Allah Miya! What's wrong with you Mr. Khan?

So, I've read a lot of posts today relating to the events of today's episode and, mainly, Asad's attitude towards our darling Zoya. First of all, I would like to say, that to those of you who are defending Asad, good for you. I really appreciate the effort. Especially since we all can't be bent on hating the leading man. That being said, though, I find it very difficult to defend him and/or justify his actions when he behaves so ridiculously and insults Zoya without having any proof that she is at all involved in any wrong event that occurs in his life. In fact, even though I quite love Zoya and Asad and Asya and all that jazz, I do believe that if I were in Zoya's shoes, I would be completely unable to take the insult from Asad. It seems to me that he is so concerned with Tanveer that he completely forgets his boundaries. In fact, I feel so bad for Zoya that I almost just want the story to progress with her leaving the house and finding someone else. I mean, obviously, I'm saying this out of anger, but I've had quite enough of his attitude. Another post in the forum today expressed exactly how I feel about the entire situation. The member suggested that today's Mitwa moment was completely cheap and forced because the atmosphere in which it was set up was one in which Zoya was being insulted. I'm so sick of him always insulting Zoya and then not even apologizing before the Mitwa moments come into the picture again. It's truly, truly frustrating. And, I'm not sure about anyone else, but I'm so sick of all this "Tanu, Tanu! Tanu, tum theek ho? Tanu, tumhe kuch hua to nahin?!" crap. Like, is it just me, or does anyone else remember that the jhoomar almost KILLED ZOYA?! For someone who claims to be in love, Asad surely did move on from that fact quite quickly. And, he's so worried about the f***ing billi, that he refuses to even check on Zoya's frame of mind. How loved would she feel, after all he puts her through, if he just asked once -- JUST ONCE-- if she's all right? Earlier, I was reading a post that said that Asad does remember that Zoya is afraid of fire, but he was hell bent on saving Tanveer's life and so, turned to her for help and acted the way he did because no phobia is greater than someone's life. This person's post made a lot of sense. I really liked that she was defending Asad and justifying his actions. Unfortunately, I'm angry enough right now to say that I refuse to believe that Zoya's fear is not greater than Tanveer's life. I absolutely think it is. And, the fact of the matter is that Asad is getting married to and is engaged to Zoya. Not Tanveer. So, his first priority is to Zoya. The fact that all he did when she was almost killed was give Zoya a hug really bothers me. The hug was cute in itself and the scene showed how much Asad truly loves Zoya but that fact that his reaction towards Zoya was immediately followed by his over-blown, ridiculous reaction for Tanveer completely overshadows his love we saw for two seconds. And, I think it's absolutely ridiculous that Asad only wants a girl with "tehzeeb" yet he completely forgets his in terms of Tanveer. This man literally oversteps every boundary there is in his relationship to this evil little waste of space. Asad, where is your tameez and tehzeeb when you're running after Tanveer when she literally has no connection with you than being your childhood friend. I might have been raised in America, but I am Indian and even I know that his reactions to Tanveer are NOT proper. I think Zoya has a hundred times more "tehzeeb" than Asad, especially when she at least recognizes and cares for everyone's feelings even as she might behave unconventionally. Really, I think the CV's need to show Tanveer paying for some of the stuff she does. It's true that a lot of her plans don't come to fruition, but I don't think her plans being spoiled is enough. Someone in the family needs to start catching her at her game. And, obviously, Zoya will soon start catching her, but I don't want it to be just Zoya. I want Zoya AND either Dilshad or Najma to also catch her at her sick game. I'm so done with Tanveer. And, tomorrow, I really hope that the only way Zoya decides to forgive Asad is when he confesses his love for her and BEGS for forgiveness. What an a**hole. On a related topic, what kind of doctor takes a bribe to cover such a big sazish? Did she even go to medical school? That's not how the field works, dear! Uggh...

Anyways, now that I've ranted and made this post excessively long and probably completely incoherent, I'll finish with it. Please let me know what you think! And, sorry for the swearing. Asad just really pissed me off today. I'll be waiting for your replies!