Asad/Zoya marriage

This is not the first time to write about the way in Ajmer, there are other assumptions, so I'm looking on the internet and find the text on

http://mitwa-ka-ishq.tumblr.com/post/49433535725/will-they-wont-they-that-is-the-real-question

Is the idea of "spiritual marriage" is possible at all in reality, of course I mean the ordinary people, not the monks?