Should Zoya have relation with Asad

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello guys i was a silent member of forum but today epi compelled me to write this post

I compelety understand Asad's anger and frustration today and his decision in all haywire to deport miss farooki
But the blames and words he uses, its fine if he wants Zoya to be out of his life ...but actually addressing Zoya as misfit for any kind of relation that too in front of a government official is not justified..especially when he noes that Zoya never purposely ends up in any mess.


None of us are ever perfect..sumtimes we go overboard for happiness of our loved ones crossing lines..like Zoya...but destiny play its game and we face bitter situations
Its only love and support of our loved ones that keeps us going along with our will in life.

But Asad had innumerable times taken zoya into question..any one can easily take him in confidence and the blame is on zoya..he has presumed her to be careless forever hence problem of all the mishappening..Poor Zoe looks so broken searching for a single pair of eyes that can show her..i noe u are nt at fault and i am with u vaalla feeling...
Najma and Dilshad often stand dumb..overshadowed by asad helplessness reflected by their faces..
Never ever a girl must enter a relation with a person who doesn't trust her..Infact asad will be first one to leave her side..He requires actual facts and proof to realise zoya's innocence ...cnt he read her eyes...He is terriblly weak in identifying personalities of ppl around.

Isn't it sad when we require our love of life to be with us most..he or she is first one to gave us the look of suspicion ..
Zoya readily accepted the ring..only to be left by asad when he learns truth abt her roots.
He might blame Zoya's mom for all mess in his family's life..u noe her moms being lover of siddique ...Razia murdering her...razia blackmailing rashid and his second marriage.

I hope cvs show sum trust and understanding from asad's side for zoya..otherwise she will always search for one a person having trust for her in all odds but she will find none

Pls share ur views
Thnxs
Yasha


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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with you... Asad does not trust Zoya at all. i think he needs to show her that he trusts her before they go further in their relationship and zoya needs to make sure that their relationship has trust above all because the way Asad behaves... their relationship will be doomed with the first toofan!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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"He requires actual facts and proof to realise zoya's innocence ...cnt he read her eyes...He is terriblly weak in identifying personalities of ppl around"

Those lines were so true.. Actually Asad's act of sending Zoya out of home could be justified if he didn't say those harsh words towards Zoya.. May be he wanted Mr. DB to deport Zoya immediately because he wants to save Zoya from Mr and Mrs Siddique.. We could have justified his act in that way.. But how comehe can say those words towards Zoya again?? She was just slapped by a 'witch' and carries a huge allegation with her.. Who else will support her in that country if not him.. Ayaan knows her only for few days but even he trust her.. Why is it very difficult for Asad to trust her?? Like what u said, why he always needs proof to belief that Zoya is innocent? Even I was hurt when he talked to Zoya as if she poisoned humeira.. Of course he didn't say that but the way he questioned her was like that.. Of course any son would have got angry in that situation.. He could have scolded her for going there without informing him.. But not throwing those harsh words at her.. I'm disappointed with Asad today !!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have said several times, Asad and Zoya have chemistry - but not trust. Both feel an attraction to each other, but the basic trust that *they are a team* has not yet been developed. Even his engagemnt, is not an acknowledgement from him that he loves her but a desparate attempt that he wants her to stay in his life. Which explains he Zoe questioning Asad spoiler, where she asks him what is this. The fact is that he def. trusts others over Zoya, and since he is still in denial of his feelings, its not going to be an easy ride for them. I hope that in rush for TRPs and in trying to ante the romance, they dont forget to let Asads and Zoyas relationship develop in trust and maturity.

Afterall, htey both have been there for each other, so its just going to take some introspection on both their part (aside from the attraction) to realize that they are each other's strengths, despite being the opposites who are attracting each other at this point.

Let' see, I hope they develop it, seriously. :) More so because Zoe is all alone in this world, and no one is really hers. So, if it is Asad, he has to be 100% hers! No less.

