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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: tpy_158

I'm also a Muslim but I 've never seen or even heard about half the rituals they showed in the show.

In my family we only have three different functions.

Day 1: tel mehndi - (can be held seperately or together by both families) the actual mehndi has actually been applied on the brides hands already. A leaf or money (paper bills) are placed in their hands, and relatives come up one by one and apply a little oil in he bride/groom's hair and take a bit of mehndi and place it on the leaf/note.

Day2: nikkah - the day the actual wedding takes place. Baraat comes and then everyone gets seated. Bride and groom are seated seperately. The maulvi comes and starts the nikkah ceremony. Not really sure how the whole ceremony works. But I'm pretty sure they ask the bride first. And then go the the groom. The nikkah is complete after both have consented. It's only hater the nikkah has taken place that the groom is allowed to come sit by the bride. There a few rasams that happen after that, and at the end is ruksati.

Day3: walima - the reception.


What about mehendi 😕 Yeh to honi hi chahie😊 Bin mehendi a bride will not look perfect..is not it😃

P.S. I am also a muslim and we celebrate marriages very grandly but we do not do any jash i bahaar. Kuch ho na ho ..mangni..haldi..mehendi..nikah..walima toh hoti hi hai😛
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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

No yaar... One of the Muslim TM member said...it is upto the family actually u know some family in their religion they just do engagement and nikaah... some don't even do engagement as Men in their family are not allowed to wear gold ornaments...so it entirely depends on the family... That's it ... i think...


Yup ,you are right..it depends from family to family but haldi is a rashm which every one does in our as well as many community.. its very strange it was not shown in QH.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: Smarty786


What about mehendi 😕 Yeh to honi hi chahie😊 Bin mehendi a bride will not look perfect..is not it😃

P.S. I am also a muslim and we celebrate marriages very grandly but we do not do any jash i bahaar. Kuch ho na ho ..mangni..haldi..mehendi..nikah..walima toh hoti hi hai😛


We don't have an entire function just so the bride can get mehndi applied onto her hands, like they show in most dramas. The mehndi is applied to hear hands the night before the 1st function.

Mangi doesn't have to happen right before the wedding. My sister was engaged for an year before she got married.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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haha mera b sm reactn tha yar!! still confused..haldi kyun ni hui???😡

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