Asad's distrustful approach...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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... is seriously starting to make me feel like pulling my hair out and roll around on the floor in a hysterical outburst.

Trust is the foundation of a relationship. If Asad expects his relationship with Zoya to stand strong against any hurdles in the future, he needs to learn to trust her. Pronto. It has been bothering me for quite a while now that the man is willing to believe what Tanveer throws at him, blindly, but whenever Zoya insists on having made a correct observation -- he won't even be bothered to look into it on his own.

I mean, the strongest proof Zoya could give him is what she has witnessed with her own eyes as well as what Tanveer has declared of her evil intentions. If Asad really did trust Zoya, he would've taken her word for it and at least looked into the matter.

But he blindly refuses to even acknowledge the possibility that his childhood friend could've changed in the time that they've been separated. A humble request to the CVs: It's alright to make Asad understanding, trusting, and even blinded by his love for his childhood friend -- but please do not make him downright stupid.

In the wake of everything that has happened, all the strange incidents with Tanveer, and Zoya's suspicions as well as her proof -- it simply does not make sense for a man who claims to love and trust a woman to not take her accusations seriously and at the very least look into them.

A smart man would look into Tanveer's past, her husband's whereabouts, etc. in order to verify or falsify Zoya's accusations. If he'd made the entire research and come up with nothing, I could've believed his continuing state of denial. For an intelligent man who has experienced betrayal from family in the past, it's rather disappointing not to see him investigate a woman who seems to have dragged trouble into his home -- putting his family's life at risk time and again.

I vaguely recall Asad refusing to give shelter to a woman who had been saved by Zoya from marriage to a rapist, because he feared for the life of his family. Here Tanveer is seemingly haunted by her psychotic husband, yet he doesn't consider the possibility that the psychotic husband might damage his family in order to get to her.

Nonsensical, I say.

Do me a favour and just let Asad show a bit of trust in Zoya.

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