@Carisma - Agree that in our lives we have to deal with abuse to a certain level. But we decide till what level. Whatever our profession...store manager, watchmen or even the Prime Minister...doesn't mean that we have to throw our self respect out of the window. And no where did I say replying back means using abusive language. I said ppl need to be shown the mirror not that u have to mirror their behaviour.
Well in the example that u gave the store manager might take the abuse 1st time, even the 2nd,3rd or 4th time. But if it continues m sure even he would reply back. And if at that time I judge that person on just his reaction and dislike or hate him for that...then it speaks volume about my own self...my short term memory and my selective amnesia (oops! reminds me of Arnab Dobrial😆) Anyways it just shows how I conveniently choose to see only the one grey spot on a clean white sheet. Convenient and easy. But how right is that?
"These actors are impressionable and set a example for many young people... it is their profession. They chose to be in the limelight - so positive or negative.. they would have to deal with it."
Well I guess their profession is acting...they are not leaders. About setting examples well there are 2 things. Firstly, I guess from all the comments, that these are mostly kids and teens who bashed. So what example would she set by ignoring? That it is all right to abuse and insult anyone and get away with??? Disrespecting a person just coz u don't like them? Well bad example I would say.
Secondly and more important point. This is directed to not you but to everyone who thinks that Kish has set a bad example but forgot one simple thing. I would just like to bring that to ur notice pplz. Well, u all say that Kish should have been responsible as she sets example for ppl...but then so does each one of us has the same responsibility. We all set examples for ppl around us...so then what about the example that the IF members had set by bashing actors left, right and centre...and specially Vahbz?? Well we all know what sorts of name calling and insults are made...all in the name of either stating my view or just in gud humour. and if your argument is that no. of ppl who follow Kish is way more than ppl who follow IF...well then true but does the figure matter???? You r setting an example nevertheless. And if you think that no matter what example you yourself set she should set a gud example then I hv nothing more to say coz I don't understand such double standards.
And I think I would be more concerned about what example I set rather than any 'xyz' celeb sets coz ppl who matter look up at us and learn and not any xyz. But then ofcourse thats what I think and my moral standards say which are only for me. You all are better judge of your own lives.😊
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