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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: shreya11mehra

he z getting married to a gal hu z strong...but had gone thru a lot in hr childhood...

evn asad suffers a lot..i thought h vl undrstnd hr..

she z incredible strong gal...bt a weakness..fire phobia..usko support krne k jgh he insults hr...crap...

zoe sudnt talk to him...jst ignore him...let him do hard wrk to tk sry frm u

I am waiting for the day wen he realizes how much painful life has this girl led and how strong she is...I am surprized that he knows everything about Zoya n he still treatys her like this!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: neha2607


Till now what I've seen and understood is that there's only one way through which cv's mend things and that is THE MITWA MOMENTS 😕.
If u see the stats Indian cinema/Tv has always been showing women as the sacrificial figure right from the whole concept of sati in the olden days to the present - domestic violence.
Hence...insult her as much as you want...say sorry...romantic eye lock...everything is settled for good.

Yeah you are so right. Everything is forgotten and forgiven, typical violence and abuse cycle. Is it so easy in real life-real feelings/emotions and yes real pain? DO eyelocks or dupattas really mend all wrongdoings? Then why do people say sorry or repent? Its so silly to tear apart a person's spirit and say hey its Mitwa now or eyelock so please forget all. Do REAL women feel this way?
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Samaira32

I opened the tv at 9:50 expecting some AsYa scene only to find Asad asking her to stay away from Tanveer...


Like seriously?? He actually had the nerve to tell that she was just watching Tannu burning instead of giving the shawl and she was not a friend...

Asad..?? The girl who was ran behind ua mums shooter will do something to harm someone...

Arghh, i really feeel Zoya should leave... She deserves some respect...
Shout then say SORRY.. She is not ua puppet dude..

And i miss the Zoya Farooqui ... Not this who is just listening quitely instead of answering back...

If not lioness, atleast the jungli billi Zoya... i dont want to shed tears.. .Stand and face him. .So what he is a lion.. U are no less Zoey...

He very conveniently forgets every gud thing Zoya has done for him n his family!!!
he even forgot that she cud hav dies sometime back...n that too coz of his best frend for whom he is treating her like s**t!!
He really treats her like a puppet...asks her to leave his house, then stops her, announces marriage, asks her to lie, tells her its all a drama...how much more can u hurt her???🤢
Me too really miss that old Zoya who left Asad's house without telling anyone...who used to anser him back n show him the mirror everytime he insulted her!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: nupsie

He very conveniently forgets every gud thong Zoya has done for him n his family!!!
he even forgot that she cud hav dies sometime back...n that too coz of his best frend for whom he is treating her like s**t!!
He really treats her like a puppet...asks her to leave his house, then stops her, announces marriage, asks her to lie, tells her its all a drama...how much more can u hurt her???🤢
Me too really miss that old Zoya who left Asad's house without telling anyone...who used to anser him back n show him the mirror everytime he insulted her!!



The CV's dont show Zoya standing up for herself, then definitely, its Zoya's character death.. .

A good background music and she is all shy shy, smiley smiley and forgives him just coz she loooveess him...

Agree u sacrifice in love, but NOT that you forget ua self respect... I really want Zoya to stand up for herself... Like khati khodi ek baar sunaye...

When she starts, Asad either walks away or shuts her up.. .Then 3 days later he comes to know she wasnt at fault...

A tear drop in his red eyes,, Sorry Zoya .. I , Woh , Ermmm - Eye lock., Mittwaaa, a fall in the arms with Asad holding Zoya - more intense eyelock - Over and Out
milgayi maafi...
And those meeooww meeooww...

Its even bad than watching Razia Bi plotting... Atleast Badi Bi is there against Razia..

Here Asad behaves as if Tannu is his wife and Zoya - an outsider... Truly said...

And i really wish reallly wish Zoya comes witth a guy friend of hers... Who wil actually kick Asad in his a**... Knocking some sense or knocking him out... .

I dont know which tehzeeb makes you touch a person u know and make her sit in ua arms every 2 mins just coz she is wearing full clothes and its besharmi to hold a girl who wears jeans... ????

Dont speak of tehzeeb - Asad... Mooh se achi nahi lagti.. Now i am fed of of his sorrys also
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Posted: 12 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: realitybites

Yeah you are so right. Everything is forgotten and forgiven, typical violence and abuse cycle. Is it so easy in real life-real feelings/emotions and yes real pain? DO eyelocks or dupattas really mend all wrongdoings? Then why do people say sorry or repent? Its so silly to tear apart a person's spirit and say hey its Mitwa now or eyelock so please forget all. Do REAL women feel this way?


It's a shame...People with such mindset need to change.
A real women would never accept anything that'll make her lose her self-respect or her dignity come what may...

I'd rather put it as...

