You people really need to lay off...

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I'm sorry I thought I should put this out there. And this is for the people who are guilty of this, so if you aren't then don't be offended.

Its very sad seeing posts about Jay as pathetic, from which angle is he hot? He is so ugly! Why can't we just have Abhay...etc. etc.

Its rather funny to me because, when I once said this show had become illogical, or wasn't to its full potential, everyone jumped on me like a piece of meat. When anybody says anything about Vivian, Sukriti or their characters Abhay and Piya, everyone comes out guns blazing to defend them. But then its okay to diss not only the character of Jay but also the actors looks itself?

Isn't that contradictory behaviour? Isn't that being a hypocrite? When it comes to your favourite you tell people bashing is wrong, yet its okay to do it to someone else. Its always been a probelm on the I-F forum.

It even comes down to, when somebody disses Abhay's character its not okay, but I could say that the rude attitude Abhay had in the start was a copy of Edward's actions towards Bella (its just example...or even any other Ekta rude boy) and that wouldn't be okay with people. But its okay to say Jay is a copy of Abhay etc. etc. Frankly speaking, I wouldn't mind a different attitude on him, but he is different. He voices his opinion more, where as Abhay was the silent arrogant at first...

Neways, I made this post because I think ppl should really consider what they say about an actor or person, if they don't like their favourites being bashed.

Why am I making this post? Because it doesn't even come down to Jay or not, this is a recurring problem, that everyone bashes the new guy or someone who is not their favourite. Its really a way of thinking that needs to be changed.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey just chill if u see then since morning m protesting against jay bashing and i knw many people are using doggie words for him but they were soon reported and I commented and requested them to stop this. So dont worry.

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Thanx alot 4 dis post and just ignore some people dont accept changes easily and lemme give u example people didn't accepted Sid easily bt now everyone wants him back.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I completely second you on that. Probably the reason I let it go is because I'm used to it. Like you said it yourself, this is a problem with every forum. It's nothing unique here. I didn't like Abhay's unnecessarily rude attitude either and nor do I like Jay's. The actor is fine, in fact, if i'm asked my opinion, I quite like him.
But this is how the psychology specially here on IF works. I quote my own self in a post I replied to in another forum a few months back 'It's ok if we do it to others but it's a crime if others do it to us'.
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Oh I am chill, I just find the hypocrisy amusing. I don't invest much in many shows, minus Community of HIMYM anyways. Just when I go through posts and see Abhiya/Sid fans bashing the actor, I don't think they could handle the same being done to their actor. And thanks for reporting :)
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Originally posted by: Chill_Out

I completely second you on that. Probably the reason I let it go is because I'm used to it. Like you said it yourself, this is a problem with every forum. It's nothing unique here. I didn't like Abhay's unnecessarily rude attitude either and nor do I like Jay's. The actor is fine, in fact, if i'm asked my opinion, I quite like him.

But this is how the psychology specially here on IF works. I quote my own self in a post I replied to in another forum a few months back 'It's ok if we do it to others but it's a crime if others do it to us'.


I think I have seen u on the DMG forum, yup it was def. a problem there. I just hate it when people take it to looks, its very shallow and plain rude.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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honey, i know ur a jay fan , and upset. True, I am a die hard fan of Abhay. But, I like Jay's character too, and find it intriguing. But, fans will be upset nah. they loved their belove couple a lot., and it will take time to digest his character for some of them. They just don't want any one to come between abhiya.they are just worried, and in worries people can act irrational, and make hasty post . But , don't worry they will come to love him too. And, i agree the actor, or his character should not be bashed. but , try to look their way too. and, can u make this post a little bit sincere.i don't want a fight in the forum. just the tile sounds bit rude. thanks syria🤗
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Don't get me wrong, I like Abhay, I am not a huge fan of Jay yet character-wise but that doesn't give me the right to bash him. People are logical enough, they can see they are being hypocrites in bashing another actor but cannot take the heat for their own. If people cannot reason that, or jump to bashing methods then they really need to take a breather, and connect with real people more than reel people. LOL
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: CanadianAddict


I think I have seen u on the DMG forum, yup it was def. a problem there. I just hate it when people take it to looks, its very shallow and plain rude.


I was active in the DMG Forum once upon a time though not too much so maybe you did catch my glimpses.
Commenting on an actor's physical attributes is against IF rules anyway but I guess rules are just meant to be broken 🤔
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Posted: 14 years ago
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The tone I believe is good enough in getting the point across. I have seen posts way ruder than this, bashing Jay.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: CanadianAddict

Don't get me wrong, I like Abhay, I am not a huge fan of Jay yet character-wise but that doesn't give me the right to bash him. People are logical enough, they can see they are being hypocrites in bashing another actor but cannot take the heat for their own. If people cannot reason that, or jump to bashing methods then they really need to take a breather, and connect with real people more than reel people. LOL


Completely agree with you there! Not liking a particular actor/character doesn't give us the right to bash or mock them. I wish more people realise that 😊

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