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chicksoup

@chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Rupunzale
Do you really find humor in mocking and taunting others? Violence is a very serious matter and this is being portrayed as passion in QH...farther more the male lead has no remorse for what he did...he is still aggressive and just tolerating Zoya for the mere fact that she is aware of certain facts about his mother's attacker...an opportunist.

Anyways...I hope everyone understands that there should be a place for everyone's opinion...any taunting or mocking will not stop us from expressing our views.

You must be blind, because I can see he is still regretting it...even in today's episode.

But thank you for being more refined in your response than your friend above you.

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: chicksoup

😕Oops...Looks like Gul drained out your sense of humour.

I am sorry, if I touched a raw nerve there...this was not meant to poke fun at you...apologies.😊

I am sorry but I don't find what we shown last week as funny. I've seen too many relationships start this way and people end up in hospital several years later because people didn't think it was a big deal and tried to justify it. I don't see how any of this a joking matter more so if we address it with the proper channels and ask the PH to treat the matter seriously.

Have you thought, perhaps because of the outrcry here, the PH might actually be thinking twice about what they've done?

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: rendezvousvin

@chicksoup.. gr8 post dear and its quite hillarious...

@Laila.. Though I don't agree to ur views in calling the slap as violence and even writing letter to BCCC... I think the part mentioned in bold above is correct.. we can always take things differently but we should also learn to respect other's view... We always can differ but can have healthy and mature discussion without the personal attack... No offense to you chicsoup (sorry don't know your name dear) ur post is hilariuos... its just the last line which I didn't like.. completely my POV...In the end we all are QHians so why this we and they thing can't we be us and have the discussion? Again... no offense intended to anyone and I am not trying to educate anyone here..its just my POV and a request to keep the forum one and enjoy the show.

Please guys don't start bashing me for this...

Happy Valentines Day to Everyone.

There is no POV when it comes to blatant mockery. Second, if your POV is that it OK to do these things then there is nothing I can say. I will say this and I hope it helps you understand that in the field of abuse, to say what you saw last week was acceptable, it is tauntmount as saying it OK for someone to get raped because of the way she dresses...and that's not me or my POV but what experts in the field have said when people try to rationalize what they see as a POV. Until people treat these things as the same, then and only then will attitudes start to change. I know that people find this hard to digest but that's what experts have said.

I really find it extremely disappointing at the mockery that people who do not support this practice must endure on this forum. If this is coming from female forum members, I can only imagine what women must endure in real life when people are standing up for a cause. It is really sad.

Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Laila2009
I am sorry but I don't find what we shown last week as funny. I've seen too many relationships start this way and people end up in hospital several years later because people didn't think it was a big deal and tried to justify it. I don't see how any of this a joking matter more so if we address it with the proper channels and ask the PH to treat the matter seriously.

Have you thought, perhaps because of the outrcry here, the PH might actually be thinking twice about what they've done?

You think too much of yourself, dear.

I am sorry for being so blunt...but IT IS A FACT.

Please read this:

Why do you think Zoya had that cut injury along with the slap?

It was planned way back then that the hero will be taunted with memories of that...I know you will not believe me and you might even say that he is not regretting, but it is quite plain that he is regretting...and was written to be regretting when they wrote that cut into the script.(At least that they did not do after your outcry)

YOU SIMPLY JUMPED THE GUN.

Really, Laila, please no hard feelings here...it is simply unfathomable ...this knee jerk reaction you people are exhibiting...wait a while and see na.

Why are you so impatient?

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Laila2009
There is no POV when it comes to blatant mockery. Second, if your POV is that it OK to do these things then there is nothing I can say. I will say this and I hope it helps you understand that in the field of abuse, to say what you saw last week was acceptable, it is tauntmount as saying it OK for someone to get raped because of the way she dresses...and that's not me or my POV but what experts in the field have said when people try to rationalize what they see as a POV. Until people treat these things as the same, then and only then will attitudes start to change. I know that people find this hard to digest but that's what experts have said.

I really find it extremely disappointing at the mockery that people who do not support this practice must endure on this forum. If this is coming from female forum members, I can only imagine what women must endure in real life when people are standing up for a cause. It is really sad.

Laila,

Again you think too much of yourself and too ess of others who don't subscribe to your POV.

Quite contrary to what you think, we are more understanding (or at least as understanding as you ) when it comes to th eplight of women being abused.

And when there are people out here not on your side, claiming they do more help in real life than any of you do through this outcry, PLEASE BELIEVE THEM

PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE...it is important to KNOW WHEN AND WHERE TO REACT, rather than fly off the handle at the drop of a hat.

You are doing exactly what I would have done as a teenager...trying to prove a point where there is no point.

Please stop expecting less from people who are simply more mature than you .

I know you must be thinking that I mean to say that violence should be borne in silence...if that is what you think, you have simply not understood me. You have not even tried to.

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Vrinda Sharma

@rendezvousvin

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Laila2009
There is no POV when it comes to blatant mockery. Second, if your POV is that it OK to do these things then there is nothing I can say. I will say this and I hope it helps you understand that in the field of abuse, to say what you saw last week was acceptable, it is tauntmount as saying it OK for someone to get raped because of the way she dresses...and that's not me or my POV but what experts in the field have said when people try to rationalize what they see as a POV. Until people treat these things as the same, then and only then will attitudes start to change. I know that people find this hard to digest but that's what experts have said.

