WHO ARE THE BASHERS !!! & Reason Why leaving

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Posted: 14 years ago
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WHO ARE THE basher?? & Background Details of why many members r leaving forum

Who are the bashers of mahi ...i really want to know ? Can someone say directly as i see in every comment member said that dont leave due to bashers ??

mahi we appreciate ur selfless work for forum and many here too want peace here. You have always been here to make sure the post dont turn into cc , no one using abusive language . Every single member in forum agree and appreciate for your work . It goes with sanju too for being active member to organise the game , FF etc... We do understand how diffcult it is .

After the mahi post "Please Read-Regading Forum Happenings" we were equally hurt but made sure we give our opinion in same post without disturbing the peace of the forum. But whats happening here I really cant keep quite now to make this point .

Truth is harsh but need to be accepted . When we openly made the point where we were hurt ..i accepted members to clarify in the post so that whole forum don't get disturb and everything get sorted there itself . Just like mahi/sanju ...we are too hurt too.😕

Some of the points i have bring it again to clarify( Black @TM(Please Read-Regading Forum Happenings) and RED my comment)) Blue ( imp point to be noted)

Regarding Kabir Bashing

People hate or dislike him just because he comes in between Abhiya.I mean that's not a valid point to dislike him.I agree Kabir's character is not on the right route and Cv's are not at all concentrating on his character BUT as I said Opinions can be expressed in a more formal , calm and accurate way.And if you see its because of Kabir Abhiya are together.

Such topics like ''Kabir is a Jerk..I hate him..He is nothing but Kabab mein haddi'' are strictly NOT allowed.

People hate or dislike is quite personal feel of the character and if the fan feel that he is coming between abhlya ..might not be valid point but still it is feeling of the fan and i don't find it wrong if they express this in constructive manner. Liking cannot be forced even the reasons is silly. I do agree that topic like kabir is jerk should not be allowed , rather any topic that are derogatory remarks on the character should be closed . ...

Why anyone come with kabir topic make KAPI fan offended ? We had huge discussion on topic name "kabir" but all we got response that we hate kabir , biased with character and so on ...HOLD on ..we were just putting our comments without using bad language . But no till we agree with other POV on kabir otherwise it consider as negative

Well "kabab me haddi" many times member choose to put such remarks in funny or hilarious way . If the comments are just meant to be on fun side why cant be written this ??

I like to add here there are many post and comments that made are just hilarious and fun element added to it and should be read in same manner .

To be remind this was told by @VIVLUV when mahi , myself and @VIVLUV has discussion on kabir and it was said "Kabab mene haddi " was said with funny remark with emoticon ...i see most of the member comes with funny remark ..why cant be taken in same manner ??...what makes u offended ..

And telling Misha fans that 'your misha's chamchi' and accusing and bashing each other is also not allowed.

This again was in nishi post ..and @someone just said in funny way with emoticon and she got the reply rather in same manner ...it is was mutual between thoes two frs who discussed and same time they understood that is just fun remark . Is anything wrong here ...?

What's up with ''Sid ko bachao mission?''It feels like we are having a tug of war. Sid is evil and has no humanity.I haven't seen Sid bashing that much but earlier it was much.Sid is evil vampire so expecting humanity from Sid isn't possible.And for if it wasn't Sid , Abhiya bond wouldn't have become so stronger.

You made sticky post giving this example as " Sid ka bachao mission" ...whats wrong in this . Is this not positive post to have fun . Please read the post ..there is no bashing at all . Why @VIVLUV post was picked up ...even to give an example . Was the post tug of war ...not at all ?? . here everyone comes with there own club , groups ..like MISHA CLUB ...did anyone raise the question ? Rather i can such group bring more differences than the example u mentioned un ur post .

If the intention of the post is just to have fun why making post maker feel that it is wrong

@VIVLUV left the forum ..she felt bad and offended cuase of this . I don't even rem she has any time given serious comments, bashed or accused the character . Don't she understand the sid is evil ..she was also trying to convince the same to other . But she was made guilty of nothing. Her topic was subjected to bad limelight. she left the forum without being dramatic here .

Most of them had good time on her post ..as she herself used to make lot of fun . I feel terrible that she left now

Regarding AbhiYa Marriage

The topic was created by Quism. If you clearly read her topic and observe the article seems fake and I guess one member proved that also.Why can't one take humor as humor and serious topics as serious topics?The topic was made for pure entertainment and nothing else.

How non game member should know that it is fun. It has raised the expectation among many abhlya fans . We didn;t even saw post later saying that it is ' just for fun..please ignore it '. It might confuse many forum members . One should let other know that it is just prediction or source where they got information or it is just fun . It is for peace for forum we said . As many dont know what going in forum and takes such comments seriously only to know that it was just part of game.

