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Oldestfan

Sangeeta, thank you for a brilliant closing argument on this really trumped up issue!

Adultery is a legal issue if the marriage is valid. The marriage is not valid, so there is no adultery. This takes care of the audience POV.

Asad meeting Zoya or Ayaan locking Humeira in her room... From the audience POV, or the character POV is not iilegal, neither is it unethical.

The character POV... I think there is portrayal of a little confusion and denial here. The parties to the marriage know that they were not aware that they had said yes to the marriage. Zoya and Ayaan repeatedly told Asad that. Asad was on the verge of taking Zoya back ..he was just making sure to wait until there was no confusion. Then when Nikhat slit her wrist again, the nikaahnaama was signed.
After that Ayaan told Asad that he had no intention of honouring the document. So here, three characters out of four know that its not real. They don't know that its not legal, but they know that it can be proved invalid, or dissolved at worst. Thats the confusion part. Humeira is the only one who was not in the loop.

Sangeeta, I only differ from you in that I don't want Imraan to be redeemed, because then Najma will have to stay married to him! From the karmic perpective, the third OTP of the show should be Imveer 😃


Thanks dear. I have never been a fam of Imran. I am sure you have read my numerous posts bashing Imran but if the writers really want to redeem him because he is Najma's pati and Dilshaad's SIL, then this is the moment. At least he can start NOW...man up and not let Asad sacrifice himself for Najma. Also, he owes it to Najma.

The Khan brothers at least took a step towards correcting their mistakes but Imran is such a chikna ghada...😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: bheegi

Dard Bhi Tu...Dawa Bhi Tu...Oct 2


Sangeeta, I knew that you would definitely write a post today!! 😆

I might be in the minority, but I did like today's episode for various reasons:

1. Zoya-Imran scene

2. Asad-Dilshaad scene

3. Razia spilling the ice cream on Zoya

I didn't like:

1. The footage given to Haseena bi

Minority? To be honest I haven't read any posts today except Anushree's and this one! I am with you here!! The episode was far better than yesterday's and as Anushree aptly put it lot of first steps!! Finally there was some movement!


Coming to my title: Dard Bhi tu and dawa bhi tu applies to the three couples highlighted in the show today

Imran-Najma:

I can't believe that besides being spineless and a liar, Imran is also a man with no conscience. So, if Zoya had not confronted him, would he have happily enjoyed his married life with Najma with a constant outflow of cash into Tanveer's bank balance?

Now that he knows Zoya's nikaah was canceled because of his relationship with Tanveer, will he do anything to own up, be a man and fix things for his brother in law? Will he remain silent and let Asad sacrifice when Tanveer comes out with the baby daddy truth? If the writers really want to redeem this man, this is their chance. As Zoya said, if he doesn't reveal the truth now, Najma will definitely leave him forever. Imran, Najma ko dard zaroor hoga but there is no better medicine than truth.


Zoya finally saw beyond her grief and confronted Imran. 👏 Will he do the right thing? Considering the "Tanveer spilling the beans to community leaders ..." spoiler, I highly doubt it. Doesn't being spineless liar and having no conscience go hand in hand?! The guy is a loser. On day 2, his wife is treated like a maid and he doesn't speak up. What in the world is the deal with no hot water? CVs are going overboard depicting Haseena's greed. I haven't ever heard of such a thing in a city! In a village maybe, city? Unbelievable!! Najma better learn quickly to speak up! I have no patience for a doormat!


If Asad sacrifices and decides to marry Tanveer, have no fear! Razia will come to the rescue and eliminate Tanveer or her baby. Anything to get rid of Zoya from her house. My hopes are pinned on Razia!! 😃 I swear that I can't stand Tanveer and Haseena and their disgustingly cheap and vulgar expressions! Razia is a classy vamp. She needs to come back with a bang!!


Asad-Zoya:

Finally, Dilshaad said what I have been saying all along. By avoiding a meeting with Zoya, he is actually making things worse. He is making sure she would never forgive him.

Yes, she is angry and feels slighted but right now she feels abandoned. Dilshaad is not advocating adultery. When Asad, Ayaan, Zoya and some others know this is a temporary arrangement, those signatures on the nikaah nama don't matter. Signatures don't make relationships. If Ayaan and Zoya had honored that nikaah then it would be a different story.

Exactly! How is it adultery if they don't accept the Nikaah. Seriously, signatures or legality mean nothing without emotions! Glad Dilshad spoke to Asad but I am very disappointed in her character for not trying to talk to Zoya. Blame it on the inconsistencies of the CVs. Where in the world are Appi and Jeeju? Oh, I forgot! NY! 😆 Can someone get their address so I can go and whack them in the head for abandoning Zoya!!


I am glad Dilshaad asked her lamb to become a lion again.

Asad- sharafat se koi faayda nahin hai. Yes, become a besharam and don't worry about the rest of the world. Just worry about Zoya and your happiness- go and meet her and at least make an attempt to set things right.

Exactly! Exactly! Exactly! The fake sharafat was always beyond me! Go get your girl!


It reminds me of the song "nahin saamne tu'

Bichhad Ki Bhi Mujhse Juda To Nahin
Khafa Hai Magar Bewafa To Nahin


That's the song from Taal, right? Perfect! OMG, you have an amazing repertoire of songs and movie info!