I really find it extremely disappointing at the mockery that people who do not support this practice must endure on this forum. If this is coming from female forum members, I can only imagine what women must endure in real life when people are standing up for a cause. It is really sad.

Laila.. Have you even read my comment ... My comment has nothing to do with your huge hue and cry regarding a slap. I just said that I am against mocking and bashing and you concluded it with educating me on what abuse is... When you want other's to respect your views learn doing the same...

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Daayan Bai

@KunwaariDaayan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Originally posted by shaz2009

Infusing such lame,sick,petty humour and making snide comments is not only ridiculing us but all women in general.If you are women on here who finds this obscenity funny...shame on you!Growp up,and go find yourselves a dictionary and look up the word Civilzation and humanity and try instilling some in yourselves!

What obscenity?😲

You are the one who is showing me obscenity where it is not there.😆

Seriously, you guys are the ones telling us there is romance in the slap. We all felt bad for Zoya, but from somewhere you have this idea that people thought the slap was romantic.

Do an introspection, and stop calling me names...I'd appreciate it if you could respect real people instead of trying to prove yourself a heroine, sticking up for fictional characters...PLEASE GROW UP.

Even if you don't agree with me, there is a respectful way of doing it...which'd do wonders for YOUR DIGNITY in the eyes of other forum members...

I have said to Laila also that i'll take this up in the slap post...if you'd like to, and IF YOU CAN BE CULTURED AND REFINED IN YOUR outlook for REAL people, for a change, please comment here and take this up in that post.

Seriously, you are sounding FRUSTRATED and you do have my sympathy...Dil se...🤗

NO ONE CAN HELP YOU BUT YOURSELF.

There's no need to go below the belt and get my culture into all this...that is so darn right rude!If you are so cultured and refined in you outlook for real people then why infuse such sick,twisted,lame humour in you posts making snide,snraky comments.mocking at us indirectly and you know your guilty of this...so dnt even try bother brush this off...just accept like a civil citizen.

Also we never said the slap was romantic...most people on here have deemd it that way,tha's why we got numerous vm's with the slap sequence labelling it as romance and love and numerous posts justifying the slap...so please dnt go try put words in my mouth!

You've got your threads and we've got ours and if you dnt like or agree and cnt be respectful,then all you gotta do is stay away and if you can be civil and have a healthy discussion ,then you are more than welcome to drop by.

By the way I'm not frustrated at all...there's no need to be, maybe, you are dear so please keep your sympathies to yourself or for someone who really needs it!Get it...hint hint...lol..😉

Edited by shaz2009 - 12 years ago

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shobakv

@shobakv

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: chicksoup
What did you do to make my heroine cry, Mr. Khan?😡

Well, I am stumped actually!😕

You did a lot, and she did not budge...except for those tears she showed Allah.

Toh, what have you done now, that she is cryiiinnng?

Did you step on her feet while dancing?😲

Go take some dancing lessons, Mr. Khan!😆

Did you suddenly make her aware of you?😳

Mitwaa, slowly...ishq pe zor nahi...😉

Ah! I got it! YOu must have grabbed her by that hand which had that cut...🤓

Uff...Mr. Khan. You are hurting her. We are going too send a petition on this.😉 😆

You are classic...Petition..Ha ha funny

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

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Posted: 12 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: chicksoup
[You think too much of yourself, dear.
I am sorry for being so blunt...but IT IS A FACT.

Please read this:

Why do you think Zoya had that cut injury along with the slap?

It was planned way back then that the hero will be taunted with memories of that...I know you will not believe me and you might even say that he is not regretting, but it is quite plain that he is regretting...and was written to be regretting when they wrote that cut into the script.(At least that they did not do after your outcry)

YOU SIMPLY JUMPED THE GUN.

Really, Laila, please no hard feelings here...it is simply unfathomable ...this knee jerk reaction you people are exhibiting...wait a while and see na.

Why are you so impatient?

No-one jumped any gun. Also, the way it was handled last week - very disappointing. And second, you are writing as though you knew before hand this was planned...you don't know that...how do you know that after reading these posts they realized that they needed to do more? 😉

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

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Posted: 12 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Laila,

Again you think too much of yourself and too ess of others who don't subscribe to your POV.

Quite contrary to what you think, we are more understanding (or at least as understanding as you ) when it comes to th eplight of women being abused.

And when there are people out here not on your side, claiming they do more help in real life than any of you do through this outcry, PLEASE BELIEVE THEM

PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE...it is important to KNOW WHEN AND WHERE TO REACT, rather than fly off the handle at the drop of a hat.

You are doing exactly what I would have done as a teenager...trying to prove a point where there is no point.

Please stop expecting less from people who are simply more mature than you .

I know you must be thinking that I mean to say that violence should be borne in silence...if that is what you think, you have simply not understood me. You have not even tried to.

My dear it is not about ponts of view but facts. However, you are entitled to believe what you want and that I cannot change. I have no regrets writing the letter and am still glad that I did. Actually I sadly do think you and many others here believe that people should be silenced and mocked and taunted if they do simply from the mockery in your post.

Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago

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