Originally posted by: Gods_child

Hello guys i was a silent member of forum but today epi compelled me to write this post


I compelety understand Asad's anger and frustration today and his decision in all haywire to deport miss farooki
But the blames and words he uses, its fine if he wants Zoya to be out of his life ...but actually addressing Zoya as misfit for any kind of relation that too in front of a government official is not justified..especially when he noes that Zoya never purposely ends up in any mess.


None of us are ever perfect..sumtimes we go overboard for happiness of our loved ones crossing lines..like Zoya...but destiny play its game and we face bitter situations
Its only love and support of our loved ones that keeps us going along with our will in life.

But Asad had innumerable times taken zoya into question..any one can easily take him in confidence and the blame is on zoya..he has presumed her to be careless forever hence problem of all the mishappening..Poor Zoe looks so broken searching for a single pair of eyes that can show her..i noe u are nt at fault and i am with u vaalla feeling...
Najma and Dilshad often stand dumb..overshadowed by asad helplessness reflected by their faces..
Never ever a girl must enter a relation with a person who doesn't trust her..Infact asad will be first one to leave her side..He requires actual facts and proof to realise zoya's innocence ...cnt he read her eyes...He is terriblly weak in identifying personalities of ppl around.

Isn't it sad when we require our love of life to be with us most..he or she is first one to gave us the look of suspicion ..
Zoya readily accepted the ring..only to be left by asad when he learns truth abt her roots.
He might blame Zoya's mom for all mess in his family's life..u noe her moms being lover of siddique ...Razia murdering her...razia blackmailing rashid and his second marriage.

I hope cvs show sum trust and understanding from asad's side for zoya..otherwise she will always search for one a person having trust for her in all odds but she will find none

Pls share ur views
Thnxs
Yasha


Edited by wahForums - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It seems like such a common pattern in all the desi serials -- the girl is good, pure hearted but her man always misunderstands her and blames her for things only to be proven wrong later. I have no idea what these creators are trying to prove by using this same cycle over and over again...

why can't the guy just trust the girl from the start? why must she always be the victim? break the pattern, people! be path-breakers not conformists :P
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Geeta_Ha thats asad big prob with Zoya he permanently damages for his upset momentarily
@wah Trust is foundation of any relation...any relation can furish even in abesence of love but not trust
@gapgirl true i can all series reflect trend of society..its bitter truth but that how is a image of woman even in 21st century..and PH is after money wat sells is crying bechari types gal..they wnt risk their profit for strong message
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Look i am not saying that the way asad that "jis ladki ko kisi rishtey ki koi kadar ni hai us ldki se koi kya rishta rakh sakta hai" is right but i am just saying that him shouting at zoya was completely justified after all no son can take such an insult for his mother...also he felt betrayed by zoya remember the way he said"apko kisi ki bhi fikar ni hui meri bhi ni"...he was really hurt by zoya's action and regarding his trust for zoya he is broken man with trust issues...a person who was abandoned by his father has a right to have trust issues...ya whatever he said to zoya he shouldn't have but time and again something happens around zoya that stops him from trusting her...i am not saying zoya is wrong...i felt so bad for her today she looked so scared...just that trust is sometimes hard to come...nd i think yes in future the cvs should show zoya and asad trusting each other and i think they should be in a relation cause when time comes asad will do anything to protect zoya from any harm even give up his own life...nt ya they should start showing asad trusting zoya...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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And ya in future i would like zoya to say to asad that he doesn't trust her and they can't have a relation until he starts trusting her...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushreemishra

And ya in future i would like zoya to say to asad that he doesn't trust her and they can't have a relation until he starts trusting her...

I said that asad has full right to brk fake engagement and deport her..but those excruciating words he throw torment like anythng... knowing all her past and nature is too much..

As u said zoya must expect atleast trust from him otherwise all she will bear is humiliation accusations in name of love..who wants such life..its better to marry a prs who understands u rather then sleeping on thorns of distrust
Edited by Gods_child - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't really blame him. She should have respected Asad's space and not gone there.

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