A woman is a delicate flower. If you water her, you'll get a smile and her redolence in return. And if you do not take care of her, and if you try to hurt her, it will get dispirited. Even you may taste her thorn, then!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: StonerGirL

What i wanna ask cvs is what r u playing at? u want us to believe asad luvs zoya?? REALLY? this is his luv...tht for his FRIEND...hes gonna shut her out...once again not learn from his 10002328428348 mistake REPEAT IT...blast her and walk away without an explanation..it hasnt been 2 days since he did that last (blood sample) and hes doing it again..zoya JUST told him how much it hurts her and here he is again...so thats his guilt. thts his sorry.


basically zoya is not his priority tannu is...infact zoya cms at the bottom of the list...he can blast her for his mom najma tanveer...and then cms zoya??? r u KIDDING ME CVS? do u call this love???? Love is when ur even ready to go against god for smbdy...not blast them for even a dog barking on a street at night.

Ive always hated the way indian soaps show luv...i thought QH was diff doesnt seem like it.

i have never seen anything this unrealistic...my mouth was hanging open the entire episode.

so tannu is scared of docs ur gonna go to an extent to even treat her stab wounds at home..and zoya has a fear of fire and shes supposed to go JUMP IN IT????

Isnt asad zoyas fiance??? has he EVER wanted to check up on her...give her juice?? food?? forget tht she escaped death as well yesterday...and hes been locked in tannus room ever since...he hasnt even asked her ONCE..r u okay???...not even ONCE? How long r cvs gonna give us this BULL CRAP and expect us to put up with it...enough is enough...we're all literate here and i dnt think any of us r gonna be buying tht this can actually be possible. every relation has a way...and a limit.

CLEAR this up...who does asad luv more? care for more??

Just answer this question...if asad cud save only 1...either tannu/zoya from a fire...WHO wud he save...?? IMO i can actually expect him to without even hesitating jump for tanveer.

and i second that question HOW CAN SMBDY PUT UP WITH THIS! If zoya doesnt speak up tommorow..theres a character death right there.

@bold...I so agree with each word u wrote!!
Just answer this question...if asad cud save only 1...either tannu/zoya from a fire...WHO wud he save...?? IMO i can actually expect him to without even hesitating jump for tanveer.
Really, I wud like to see such a situation and whom Asad saves at that moment...!!
I personally believe, life is all about priorities, and if your first priority is a frend whom u r meeting after 20 years and suddenly she becomes the most important person to you, then I wud say,, you don't deserve Zoya's love!!
The recent incidents in the show hav been the heights of Dumbness...all of Tanveer's antics...these people treating her at home everytime...nobody noticing her burning Chandelier's rope...all this seems to be so unrealistic that I can't take it any more...I hope they soon bring the show on track n show some logic otherwise this show's future is in danger!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: nupsie

@bold...I so agree with each word u wrote!!
Just answer this question...if asad cud save only 1...either tannu/zoya from a fire...WHO wud he save...?? IMO i can actually expect him to without even hesitating jump for tanveer.
Really, I wud like to see such a situation and whom Asad saves at that moment...!!
I personally believe, life is all about priorities, and if your first priority is a frend whom u r meeting after 20 years and suddenly she becomes the most important person to you, then I wud say,, you don't deserve Zoya's love!!
The recent incidents in the show hav been the heights of Dumbness...all of Tanveer's antics...these people treating her at home everytime...nobody noticing her burning Chandelier's rope...all this seems to be so unrealistic that I can't take it any more...I hope they soon bring the show on track n show some logic otherwise this show's future is in danger!!


Everything said in bold - Agree to every word of it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: neha2607

It's a shame...People with such mindset need to change.

A real women would never accept anything that'll make her lose her self-respect or her dignity come what may...

I'd rather put it as...

A woman is a delicate flower. If you water her, you'll get a smile and her redolence in return. And if you do not take care of her, and if you try to hurt her, it will get dispirited. Even you may taste her thorn, then!!!

Neha...Zoya was that kind of a woman before she fell in love with Asad...she had guts, she showed self respect and was very much self dependant...Asad's love has made her a crybaby...!!!
I miss that Zoya we saw in the first few months of the show!!!
Loved ur last lines...and Asad needs to taste the thorns now!! He shud know how much it hurts wen the one u love so much treats u like this!!!
All this can happen, only if Zoya shows some self respect!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: nupsie

Neha...Zoya was that kind of a woman before she fell in love with Asad...she had guts, she showed self respect and was very much self dependant...Asad's love has made her a crybaby...!!!
Exactly...she had. I want to see the old Zoya back.
I miss that Zoya we saw in the first few months of the show!!!
Loved ur last lines...and Asad needs to taste the thorns now!! He shud know how much it hurts wen the one u love so much treats u like this!!!
All this can happen, only if Zoya shows some self respect!!!


And I hope she does...Because the current track is not only ruining Asad's character but also Zoya's. It's hard to see someone like Zoya going through all the accusations and later a simply sorry to settle things.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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more than tht.. i dont understand wht sort of love asad has fr zoya.. he doesnt trust her ever.. like ever !!!

he has more faith in tanveer than he has in zoya...

thn hw can he say he loves zoya.. he mayb is attracted to her.. bt he definitely doesnt love her.

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