I'm also a Muslim but I 've never seen or even heard about half the rituals they showed in the show.
In my family we only have three different functions.Day 1: tel mehndi - (can be held seperately or together by both families) the actual mehndi has actually been applied on the brides hands already. A leaf or money (paper bills) are placed in their hands, and relatives come up one by one and apply a little oil in he bride/groom's hair and take a bit of mehndi and place it on the leaf/note.Day2: nikkah - the day the actual wedding takes place. Baraat comes and then everyone gets seated. Bride and groom are seated seperately. The maulvi comes and starts the nikkah ceremony. Not really sure how the whole ceremony works. But I'm pretty sure they ask the bride first. And then go the the groom. The nikkah is complete after both have consented. It's only hater the nikkah has taken place that the groom is allowed to come sit by the bride. There a few rasams that happen after that, and at the end is ruksati.Day3: walima - the reception.
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