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vedu

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Posted: 13 years ago

In one episode Nuzat was telling that she and Najma are in the same class(first year)..

Does that mean Rashid was cheating Shirin and Dilshad at the same time??🤣

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nikita_786

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Posted: 13 years ago

ewww... maybe 🤣 he is just yuck

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Posted: 13 years ago

Rashid's a luv machine .. a lady magnet !! ...both the ladies crave fr him ...how much control cn the poor man 've ?...he left an impact on Zoya too !...if women act total nuts round him ...its nt his fault !...he's nt yuck ... rather he's the ladies man & way cooler than both his sons when it cums to women ...

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Posted: 13 years ago

If Rashid was married to both Dilshad and Shireen (as is allowed in Islam) then he would have to treat both the same. Therefore, it's "okay" that Nuzrat and Najma are the same age.

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vedu

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.
If Rashid was married to both Dilshad and Shireen (as is allowed in Islam) then he would have to treat both the same. Therefore, it's "okay" that Nuzrat and Najma are the same age.

Is it so???.. Even if he is not divorced????

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zahara

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: vedu

Is it so???.. Even if he is not divorced????

Yes. If a Muslim man is married to two women, then if one has a child, he has to make sure the other one has one too (if she can). Basically, he shouldn't differentiate between them. He is allowed to have up to 4 wives at the same time, provided that he can care for them.

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

Yes. If a Muslim man is married to two women, then if one has a child, he has to make sure the other one has one too (if she can). Basically, he shouldn't differentiate between them. He is allowed to have up to 4 wives at the same time, provided that he can care for them.

this is true in Arabic countries but I don't think it is allowed in India

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: harshdb
this is true in Arabic countries but I don't think it is allowed in India

It is allowed in India.

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Posted: 13 years ago

U know it doesnt make sense.

They stated that nuzat and najma are same age, but then when rashid left shirin and came with aayan... The time when dilshad was pregs with najma, why didnt he bring nikhat with aayan and him to dilshads? An he left shirin when he was pregnant? It doesnt make sense.. I think its a blooper.

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gems4sana

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Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: harshdb
this is true in Arabic countries but I don't think it is allowed in India

Some things to clear up:

1) It is allowed in India, as one of the posters replied. India has allowances for people from other religions, such as Muslims. This is why Dharmendra and Hema Malini "converted" to Islam so Dharmendra could marry Hema as his second wife, since his first wife was unwilling to divorce him.

2) PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, I am begging you, please do not say that "if one has a child, he has to make sure the other one too has one" even if she can/can't.

While it is true you are supposed to NOT differentiate between your wives, its only in terms of economic means!!!!! Meaning, if you get one wife a 3 story house, you have to buy the other one too...you can't keep one in a hut and another in a mansion... (however, if one of the wives WANTS to live in a smaller house out of her own choice, then that is a different story).

This principle does NOT, I repeat NOT apply to children NOR does it apply to love. If the husband in his heart feels more love to one wife than the other, its kind of like how parents or children feel more love to one child or one parent as opposed to the other. It's natural, you can't control your heart. HOWEVER, this should not manifest itself into the husband spending unfair amounts of time or giving an unfair/more gifts to one wife over the other.

The same idea applies to children. If one wife has a child it does NOT mean the other woman deserves a child and should be impregnated (even if she can give birth). Neither men nor women can't possibly "make sure" they have children, even if they are biologically able to.

Please, I beg of you, the principle of equality in Muslim polygamous marriages does not translate into equal amounts of children, regardless of biological ability.

I think I explained this in the beginning of the show on another post, but its been a while.
Just a friendly reminder.

If anyone wants references and sound sources, hit me up :)