Ayaan-Humeira:

All these days, Ayaan has taken Humeira for a ride and taken her for granted. I am glad the photograph incident helped Ayaan witness Humeira's pain in real time. He is quite a tube light as we know but today when he saw her run away, he knew how much he has betrayed Humeira's feelings. I am glad at that moment he didn't worry about his fake relationship or Haseena's taunts. I am glad he ran behind Humeira. Because if there is one person in this mess who needs an explanation and justice then it's Humeira (in their house)

Poor Humeira. I feel her pain. BTW, her medical complications seem to have taken a hiatus suddenly! 😆


The two scenes where Zoya and Ayaan were hurt were no doubt symbolic but the fact their lovers were the one to tend to their wounds just shows that in due course of time everything shall be alright.


Exactly! (My record is stuck on this word today!!)

People worried about Zoyaan love story should just stop fretting. Asya and Ayra are too strong to break.


While I feel Zoya is stuck in SM for a while, she will NEVER fall in love with Ayaan!! AsYa and AyRa are the OTPs!!

I guess patience is the name of the game...the PH will take their time to unfold their story. It's best to either enjoy it with that frame of mind or just leave it...if we are still watching it then it means we like the show (maybe not some tracks). Indifference would mean we have given up on this show because love and hatred are two sides of the same coin.

PS: Feel free to call me an advocate of EMA...my views on that are a bit different

Jab Nikaah hua hi nahi toh kaahe ka extra marital affair? Signatures don't make a marriage, promises and feelings do! Asad and Zoya are mentally married. They just need the legality so Mr. Khan can lose his inhibitions!! 😆 Are you happy with the open fisted, bone crushing hugs shown in the BTS?


Adultery is a symptom of a broken marriage and not the cause ...


Well said!! 👏


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Posted: 11 years ago
#73
absolutely wonderful penning...
though Haseena is getting on my nerves...
ek B kamthi ki doosiri B ko bhi ghusa diya..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajnid68

absolutely wonderful penning...

though Haseena is getting on my nerves...
ek B kamthi ki doosiri B ko bhi ghusa diya..



can't decide who is worse though- haseena or tan veer😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ her complications arise only when eats mirchi...😆 heart break is nothing in comparison

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

How true! Running away from goons, shock and heartbreak have no impact on the "hole in the heart" condition. Just mirchi!! "Tujhko mirchi lagi toh mai kya karoo?" Her turn to go suicidal soon! That's the answer to every woman's problem!! 🤣

I am going to get a Team Razia sweatshirt soon! Imagine all of us changing our DP to "Team Razia"!! Go Razia go!! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣


Edited by webuser7 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@ webuser7
@ her complications arise only when eats mirchi...😆 heart break is nothing in comparison

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

How true? Running away from goons, shock and heartbreak have no impact on the "hole in the heart" condition. Just mirchi!! "Tujhko mirchi lagi toh mai kya karoo?" Her turn to go suicidal soon! That's the answer to every woman's problem!! 🤣

I am going to get a Team Razia sweatshirt soon! Imagine all of us changing our DP to "Team Razia"!! Go Razia go!! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

wonder if Zoya will learn how a true desi woman should behave after her stay at SM. 'Asad mujhey picture le jao warna main suicide kar loongi' lolz
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome post di.For those people who call it EMA i just want to say when people envolved in it dont consider it marraige then why they are taking headache?.Di this is my gut feeling that nikah will be canceled by Razia and for this she will accept that Zoya is daughter of Gaffor,because mother in razia overpowers vamp inside her.Ya Asya is too strong to break.I dont know about Ayan but humaira ,she is an institution of love.ASAD YOU ARE LUCKY ..YOU CAN SAY WITH PRIDE ..MERE PAAS MA HAI.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bheegi

@ webuser7

@ her complications arise only when eats mirchi...😆 heart break is nothing in comparison

🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

How true? Running away from goons, shock and heartbreak have no impact on the "hole in the heart" condition. Just mirchi!! "Tujhko mirchi lagi toh mai kya karoo?" Her turn to go suicidal soon! That's the answer to every woman's problem!! 🤣

I am going to get a Team Razia sweatshirt soon! Imagine all of us changing our DP to "Team Razia"!! Go Razia go!! 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

wonder if Zoya will learn how a true desi woman should behave after her stay at SM. 'Asad mujhey picture le jao warna main suicide kar loongi' lolz


Zoya? Picture? Suicide!! 🤣 You and I are true BW buffs!

Damn! My Mom didn't teach me that trick! Mein "desi woman" ke naam pe dhabba hoon!! My hubby refuses to watch Indian movies unless they are slick like Don / Dhoom or slapstick like Tusshar/Ritesh Deshmukh ones (which I refuse to watch!!). After all these years, the suicide trick will not work. I just say suit yourself and go to the theatre with my daughter or GFs (ladies night out!!) or watch on DVD. Damn! Damn! Damn! Oh why didn't I know of this wonderful trick!!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: abhi.sweet

Awesome post di.For those people who call it EMA i just want to say when people envolved in it dont consider it marraige then why they are taking headache?.Di this is my gut feeling that nikah will be canceled by Razia and for this she will accept that Zoya is daughter of Gaffor,because mother in razia overpowers vamp inside her.Ya Asya is too strong to break.I dont know about Ayan but humaira ,she is an institution of love.ASAD YOU ARE LUCKY ..YOU CAN SAY WITH PRIDE ..MERE PAAS MA HAI.


yes, agar maa na hoti, tho aaj Asad and Zoya ki love story sirf dreams mein hi hoti😆

Humeira is indeed an institution of love...hope she stays well and gets married to ayaan one day. Would hate to see her die

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