It was suggestion given by us for betterment of the forum members..how hard to understand.

Regarding Game Issues

If you read the tasks, the tasks has no faults, but its the member's duty to do the task appropriately without causing destruction to the forum.

All we did is requested for peace of forum itself that if some post are part of game then there should be way to inform so that members knew about it and take in same way . Many may not know what going on the forum . Well it was for sake of many members in IF . Is suggestion is not really matter ...one cant tell on the favour of forum members if something needs improvment?

But saying that task to be performed is way is just member duty ..well not agree . Some members are new to game and may not really know how to play . It need experience and hence guidance from task giver . How the members who has not performed at fault ??? Don't u think they do need some direction ...?

Very IMP Point to note : Since it was post in general for all the members , how good it is to pin point someone post & remarks where everyone is reading them . The topic & content that u selected as i mentioned above was disrespectful . By doing this those members who thought to express there opinion are very hurt . Are they feeling are not considered here ??...By no means we matter to this forum ? Are we dont even have right to get heart??

How wrong are we to point somewhere we have got hurt , express our opinion ..why it is not taken in right spirit same way when u have written the post and wanted everyone to take in positive manner . Such contradiction ..ahhh.?

If name is not mentioned but topic and comments are picked up then dont the @TM will feel bad . How does it matter that name is not there but the very topic/comments are there to make the @TM feel bad ...both are the same ..isin't ?

If our comments has made you offended then they then something must be the post you posted😉 otherwise why feeling so offended. why cant take things in positive manner😊

Good to see mahi & sanju back to forum ..i wish @VIVLUV also to come back in same spirit u were ...in small time u made the forum fun and u were suc sweet and loving person with everyone.😊😊

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Posted: 14 years ago
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wowww
expected this
i guess u want to throw water on my efforts to bring mahi and romi back

bt dont worry i will rly on ur post wid full explanation

and according to IF rules u cant take names in ur post to offend some1
Edited by sanjna4 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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dear chill ..mahi is not leaving any more !!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: aromal

dear chill ..mahi is not leaving any more !!

Archi is leaving and u should know the reason why all are leaving?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: aromal

dear chill ..mahi is not leaving any more !!

bt seriously dis explanation post proves dat mahi's post was right

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanjna4

wowww

expected this
i guess u want to throw water on my efforts to bring mahi and romi back

bt dont worry i will rly on ur post wid full explanation

and according to IF rules u cant take names in ur post to offend some1

Well well i expect first your reaction to be this . For you mahi /romila matter ...but not the other forum members who are hurt like mahi .
For me all of u matter but as u always said see from other person POV also . Archi left but yes how does make difference to u
Sanju u should read the whole post
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Posted: 14 years ago
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All i can see is frustration cause some characater has been critisized. and i am talking frustration from both sides

Its ironic that main pilars, AbhayPiya of the show have been critisized lots of times, even very harshly at times but it never created such hype on the forum.
Whats important to see is that this is not abt any single or specific characater...in its time everyone is ready to critizise rather than analyze logicly. As was the time when fans disliked Piyas behaviour with Abhay although it was natural. Cause they felt Abhay was hurt noone actually cared to look that even Piya is in pain. and had hatred topics on her. some stating that Abhay should just end up with someone else.
It was lame and immature. but it passed, cause it was momentary.
Kabirs role is to come between AbhayPia...(which many times leads to them comming closer only though). but it is creatives aim to have him as the guy in between so critizisez will be there. yet he is loved and fans wish for someone who would love him back. its good to see it as the whole picture and not take offence all the time.😊
As for Sid...seriously?...he is among the few evils out there who actually is 'loved' instead of beeing disliked.
Edited by cooliecute - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanjna4

bt seriously dis explanation post proves dat mahi's post was right

I know one can pull the topic name to disrespect the topicmaker but we just has to listen what is been said and cant even expres the opinion ...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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peace guys pls i wish everyone who left comes back i think many people have to apologize to vivluv romaila kaheela and all that but i really want to know who are these people i think the same person bashed the other members to ...really whoever this person they are creating a havoc
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: sanjna4

wowww

expected this
i guess u want to throw water on my efforts to bring mahi and romi back

bt dont worry i will rly on ur post wid full explanation

and according to IF rules u cant take names in ur post to offend some1

leave it sanju dear...
plz... dnt interact with such ppl...
coz i dnt want u , mahi , romi n all ur friends to leave IF n PKYEK forum again😭

Edited by sv003 - 14 years ago

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