''I want Pia back in my life'' - Right or wrong? - Page 3

Originally posted by: shina1114

hello,

I am a silent reader, but this topic intrigued me, so thought i should reply.

To answer your question, I think it is Right, when you look at it from Kabir's point of view. Yes, he has erred, but that doesn't mean he can't rectify his mistake. In his defense, he didn't do anything "wrong" per say. Yes, he insulted Pia badly, but only because he is in love with her, and it hurt him to know not only that she was blaming danish, but also the fact that Danish told him "pia likes to play with rich men." And it's not like he insulted her in front of a million people, as far as i remember once it was in front of tracker, and the other time he was talking to Misha and he didn't know pia was eavesdropping.

In my opinion he should go ahead with whatever he is planning as long as he is sure of it.

As for the other people who think it's wrong, i have one question for you, if Kabir doesn't deserve pia, why does Abhay deserve her?(besides the obvious fact that he is the male lead?) At least Kabir only kept his emotions limited to his friend circle, but Abhay besides saving her ALSO insults her/man handles her(which is "sexy" but that's besides the point). Granted he is not human but the other "humans" don't know it, so why does he get the right to insult pia yet deserve to be with her?

P.S. I was/am/and always will be an Edward fan, and since Pyar ki yeh ek kahani is based on twilight, I will be completely on Abhay's side even if he does something evil. It was/is/will always be TEAM EDWARD for me, so for this show it'll always be TEAM ABHAY! (This post is just to show that Kabir isn't wrong either).

Originally posted by: Chill_Out

Abhay stood by her when everyone was against her! He was her only support. He definitely insults and manhandles her, but publicly, he's stood by her whenever she's been in need. I"m not even going to mention that he saved her a zillion times. And the "Tracker" incident was in the college corridors. Obviously he was pretty audible. And the fact that Tracker had walked away, flatly refusing to be a part of Kabir's indirect 'sunaoing' elevated her in my eyes and my respect for her increased.

I'm not against Kabir rectifying his mistake. In fact, I"m very happy to see KaPi back, but I don't think they should go back to the BF/GF thing. It will obviously not be genuine from Pia's side.

Btw, welcome to the forum!! It'll be nice to see you more active :)

Originally posted by: shina1114

If you look at my original post, i never negated the fact that Abhay hasn't saved her or anything. Yes he supported her, but does it give him the right to treat Pia the way he does?
And since we are talking about support, Kabir has supported Pia all the other times except in the Danish case. And I am sure, if Pia had told him FIRST instead of Danish, he wouldn't have behaved this way. We should take it into consideration that Kabir heard the "truth" from Danish and obviously no one questions their family. And Pia's behavior towards him wasn't that great, remember her yelling at him? Her always being intrigued by Abhay? All that fit with what Danish had told him, so obviously he was bound to be hurt.

As for the "tracker" incident, yes it was in a college corridor, but not many people were around, and it wasn't like he was screaming on top of his voice, he just wanted Pia to hear it, he didn't want the rest of the world to hear it. Also, when Pia was being insulted in the classroom, along with Misha, Kabir also looked worried for her.

In short, from my POV kabir only insulted pia with limitations, while i think Abhay has no limits, because he wants Pia to be out of his life, yet he wants her in his life, which makes him do things that are not the best options.

As for the BF/GF thing, as viewers yes we don't want it, but from Kabir's POV, pia is single and it's the only thing that matters. It's not Kabir's responsibility in this matter, but Pia's who should be open instead of being confused.

Thank for the welcome =)

Kabir and Pia should remain friends.....even if I were to accept that he did not support her over Danesh his cousin....for what ever reason....his behaviour after was totally unacceptable...derogatory....disrespectual and disgusting....with such behaviour....I don't think Kabir deserves a second chance with Pia....he is too naive, immature....and clearly does not deserve her as a girlfriend....However, they have better relationship as friends...I have no problem if he tries it with her....as I would like to see Abhay getting jealous....and hopefully in a moment of jealousy .....Abhay may try and confess his feelings...wishful thinking.

Originally posted by: Mrs.Jaysean

Kabir did not support her when pia needed him the most. in fact he made false accusation on her in public. So he really do not deserve her.

Originally posted by: shina1114

If you look at my original post, i never negated the fact that Abhay hasn't saved her or anything. Yes he supported her, but does it give him the right to treat Pia the way he does?
And since we are talking about support, Kabir has supported Pia all the other times except in the Danish case. And I am sure, if Pia had told him FIRST instead of Danish, he wouldn't have behaved this way. We should take it into consideration that Kabir heard the "truth" from Danish and obviously no one questions their family. And Pia's behavior towards him wasn't that great, remember her yelling at him? Her always being intrigued by Abhay? All that fit with what Danish had told him, so obviously he was bound to be hurt.

As for the "tracker" incident, yes it was in a college corridor, but not many people were around, and it wasn't like he was screaming on top of his voice, he just wanted Pia to hear it, he didn't want the rest of the world to hear it. Also, when Pia was being insulted in the classroom, along with Misha, Kabir also looked worried for her.

In short, from my POV kabir only insulted pia with limitations, while i think Abhay has no limits, because he wants Pia to be out of his life, yet he wants her in his life, which makes him do things that are not the best options.

As for the BF/GF thing, as viewers yes we don't want it, but from Kabir's POV, pia is single and it's the only thing that matters. It's not Kabir's responsibility in this matter, but Pia's who should be open instead of being confused.

Thank for the welcome =)