What is Good and what is Bad??

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have never seen the world as black and white and hence have never liked the serials which seems to do so. World ain't black and white.No one's bad no one's good but everyone makes mistake and most try to correct them. So I really felt happy when I saw that main lead of this serial was not shown as savitri Devi as is the case with mostly all Ekta serial. I am glad that Piya is a mixture of black and white, just like any of us.. She is a real person. She is Imperfect. She makes mistakes but then she corrects them too. But right now, we all know that though unintentionally, she is going to hurt Kabir in this mouse game, leave him heartbroken, give him the worst sort of pain.So does that make her a bad person? If I know her, then she'll try to correct her mistake, but will that help? Is it gonna ease Kabir's hurt?? Though it's justified from her POV but is it really justified?
Does this make her bad person? How do we define Good and bad ? Are there any definitive measures for it??

My question is just not limited to the show, and I would love if I get some unrelated answers too!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Exactly.....thats why i am mainly hooked to this show...the Main leads Abhay and Piya...are not perfect, are not black or white as u say...and most importantly they r not constant in the same wave as the other charcaters....i love that......together they'll do wrong and sooner or later try to make it right.....they r not bad....as for abhay he is dark, not evil...his is mischevious not bad....Piya, she is curious with a right to be...she might act wrong...but she has a big heart...she understand more than the ppl around here....as for her consern abt Maya....she will eventually makes things right wit Kabir....as of now...she is confused...somehow feel that Kabir is a good guy and shoulder to lean on...so she wants to give it a try....which we know wont end up anywhere...specially that she at the same time is to involved with understanding, exposing Abhay and helping Maya....as for K....Kabir have to be ready to accept that...thats life....but one thing i was surprsied by was his show off to abhay for having piya yesterday....i didnt expect that from kabir...it looked more like piya is some kind of property he just won...so somehow i am not worried much abt Kabir when Piya will give him the final call.....
oh and do i even need to say:....Hats off to sukirti for the awesome portrayal...she makes it so relatable and natural....she is such a pleasure to watch!👏
Edited by HeartEdward - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Wow!! Lovely post!!👏
Even I've never scene the world as black or white. But yes, serials, I do classify characters as black and white.
Forget Pia for the time being. Lets take T. She's an arrogant bimbo, too full of herself with the attitude I don't give a damn to. She's hell bent on ruining Pia's life. But on second thoughts, does she really want to ruin Pia's life? As far as I've seen, she doesn't wish for Pia's ill. Yes, she wants to humiliate her and show her up, but then she does kiddish stuff which, if we look at the larger picture is harmless! Why are we calling all this "We're a hotter couple" business as childish? Because children are innocent and harmless! In fact, its silly if either one of them is taking it more seriously than that!
Coming to Pia and Kabir. Yes, Pia has unknowingly wronged Kabir. She shouldn't have said "yes" to him without having feelings for him. But its clear that it wasn't a well-thought of decision. Pia hasn't realised what are the implications of this. She is wrong. But is she bad? Thats a very debatable question!

P.S. After seeing todays episode I feel that though, Pia doesn't have feelings for Kabir but she likes him enough to give this relationship a chance. After all, Kabir is the first guy whose this close to her. So she feels she can fall in love with him! She just wants time! She doesn't realise that love has a completely different rapport! Unlike, us, she doesn't come from coed. Hence, she can't distinguish between the relationships a girl can have with a guy. Kabir is definitely going to suffer but Pia doesn't want that. Hence, in my eyes, Pia is a good girl!😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Parul! I am so so so glad to see you here! 🤗

Whether a person is good or bad is a very debatable question. Largely enough if the girl in question is Pia. What Pia does, hurts or helps every single character differently. And thus, the answer to the question varies from different characters to different point of views.

If you ask me, she ain't bad. What she is doing is wrong, yes. She is playing with Kabir's emotions when she knows Kabir truely loves her. She doesn't intend to hurt him, to give him a final call, to use him, every action of hers is justifiable. But we can't ignore the effect it has on Kabir, can we? If we look from Kabir's point of view, Pia would come across as a girl who simply used him to spite and envy Abhay.. and that's not what she intended at all. Well, a part of it is.. She is using Kabir to give her 'i have a boyfriend and i dont give a damn about you' attitude in front of Abhay, but she thinks she would fall in love, doesn't she? So all of this doesn't stem from exploiting Kabir's feelings, that's the end consequence.

She is using Kabir, but unintentionally. Yes, she had no right to say yes to him, to go out with him, when she doesn't love him.. But there are a lot of cases where people can easily mistake attraction for love, and one guy/girl in question has to go through heartbreak because of other person's carelessness. That doesn't necessarily make them evil, not when it was unintentional. :)

I think this song would totally suit Pia's feelings in the near future, when she finally has to give up on Kabir.

I can tell how much you hate this,
And deep down inside you know it's killing me.
I can call, wish you well, and try to change this,
But nothing I can say would change anything.
I wish I could save you..
I wish I could say to you..
I am not going anywhere..
I wish I could say to you..
It's gonna be alright.
Edited by Akanksha0701 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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but the question is....does everyone love the person the date??...or is LOVE a part of everyones life even after years of marriage or a relationship?....looking at todays society....my answer is No
ppl often agrees to a relation based on feeling safe and cause of the kindness the other person might show....its rarely love that rules each and every realtion...
As for Piyas case.....her situation involved soooo many more issues than just feelings....and if it was cause of Abhay only...she would have had a show off with Kabir to abhay...rather than Kabirs show off and the whole waist scene yesterday

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