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kashish

@kashish_s2

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: -Afia-
Everyone's got a list. After today's episode, I went & opened my old journal in which I wrote my wish list & had a great laugh. 😆 I wrote these when I was 15 & just a week back I turned 18 so nothing's really changed. I still want My Mr.Right to do these for me. I'm a hopeless Romantic, so don't be shocked.

-Breakfast in bed (I see everyone's got that)
-Forehead kiss me everyday before going to work.
-Dance with me in the rain. 😆
-I want to be the center of his attention. I guess everyone wants that.
-When we fight, & if he's at fault, I want him to manaofy me in special ways. not just by saying sorry
-Want him to watch sunsets with me
-I want him to be a Gentlemen you know like, opening car/building doors, giving jacket to me when i feel cold. (all Bollywood stuff)
-Brush the hair out of my eyes.
-Bring me flowers when I least expect it. lol
-Hold my hand when we go out.
-Take me to Paris on my 26th birthday (not that i'm in a hurry to get married or anything, but I know my parents will get me married by then)
-I want him to please me in all ways.
-No matter how tired he is when he comes back from office or where ever he was, I want him to sit down & ask me how my day was, How I am, Did I eat, Did I miss him. I just want him to talk to me, give me a little time.
-If I'm sad/crying or hurt I want him to leave everything & just be with me till I feel better.
-I want him to be that guy who is not embarrassed to buy tampon/pads for me.
-Never stop me from watching Shahrukh Khan movies.
-Shouldn't have any problem with my male friends.
-I want him to love me, cherish me, to promise me that doesn't matter how annoying, stupid, crazy, bitchy, Ignorant I get, he'll love me just the same, Always.
-Every morning when he wakes up, I want him to tell me one reason why he loves me.
-I don't believe in forever or happy endings, but I want him to make me believe in them.

Basically, I want a love that never dies. Which in today's world is really hard to find.

Thanks for the comment.. I actually didn't want breakfast in bed.. I want to wake up in his arms everyday.. me too a hopeless romantic..who doesn't believe in romance at all.. basically I'm damn confused... but thanks for the comment

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kashish

@kashish_s2

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ziya117
never did any list!! lol😆 kz @ that time didnt believe in marriage! 😉
am 24 .. been a while i started thinking of a list! 😳 but it seems unreal as if!🤔

really?? I was a total innocent romantic girl until I reached an age of maybe 15.. and after seeing so many problems in other people's life and after having certain extended family issues myself..I decided that trusting people was quite a mistake.. shut myself out and even now when I am slowly reaching marriageable age.. and aunties tease me.. I turn around and tell them that the divorce rate is increasing and I'd rather depend on my parents who have been with me for my whole life rather than someone I just met.. that puts them off.. lets just say my mother is pretty worried.. hahaha

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-ksgian-

@-ksgian-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

I m growing up watching armaan and wheneva i watched dmg, my wish was only that i want just like armaan who loves me alot and can do anything for my happiness, kitna pagal thi mein armaan k liye, uska smile, uska gussa, uska dard, uska aansu sab kuch effect kar tha tha mujhe. Armaan pe mein meri life partner dhunthi ti par afsos wo jo nahi saka. Yehi thi meri wish aur ab tak bhi yehi wish hai meri

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...SankaDevi...

@...SankaDevi...

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Aww I wish I had a list but I mentally think how my husband should be. 😆

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AsYa_4_ever

@AsYa_4_ever

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Im 11

One of my wishes:

Meet Santa Claus ! 😆 (Pasta: I am jooocking )!

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SerialKiDeewani

@SerialKiDeewani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: kashish_s2

hahaha not lame at all.. we all want to be able to wear heels with him.. its kinda difficult with my height though.. and ofcourse we cannot have a weird surname.. not after leaving our own home and surname for him.. hahahaha..

Same here...
This pretty much sums up my list...
when I was in my teens I wanted to make one list but as I turned 20, reality struck and I knew that there is no way I can find a person with all the qualities in my list...
damn..gul and her shows...😡
Now everybody wants a Maan singh kurana, Arnav singh rahizada or Asad Ahmed Khan in their life...😆

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Waqt Zaya

@WaqtZaya

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

It was sooo cute to read all the list 😳

ha ha ha i never made such though am goona be a score this year 🤣

Wait! Did i miss all the lovey dovey girly stuffs of life in my tom-boyish realistic way of living?

SHIT! 🤣

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Sara

@LitleMissMuffet

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

I never thought about it cuz I think I am too small to do that
I am 13
Nice post

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Rooh_5896

@Rooh_5896

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

LOL!!! You guys are sooo sweet! I never made a list!!! It never really occurred to me. But now that I think of it... I really am a very simple and non-demanding person... it will be more than enough for me if my man (don't start thinking- I'm happily single 😉) would just accept me unconditionally for who I am. And I would love it if we fulfilled "ek doosre ke adhoore ankahe armaan" together. I would love to fulfill his wishes and I would love it if he would be there with me and share my life 😊 I know it is very "old school" and boring but... That is pretty much it!!! 😆 🤣

Edited by Rooh_5896 - 12 years ago

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machar13

@machar13

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: kashish_s2

oh wow!!! I am so happy for you 😊 Atleast we have one positive story.. if you don't mind.. can I know more about your lovestory.. I'm genuinely really curious.. hahaha

Absolutely ! My love story didn't start out sweet at all. This is my second husband. My first husband was never like this but he was handsome, tall and right pedigree, etc. I lost sight of my list actually. But he turned very bad and lost my trust so we were divorced after a few years to try and save the marriage...we also had a baby son. Then I was single mom and working and many of my family did not emotionally support me(incl my father) because I come from a very conservative family. Oddly my nani (grandmother was v, supportive:) anyhow...I met this guy who I used to work with a few years later and one by one he won me and most importantly my son over...he was never married, no kids...and he is Not from my community or ethnicity. But he was so good with my son, no father could ever better this man to my son. He wrote me one letter: in that letter, he said he never writes letters but he felt the night of our wedding day that he shd, he thanked for the best gift ever...my son...he said he loved my spiciness, my pouts, and that he would protect and love us both forever. Etc. I won't delve into more as u get the idea.

He has no idea abt my list but on our first anniversary (and after he gave me the gift) he announced to me that he would buy gifts only based on the anniversary gift guides...paper or crystal is first anniversary. so for our first anniversary, he bought me a frame to put photograph in (paper).our second he bought me a robe (cotton), our 3rd a leather purse(leather). We shall c what he does for 4th. :)

Though we r married for almost 4 years now and some things have become a bit boring sometime and too much routine, he always tries to make little things to rekindle our love. He is a bit akdu and ocd like asad but also has no problem with making a fool of himself. Our story was a bit like pv1 in the sense of parents not accepting and also like aarti I had a son and a loser ex husband and my inlaws also supported me though they also protected their son.

It was a long and painful at times journey but in the end my list did come true enough. I guess love is never easy. ;) now if I can get him to sing for me ...that'll be the day...poor guy can't hum a tune to save his life but I love him all the same and would take his off tune serenade any day :D

Edited by machar13 - 12 years ago

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